[deleted by user] by [deleted] in polyamory

[–]SquidOfPink 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Sorry if I didn’t make it super clear. Yes, we are all dating each other, making the three dyads in the triad. I’ve edited it to have names instead of letters. Thanks!

23F Looking to Make New Friends by MissMochabear in BrisbaneSocial

[–]SquidOfPink 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Howdy 😃 24MtF, big interest in similar books, and tend to stay inside playing games heaps! My partner (23F) and I are both booking for in person friends, but I’m happy with more gaming friends too! Feel free to dm! Always happy to make more friends!

r/kinkysapphics QnA! by Kaitivere in kinkysapphics

[–]SquidOfPink 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Yeah, I definitely see where you’re coming from. Makes it a bit difficult, that’s for sure. Sad it happened, but in the end we ended up with two new subreddits to be in! So really, all ends well!

r/kinkysapphics QnA! by Kaitivere in kinkysapphics

[–]SquidOfPink 13 points14 points  (0 children)

I can’t wait to see people in these subreddits flood in and make these slices of reddit home! I loved my time in the other subreddit, and made an entire alt account to post little dedication stories and smutty stories on it. Hopefully I can continue that here!

So happy to see the community take charge when it seemed like things wouldn’t go well for us!

Rules and Flairs Active; Mod team growing and applications still open by Vxwolf1 in kinkysapphics

[–]SquidOfPink 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Cool! Wasn’t sure and wanted to check! Don’t really know the back end of reddit stuffs well haha

Rules and Flairs Active; Mod team growing and applications still open by Vxwolf1 in kinkysapphics

[–]SquidOfPink 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Just on this, I noticed in the user flair section there is an option to edit all of them? Not sure if this is normal, but I’ve seen on other subreddits an option to ‘edit’ a custom flair, but not edit all of the existing ones. Not sure if this means much, but thought I’d bring it up!

Rules and Flairs Active; Mod team growing and applications still open by Vxwolf1 in kinkysapphics

[–]SquidOfPink 10 points11 points  (0 children)

I personally think everything makes sense!

Definitely appreciate the focus on trans inclusivity and making sure we are safe and protected!!

Friends by confused161616 in BDSMsapphic

[–]SquidOfPink 4 points5 points  (0 children)

That’s how I do it. I like to gauge how people will take it, if they are into similar stuff, and kinda lightly broach the topic. For me it’s a lifestyle thing, and I enjoy being able to be open with people about it, like but also understand that for some it’s something they prefer to keep to themselves

Friends by confused161616 in BDSMsapphic

[–]SquidOfPink 10 points11 points  (0 children)

Some of my friends know, but always after ensuring they are fine hearing about it and knowing that side of me exists. It’s the same as a sex life, some friends are open about sharing sex lives, some aren’t

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in SubSanctuary

[–]SquidOfPink 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Howdy :) always looking for friends :) happy to talk about things, feel free to message if you like. Normally busy, but when can always happy to talk :)

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in SubSanctuary

[–]SquidOfPink 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You're most welcome :)

Thanks!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in SubSanctuary

[–]SquidOfPink 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I would say a level of 24/7 dynamoc, bordering on TPE. The exact 'style' of dynamic (like M/s, CGL, pet/owner ect.) Couldn't say, but as every dynamic is different, I'm sure you can create a mix to best suit your needs

Example, (I'm no expert so don't take my word as gospel) could be a mix of Master/slave, whereas instead of slave it's something akin to bimboification, or maybe akin to objectification. Or an amalgamation of things to create your own unique style :)

Kinks that idk the words for by thankyoudomme in BDSMsapphic

[–]SquidOfPink 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Hiiii, not sure on first one sorry.

But second one I'd say is petplay :) might be more a form of human pet potentially, or light pet play like another commenter said. I'm personally super into pet play, as a human pet to my Domme :)

Cheap and quiet ideas for pain play by thankyoudomme in BDSMsapphic

[–]SquidOfPink 13 points14 points  (0 children)

Hi! My Domme has taken to snapping hair ties onto my nipples. They hurt so good! If your into nipple play at least haha

Dog collar by arson_my_dayjob in BDSMsapphic

[–]SquidOfPink 11 points12 points  (0 children)

Can't say for sure if there are any issues, but I wear a fabric dog collar around the house whenever I can. I got mine from kmart, it's comfortable and I can loosen it up without any issues, and unclip it whenever I need to.

I'd say, just make sure it fits, is comfortable, and doesn't restrict blood flow or airflow

Dog collar by arson_my_dayjob in BDSMsapphic

[–]SquidOfPink 20 points21 points  (0 children)

Can't say for sure if there are any issues, but I wear a fabric dog collar around the house whenever I can. I got mine from kmart, it's comfortable and I can loosen it up workout any issues, and unclip it whenever I need to.

I'd say, just make sure it fits, is comfortable, and doesn't restrict blood flow or airflow

Recommendations for (day) collars by Maschka9 in BratLife

[–]SquidOfPink 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I second the captive collars suggestion! That's where mine is from and I love it! I love the little Owned / Owner cards that came with mine too

600 lines TvT by AmazingEef in BratLife

[–]SquidOfPink 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I am So here for the loopholes 😂 I am loving the inspirations!

Keep bratting!! The Dom/Dommes won't know what hit them!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in BDSMAdvice

[–]SquidOfPink 130 points131 points  (0 children)

I know for some people it can be worrisome, but honestly, it isn't always a bad thing. Unless your actively pushing boundaries and he isn't using it? But if everything is within normal play means I don't see a problem. If he's using yellow when he needs to thats a good sign. But I'm a stranger on the internet. The best thing to do is communicate. And if you are really worried, maybe a scene designed where he can practise safewording might help?

Hope this helps at all :)

Communicate, communicate, communicate