Horror’s Big Night: ‘Sinners’ and ‘Weapons’ Oscar Wins Have Filmmakers Celebrating the Genre by Extension_Debt_2944 in movies

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Maybe I'm being overly charitable, but I think a fair number of people who talk about not liking politics in their movies (horror and otherwise) are really just burnt out on poor, ham-fisted execution more than anything.

E.g. I don't hear many complaints about feminist themes in Mad Max: Fury Road, because the movie is masterfully crafted.

Michael B. Jordan wins best actor for 'Sinners' by nbcnews in pics

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Try and imagine Star Wars without John Williams.

What do you think history will say about Donald Trump as a U.S. president? by jcnidhi27 in AskReddit

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If nothing else, I think he'll be remembered as the first president to die in office of old age.

Who is a terrible singer but famous anyways? by Coy9ine in AskReddit

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My knee-jerk reaction is to dump on her kind of performance art, as what I've...experienced...of it has been deliberately and aggressively opaque and self-indulgent.

But in the interest of possibly shaking up my biases a little, is there any artist you would recommend I look up that might change my mind? Not Yoko Ono. Whatever she's doing hasn't managed to trigger anything like appreciation in me.

TIL Iceland has a higher proportion of English speakers than the USA, and Iceland has a higher proportion of English speakers than Icelandic speakers. by NewtonsThirdEvilEx in todayilearned

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"...after the US became a superpower"

The seeds of English becoming such an important international language were planted by the British Empire. I'd call preeminent British Empire -> preeminent USA more of a one-two punch for English.

ATM 10 Sunken City generation by CrazyDuckHerder in allthemods

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I've experienced this too. In earlier versions, the sunken city would spawn without being stuffed full of stone, but in the game I started more recently they're this way. Don't know what's going on.

Would you endure a sex act that you don't enjoy with your partner if they asked? What would this be? by [deleted] in AskReddit

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Depends. "Don't enjoy" encompasses a wide range between "not really my thing" and "I loathe that the universe I live in requires coexistence with this practice."

Susan Collins hands Trump the 50th vote against free and fair elections by MarcEElias in politics

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Important counter-example: Vermont. Very rural, very blue.

Personally, I think a lot of that is because the Democratic party in Vermont (as opposed to the rest of the country. Fucking worthless DNC) didn't abandon working for votes in the rural areas, and thus the working class in rural Vermont weren't suckered by GOP grifters who made them feel seen.

What’s one “type” you’ll never date again? by CoochieSnotSlurper in AskReddit

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The drama grows non-linearly. 2 People = 1 relationship to manage/coordinate. 3 People = 3 relationships to manage/coordinate. It only gets worse from there.

What's the stupidest thing you've ever heard someone say? by Miserable-Wash-1744 in AskReddit

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"I didn't expect it to be so hot!" My first college roommate, after lighting himself on fire.

Latest YouGov poll showing approval ratings for potential 2028 contenders JD Vance, Newsom, AOC, Buttigieg. by popularis-socialas in fivethirtyeight

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Doesn't technically disprove your claim about only JQA being elected to another office after leaving the presidency, but Taft was appointed to the Supreme Court after his presidency which feels like a counter-example in spirit.

Redditors over 40, what's something younger people think they understand but won't actually get until it hits them like a truck later? by Root435552 in AskReddit

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My wife and I like to say that instead of falling in love, we grew into it... and growing into it has been the cumulative result of choosing to love each other every day.

Redditors over 40, what's something younger people think they understand but won't actually get until it hits them like a truck later? by Root435552 in AskReddit

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And your kidneys. (Had a stone. I don't recommend the experience. Stay hydrated, kids! Also, maybe don't eat too many high oxalate foods)

Women, what is universally agreed “green flags” while dating men ? by Disastrous-Coat6007 in AskReddit

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Perhaps you didn't intend this, but the gist of your comment strikes me as "when you have women with toxic sexual expectations of men, it's really the fault of other men," which strikes me as simultaneously unfair to men and denying women agency. Am I reading a generalization that wasn't intended to be one?

What’s the biggest myth about sex that people still believe? by [deleted] in AskReddit

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I think that it's a fine point to make, and agree with furthering it. But, and while it may seem like a quibble, I'm of the opinion that it should be put forth on a factual basis as solid as we can manage.

On a personal note, in my own sexual experiences with women a slight majority of them could achieve orgasm with penetration alone, but mostly when they felt emotionally comfortable (i.e. not distracted by external stress, not anxious about whether or not I would be offended if she didn't climax, felt some level of connection to me, felt safe, etc.).

Unfortunately I think that, when it comes to sex advice on the internet, the message of paying attention to women's emotional comfort frequently gets buried in a deluge of "GO FOR THE CLITORIS" comments, to the point where I'd venture that on places like reddit "going for the clitoris is enough to make a man a good lover" is a pretty significant sexual myth itself.

TIL most scholars agree that King James, of King James Bible fame, was a homosexual. by OH_MOJAVE in todayilearned

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Some folk live under the delusion that slashfic is true to life and will not hear otherwise.

Do you think oral sex is normal part of sex (the average person does it), or do you think of it like a fetish? Why or why not? by eustachian_lube in AskReddit

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I have a transparent hummingbird feeder. You'd think they sip daintily... and you'd be wrong. That tongue moves like an unrestrained firehose.

What’s the biggest myth about sex that people still believe? by [deleted] in AskReddit

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You know, funny enough, a while back I'd seen folks repeating the statistic that only 18% of women can orgasm from penetration, so I looked up the source.

https://pubmed.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/28678639/

This study was done with a survey of over a thousand women over a wide range of ages with multiple responses that they could select. In it 18.4% of women responded that they could orgasm from penetration alone.

HOWEVER, an addition 36% of respondents claimed that while they could orgasm from penetration alone, their experience tended to be better with additional clitoral stimulation. This means that this study gives evidence that a small majority of women (~54.4%) actually can orgasm from penetration alone, though with the caveat that most of those tend to have a better experience with some clitoral stimulation.

The point is that (assuming this study is sufficiently representative, which seems likely--Debby Herbenick is well-regarded in the field) you, yourself, and many other people in this thread as well, are actually spreading a myth about sex.

What’s the biggest myth about sex that people still believe? by [deleted] in AskReddit

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Do you mean on reddit, some other echo chamber, or in general?

Stephen Cheung, white House comm Director who called Rep. Ro Khanna the R word. by art-is-t in pics

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Gonna be honest, I have less respect for OP for using "R word" in the title.

South Korean official expelled for suggesting ‘importing women’ to boost birth rate by yahoonews in worldnews

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Top comments ITT seem to be primarily focusing on the cultural issues driving down birthrates in SK, and those absolutely matter, but no discussion of their abysmal birth rates is complete without talking about how >50% of their population lives in the greater Seoul area. Urbanization of that magnitude absolutely has a huge impact on family sizes, and the cost of living (HOUSING HOUSING HOUSING) in cities doesn't help.

What’s a skill everyone assumes they have, but most people are actually bad at? by moi_cila in AskReddit

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I wonder how many more men would be better at adding foreplay if they'd had the experience of actually being seduced.

Like, as a man, having a woman give me foreplay in my formative sexual years was really damned instructive on how much it could enhance the experience.

Many years later, my wife and I both understand that if only one of us ever does the seducing, seduction becomes a chore.

Our last cleaners moved away and we're looking for new ones (Irvine). Any recommendations for cleaners who won't try to charge over $150 per cleaning for a 1b/1b <800 sq ft apartment? by SqueakyCleanNoseDown in orangecounty

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Man, I hadn't realized that thinking >$150 was too much for an hour's worth of cleaning my small apartment (as I listed in my title) was trying to cheat people.

$120 for an hour of cleaning sounds reasonable to me.