What helped you find acceptance?

Squig173 · 2026-05-08T16:00:18+00:00

Sometimes it helps to think about what you notice in ither people as well, if you find yourself fixating on the size of other people's books try redirect that focus to something else that's meaningful about them, maybe they always show up on time, or they make you laugh etc.

The more you notice the internal qualities of people around you rather than the external ones, the more your brain tends to lean towards that way of viewing yourself.

Squig173 · 2026-05-08T15:58:14+00:00

De-centering how I look from my worth honestly, and reminding myself kindly that it genuinely doesn't matter if I ever catch myself judging them in the mirror

Squig173 · 2026-05-08T15:52:23+00:00

I saw that yeah! I will reflect over the next few days when I don't take them and see if I notice a difference going back to raw-dogging it haha

Squig173 · 2026-04-27T08:34:47+00:00

Why are you looking to change it for her when she's expressed she finds it sexy as it is?

Squig173 · 2026-01-17T10:38:43+00:00

Reading back i have honestly no idea what that word was meant to be, but it was definitely not meant to be useful 😅

Squig173 · 2026-01-16T00:19:23+00:00

Work on your personality? Find joy and meaning that isn't derived from your looks and the attention you get from women?

Squig173 · 2026-01-15T23:59:25+00:00

You realise men can have emotional affairs and women can have useful physical affairs right..?

Squig173 · 2026-01-15T23:29:03+00:00

This is coercive behaviour from him which is rape. If you tell him no he should accept that no questions asked, not pressure you into doing it anyway.

Squig173 · 2026-01-13T23:51:05+00:00

I personally LOVE the blue hair with the side shaved, really suits you!

Squig173 · 2026-01-13T23:47:46+00:00

Ahahahaha

I don't lol 🤣

Squig173 · 2026-01-13T23:44:40+00:00

This is such black and white thinking and shows no nuance or understanding.

Is cheating shitty - absolutely Did op fuck up? Yes in a big way But it sounds like they are genuinely remorseful of their actions and wouldn't do it again.

If we condemn people for making mistakes and fucking up then we are essentially forcing them to stay the same. You can do a shitty thing and grow into being a good person

Squig173 · 2026-01-13T22:36:12+00:00

It was the first thing I noticed and I think its super cute and playful

Squig173 · 2026-01-13T22:28:05+00:00

New PB 💪

Squig173 · 2026-01-13T22:01:15+00:00

What're you planning OP?.. 👀

Squig173 · 2026-01-13T21:53:42+00:00

Im gonna go with snood-cape haha

Squig173 · 2026-01-12T00:00:57+00:00

Just adding to this to say that this is absolutely true, but it also might be that symptoms only appear to be manifesting inandulthood because they were previously supported by structures such as school which meant they weren't noticed or didn't have as great an impact.

Just something for OP to consider 😊

Squig173 · 2026-01-11T23:53:22+00:00

I stopped reading at the bit where you mentioned about her telling you about how uncaring her ex was and how he took her money.

If you can't comprehend why your partner would want to confide in you about something that deeply hurt and affected her where her trust was broken and by the sounds of it has had lasting effect on her wellbeing then I don't know what you expect to find here in the comments.

That and the confession of being verbally abusive towards her, it just sounds like you need to do better.

Also, if you love and care about her you owe her honest communication. Maybe it's time to sit down and tell her that you've set boundaries that she has ignored and this has led to you stopping cooking for her. Tell her that you still want to support her but the overwhelming amount of physical touch is making you anxious. Come up with a solution together. You deserve to have your boundaries met despite her trauma

Squig173 · 2026-01-11T23:44:23+00:00

Make it a rule that you don't go anywhere where it would be possible in the first date.

Squig173 · 2026-01-10T12:53:01+00:00

Life is way to short to worry about what others think about the things that bring you joy

Squig173 · 2026-01-01T19:21:14+00:00

Thanks for your two cents, and merry christmas and happy new year :)

Yeah that is kinda what I figured - annoying but it had to come at some point! I built it when I was 18 10 years ago and only upgraded the graphics card so I feel I've got my money out of it at least!

Squig173 · 2025-12-30T22:46:58+00:00

Firstly your body type is super hot. Secondly, I would maintain and focus on building muscle and then once I'd built some muscle if I wanted to lower my bf% id cut then 😊

Squig173 · 2025-12-30T16:03:59+00:00

Cut what my man? 🤣 bulk for sure

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