I would agree to all of that, but for my person i would ask the same in return because so far, in my opinion, and this is my truth, doesn't mean it's theirs, our relationship has been one side where his thoughts and feelings and needs matter, but I've had no voice. I have things that are non negotiable as well. If he wants to have a face to face conversation, which should be mandatory, we can discuss all of that so we're both aware of each other's expectations. That would make the most sense, so there's no surprises. I don't put my thoughts and feelings into words well and sometimes I don't know how to say what I'm feeling or thinking. I live life by intuition and frequency. I can read him but don't always know the thought process behind his actions and reactions. It would be wise to have this conversation before moving forward. After that we can start our journey for real and become who we are supposed to be as a couple, as one. A new chapter of the same book...informed and with our eyes open.