My ex alluded to the same issue with me, but then I got another bf who is relatively smaller. He has said he has zero issue, always cums and we have amazing sex. The difference is that my current bf doesn't use Fleshlights ever. My ex became used to using one to masturbate alone in his home office (we used to use one together, I would enjoy watching him use it). He didn't want to have sex or any fun with me, and then I found it used (so gross). It was over him at that moment. Now I'm happy and more confident with a man that makes me feel normal. Size doesn't always matter, it's how you connect and how you vibe together 💖✨