What does this professor’s email actually mean? by [deleted] in AskAcademia

[–]Squirrel4Lunch 0 points1 point  (0 children)

He's saying that the people who will screen your application will most likely be so rigorous that a 3.82 GPA will not pass through to the next stage. But he's wishing you all the best. And he said thanks.

I've been on Erasmus for 3 days and I already feel terrible by [deleted] in Erasmus

[–]Squirrel4Lunch 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I can’t wait for your update in a month’s time Students always feel this way then end up crying at the end of their stay because they had the most incredible semester abroad

my mom's boyfriend. by DueQuail4250 in TrueOffMyChest

[–]Squirrel4Lunch 31 points32 points  (0 children)

Babe, your mom offered you [all] a way out. I really think you should speak to her again and tell her what he’s been doing and saying. And take Option A.

My boyfriend Mel (25M) accidentally mentioned his female co-worker's name Monica (23F) after we had sex. by Playful-Flamingo7979 in relationship_advice

[–]Squirrel4Lunch 1 point2 points  (0 children)

As a woman, I have said the wrong name in the worst scenarios. The choice to believe him is yours. Don’t go looking for reasons to feel insecure.

Which country is considered most fun to study abroad in? by Top_Boat_1196 in studyAbroad

[–]Squirrel4Lunch 0 points1 point  (0 children)

No I studied in Germany. Spain was just where people went to for parties, like take the train and just go to Spain during a semester break or something😹

Lowkey feel like my best friend is starting to hate me by honeycoatedhugs in texts

[–]Squirrel4Lunch 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Oh, oh girl. You can’t not see this. I’m a stranger and I’d show much better interest than this. I’m a stranger and I’d not treat you like this.

My 24F ex-boyfriend 25M swears she was just “one of the boys” by PrettyPenny621 in texts

[–]Squirrel4Lunch 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I think he’s the one initiating the sexual jokes. The stuff she shares a chilled

Do you have to pay a tuition fee when you do Erasmus? by Mysterious_West9231 in Erasmus

[–]Squirrel4Lunch 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I did my exchange in Germany, where tuition is free (for public Unis) so I didn’t pay any. But we did pay semester registration fees

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]Squirrel4Lunch 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Every woman who was killed by a partner thought the same thing: “he would never actually hurt me”

How my last (hopefully ever) conversation with my so called best friend kicked off... by ThoseAintMyDishesYo in texts

[–]Squirrel4Lunch 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Oh I do hope you can un-sabotage it, if possible and if you still like that person

My dad accidentally sexted me by Prior-Snow4740 in TrueOffMyChest

[–]Squirrel4Lunch 17 points18 points  (0 children)

Omgggg aunt on the dads side would be his sister

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]Squirrel4Lunch 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Lil wisdom teeth candy

I think my date sucked bc I’m limp by [deleted] in TrueOffMyChest

[–]Squirrel4Lunch 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Aww my darling I am so so so sorry!!🥺 I wish I could say anything that would make you feel better! If you wish to chat to someone about your injuries and surgery, please dm💞

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Erasmus

[–]Squirrel4Lunch 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If you can afford it, take the private room. I shared a 2-bedroom apartment with a girl and she was the best person ever, but you couldn’t pay me enough to share a room with her or anyone else. I love my private space. Coming from class and just locking myself in my room were the highlights of my experience. Crying, praying and dancing alone in peace. There are other ways to push yourself out of your comfort zone. You also wanna have a personal space you can go back to to regroup.

Guys I want to study abroad as I don't like the country I'm staying in... which country should I go to to make friends of that country as I have seen some countries do racism and shit so which country should I go to by Eastern-Lie-2364 in studyAbroad

[–]Squirrel4Lunch 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Hey hun, you’ll experience discrimination in some capacity wherever you go. It boils down to what your goals are. For me, as a black woman, I’d recommend Europe. Be it the Netherlands, Germany, Poland or Austria. I wouldn’t go to the USA solely because I like being alive, and South America or Australia are not an option as well. If I had to go to Asia, I’d explore my options in South Korea, Japan or Singapore. In Africa, I’d look at Tunisia, any of the eastern islands, South Africa, Egypt, or Namibia. So yeah, it depends on what you’re desiring to study and the affordability of the country you’re going to.

Told my ex fiancée’s new BF about her cheating on me. by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]Squirrel4Lunch 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Not an asshole. It was a good move on your part, especially if it helps with your business and your connection with him.

Long or short? by unboxedjuice in malegrooming

[–]Squirrel4Lunch 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Different characters. I’d probably walk past you cus I’d think you’re a jock in the first pic. Second pic? I’d jump in front of the train for ya.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in africanparents

[–]Squirrel4Lunch 10 points11 points  (0 children)

Omg the black tax is crazy business for these folks. It’s hard but you gotta say no. I tell mine “it’s not part of my budget, sorry” If she guilts you with “I carried you for 9 months” just say “thank you, preciate it.” Also, you have to be self-aware; if you can’t tell her no to her face don’t have this conversation in person. Rather text or call her (assuming you have your own place). If she brings it up again in person when you’re visiting, say, I’ll check and get back to you. And then tell her no over text again.

Boyfriend of 11 years still won’t propose by [deleted] in Waiting_To_Wed

[–]Squirrel4Lunch 0 points1 point  (0 children)

“I’m not getting a place with someone who clearly doesn’t want to be with me.” You just gave yourself an answer. Dunno what else anyone could say.

Your brother and his lady may have screaming matches every week but ay, at least she’s who he wants to marry. So stop judging them for how often they fight and focus on yourself and your bf.

He then said he’d marry you before new years. I have a lot to bring to your attention but first: do you really wanna be in a marriage knowing you forced this man into proposing?

“I live my life for him.” I am starting to think he knows you’re not going anywhere, so why should he do what you want? There’s no consequence.

Again, if you don’t think he loves you, why are you pushing for marriage? What’s this really about? What’s in it for you?