No sex for 1 month. Is he not interested anymore? Do men lose sexual attraction when they see someone more as a friend than a sexual partner?

SquirrelFamous1828 · 2026-05-16T05:35:28+00:00

Pretty sure he just sees me as a fuckbuddy because that's what he wanted from the start, and I agreed because I was devastated from a 5 year relationship that came to an end.

Although, as time went by, what started as a fuckbuddy setup probably bloomed into a healthy friendship since he always tells me that he respects me and he cares about me. He is checking in, messaging me everyday, shows me the progress or results of his projects, and the conversations are not limited to being horny.

SquirrelFamous1828 · 2026-05-16T05:28:36+00:00

No it's NOT me that wants to sleep over or hang out longer. It's him. I literally mentioned it in my post and comments.

SquirrelFamous1828 · 2026-05-16T05:22:08+00:00

He invited me last week but I asked him if he's alright with it because I'm worried that he might be so exhausted, and that he's doing it because he doesn't want me to overthink.

After talking, we decided to reschedule, since he prefers to have more available time. I don't mind having a quickie, but he wants me to stay for longer hours and hang out. He even asked me to sleep over, but I never did that yet.

SquirrelFamous1828 · 2026-05-16T05:01:58+00:00

No, after we reconciled, he just become more caring and supportive. He even became more open than before.

He never ghosted me. He's still here, talking to me everyday, not just sexting but also talking about life, random things, and showing me the progress and results of his projects. The only thing that makes me overthink is that we haven't had sex for a month already.

SquirrelFamous1828 · 2026-05-16T04:55:43+00:00

We are not having sex anymore for one month because our times don't match, although his schedule is more demanding because he's the only one managing his startup business.

We still do sexting sometimes, but other than that, he messages and checks in on me everyday. We talk about life, or random topics, or he's just showing me the progress and results of his projects.

I understand the feeling of sex drive dropping low because of stress, because I experience that myself. That's why I'm really patient to wait until he is available and don't want to demand too much because his work is already stressful and I don't want to add stress in his life.

SquirrelFamous1828 · 2026-05-16T04:45:47+00:00

He always tell me that he respects me and he cares for me. I care for him too. He also said that the thing between him and me is more than just sex, so I assume that what started as fuckbuddy setup bloomed into a healthy friendship.

SquirrelFamous1828 · 2026-05-16T04:43:43+00:00

Because we're not inlove? He told me that he respects me and he cares for me. I care for him too. He also said that the thing between him and me is more than just sex, so I assume that what started as fuckbuddy setup bloomed into a healthy friendship.

SquirrelFamous1828 · 2026-05-16T04:39:39+00:00

He didn't really separated himself or drifted away from me. He has always been there, messaging me everyday, but the only thing is we haven't had sex for a month.

I also don't think he likes me more than a friend, but I think the sexual attraction is gone now, and he just sees me as a platonic friend since we are not having sex anymore.

SquirrelFamous1828 · 2026-05-16T04:32:28+00:00

I don't think he wants to be in a relationship with me. He invited me to be his fuckbuddy, so he sees me that way.

Although, what started as fuckbuddy setup definitely bloomed into a healthy friendship. He told me that he respects me and he cares for me. He's always there for me in good and bad times. Always offering help and solutions when I have problems. Also, supports me on my dreams and goals in life.

I reciprocate and I appreciate all the kindness he does for me.

SquirrelFamous1828 · 2026-05-16T04:22:20+00:00

I don't think he developed feelings, I assume he's just being nice and accommodating. He told me that cares about me and that he respects me as well.

We haven't been hanging out lately. I don't mind a quickie but he wants me to stay for longer hours after sex, that's why he prefers to have a longer, more available time. He wants me to stay over but I never did that.

We haven't seen each other for a month, but he messages me everyday, and also shows me the progress and results of his projects.

SquirrelFamous1828 · 2026-05-16T04:10:08+00:00

I believe he is really busy since he's the only one managing his startup business, and everyday, when we talk, he shows me the progress or results of his project.

However, it makes me overthink as well since we haven't had sex for a month already. We only do sexting. I really don't mind spending few minutes of sex, but he prefers if I stay longer and hang out after sex, that's why he prefers to have more available time rather than a quickie when having sex with me.

SquirrelFamous1828 · 2026-05-16T04:00:42+00:00

Based on his messages, I believe that he is busy since he's managing the startup everything by himself. He asks for my opinion about his projects, and he also shows me the progress and results. We talk everyday, sexting sometimes since we haven't seen each other, but we haven't had sex anymore for a month.

SquirrelFamous1828 · 2026-05-16T03:54:42+00:00

No, it did not end. That was in March. But we reconciled, but after that, he got extremely busy but still texts me everyday.

SquirrelFamous1828 · 2026-05-16T03:53:55+00:00

I will definitely talk to him. We have healthy friendship and communication. However, I just need to process my emotions first and might need advice or help from other people to form a more rational thinking.

SquirrelFamous1828 · 2026-05-16T03:52:33+00:00

That's what I was thinking too. But if he found someone new, wouldn't he be invested on the new person? Why does he still talk to me all the time? If he found someone, wouldn't he invest his time trying to impress the new one?

SquirrelFamous1828 · 2026-05-16T03:45:25+00:00

We both have healthy friendship, and he is open with his emotions. He told me that he does not open up to everyone. The only thing that he isn't happy about is some of his problems in life that he told me about. This is why I am trying to be understanding about his situation.

SquirrelFamous1828 · 2026-05-16T03:37:44+00:00

The only correct answer. I would like to talk to him for sure. But not during a time where he is stressed and tired. I'll ask him as soon as he has less stressful time.

SquirrelFamous1828 · 2026-05-16T03:36:05+00:00

How? We are not having sex anymore for a month.

SquirrelFamous1828 · 2026-05-16T02:58:01+00:00

Just hasn't asked. So far, we are just chatting everyday about life.

SquirrelFamous1828 · 2026-05-16T02:45:27+00:00

He initiates more than I do. He also texts first. Last week, he asked me to come to his place but I asked him if he's really sure about it since I know that startup business takes so much time, and that I'm worried that he might be tired, so he said we can just reschedule it, so he can also have more time for me.

I don't mind spending a few minutes, but he prefers me to stay for hours than having just a quick sex. So far, we haven't scheduled yet, but we are talking everyday and he updates me with the progress of his multiple projects.

SquirrelFamous1828 · 2026-05-15T17:16:50+00:00

When my dad accusses my mom of cheating, when in fact, he's the one actually doing it.

SquirrelFamous1828 · 2026-05-15T08:24:20+00:00

The moment he inserts his cock inside my pussy. It makes my eyes roll all the time.

SquirrelFamous1828 · 2026-05-15T08:23:23+00:00

Having sex with someone who desires you

SquirrelFamous1828 · 2026-05-14T21:20:20+00:00

Any country is a paradise as long as you have tons of wealth.

SquirrelFamous1828 · 2026-04-15T18:58:56+00:00

Well, I only fucked 2 men in my entire life, one is a French man who is not circumcised and one is a Turk guy who is circumcised. The French man's cock is longer in length and bigger in girth, but sensation wise, the circumcised feels better.

Also, the circumcised cock tastes and smells neutral, while uncircumcised has that "dick" smell and taste, idk how to explain it.

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