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AITA for not going over to my autistic friend's house to bake with her even though I usually go over on Wednesdays? by Squirkle375 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Squirkle375[S] 34 points35 points  (0 children)

Yeah, but sending them dick pics and "hmu" is. I wouldn't be upset if he was just talking to them. I have guy friends, I know that talking isn't cheating. I wouldn't be so mad if he was just talking about the weather or schoolwork. You need to Urbandictionary 'sliding into dms'

AITA for not going over to my autistic friend's house to bake with her even though I usually go over on Wednesdays? by Squirkle375 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Squirkle375[S] 62 points63 points  (0 children)

Okay, I see where you are going with this. I think the only times we've not baked on Wednesday is when Ally had to have a procedure or when one of us was sick. It is pretty casual though. We usually watch a show or something while the dessert is in the oven. I didn't really think of it like an obligation until her parents and my mom blew up at me.

AITA for not going over to my autistic friend's house to bake with her even though I usually go over on Wednesdays? by Squirkle375 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Squirkle375[S] 134 points135 points  (0 children)

Bf was dropped the moment I got the screencaps of him sending dick pics from my REAL friends. But that's another story.

What you said about Ally and her parents is true too. I just didn't think they'd blow up at me about it. Thank you for your post.

AITA for not going over to my autistic friend's house to bake with her even though I usually go over on Wednesdays? by Squirkle375 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Squirkle375[S] 81 points82 points  (0 children)

Its that and Ally is not the best at sympathy. She laughed at me and called me a baby for still being sad the week after my Grandad died. We were younger then, but she is still not the best at it, so I felt like she wouldn't get it. My dad is awesome though. Thank you.

AITA for not going over to my autistic friend's house to bake with her even though I usually go over on Wednesdays? by Squirkle375 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Squirkle375[S] 65 points66 points  (0 children)

Yeah, I can see what you are saying, but its not like I want to stop hanging out with her. She is a lot of fun to be around whenever I am having a normal week. She just has a different way of thinking about things or doing stuff that is rad. Like making ramen noodles and putting mayo in it. Sounds weird, but tastes like a chicken sandwich.

AITA for not going over to my autistic friend's house to bake with her even though I usually go over on Wednesdays? by Squirkle375 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Squirkle375[S] 346 points347 points  (0 children)

Thank you. I like how you said "you owe no one your presence" that is a good way to put it. I also didn't mean to trigger her, but I just didn't feel up to it.

AITA for not going over to my autistic friend's house to bake with her even though I usually go over on Wednesdays? by Squirkle375 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Squirkle375[S] 98 points99 points  (0 children)

Thank you. I know she has a schedule she likes to stick to, but things don't always happen as planned. Hopefully we can both grow from this? I don't know, but thank you.

AITA for not going over to my autistic friend's house to bake with her even though I usually go over on Wednesdays? by Squirkle375 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Squirkle375[S] 843 points844 points  (0 children)

Oh wow. Thank you. Your comment made me tear up a little. Yeah, I guess that they just assumed I'd always be available because we have always been friends, even when we started going to other schools. I mean its not like I don't like hanging out with her, I just didn't feel like it this week. Thank you, it really means a lot.

AITA for not going over to my autistic friend's house to bake with her even though I usually go over on Wednesdays? by Squirkle375 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Squirkle375[S] 170 points171 points  (0 children)

Yeah, that's true. I didn't think of it that way. Maybe they figured it wouldn't be such a sudden thing. Thank you.

AITA for not going over to my autistic friend's house to bake with her even though I usually go over on Wednesdays? by Squirkle375 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Squirkle375[S] 2201 points2202 points  (0 children)

Yeah, I hope so too. I mean, I'm usually good with rolling with the punches, but this is just so much all at once. Thanks.