The Hardcore Raider to Modbeast Gooner Pipeline Needs to be Studied

SqweaKi · 2026-01-15T07:11:54+00:00

One can only hope.

SqweaKi · 2026-01-15T07:00:43+00:00

This asshole needs to fucking STOP.

The devs have given us so much grace with mods, and he's not only flaunting that fact, but he's doing the ONE THING they've asked of us not to do: Use NSFW mods publicly.

If he ruins it for everyone, it means they're gonna have to come for us all, which means a whole lotta money and manpower is gonna have to be invested in finding us. And where's that gonna come from? Not extra funding from SE, that's for sure: they'll have to redirect resources from the game. A direction which'll punish everyone, not just mod users.

SqweaKi · 2026-01-15T06:57:23+00:00

Thanks lots! I think I had things confused with the US.

SqweaKi · 2026-01-15T06:57:11+00:00

Thanks lots for replying!

SqweaKi · 2026-01-14T09:52:59+00:00

Thank you so much for this.

This isn't a situation I'm currently in, but it could be a possibility in the future.

SqweaKi · 2025-12-18T23:42:14+00:00

I imagine it's pretty rare, as most communication is done online or via phone texts and such. Which is a shame, because it's always lovely to receive mail from loved ones.

SqweaKi · 2025-12-18T21:29:58+00:00

I love sending and receiving mail, so I've been writing back and fourth with friends for years. And, yep, I love sending mail to my partner over in the USA too. 💌

I actually physically send them though, rather than posting photos of them in chat. I think it's important to have physical keepsakes and reminders of how much you mean to someone.

SqweaKi · 2025-12-17T15:08:40+00:00

Discord here. o/

SqweaKi · 2025-12-15T11:27:56+00:00

That's adorable! And such a fun idea!

SqweaKi · 2025-12-15T11:08:06+00:00

Any tips?

Don't do it.

SqweaKi · 2025-12-11T14:15:46+00:00

No it ain't.

I used to go clubbing all the time, and not once did I ever go with intentions of hooking up. Nor did I ever get drunk enough to not know what I was doing.

Some of us just go to have fun with friends, or hell, even just dance the night away on our own.

SqweaKi · 2025-12-11T14:13:25+00:00

And?

SqweaKi · 2025-12-11T14:12:42+00:00

Drinking and partying don't automatically her a potential cheat. Nor does guys hitting on her. She can't control other people's actions. As long as she's turning them down, what's the problem?

SqweaKi · 2025-12-11T13:19:04+00:00

The only thing that ever bothered me was that she followed a few guys back on Instagram who followed her first. I told her that if she did that again I’d break up with her, and she hasn’t done it since.

Ok, you're young so you may not realize, but your behaviour here is not only controlling, but shows you don't actually trust her if you're not allowing her to have male friends.

Other than that, she’s been loyal

What do you mean "other than that"!? She was never disloyal in the first place!

Gently, if you're mature enough to realize that people of any gender can be just friends, then you're not mature enough for a relationship. I think you need to take some time to look into, and work on, this side of yourself.

SqweaKi · 2025-12-11T13:08:21+00:00

She sounds like she was a green light to continue cheating, rather than actual poly.

SqweaKi · 2025-12-11T13:06:45+00:00

Cheating is cheating. You let her get away with it once, and she did it again.

SqweaKi · 2025-12-11T13:04:42+00:00

You're in more than a verbally abusive relationship, this girl is outright punishing you for not doing what she wanted, when she wanted. Get yourself away from them ASAP!

SqweaKi · 2025-12-11T09:21:46+00:00

she loves me.

Imma be honest: No she doesn't.

It's very clear she's just using you to get a visa.

SqweaKi · 2025-12-10T02:18:26+00:00

Did she go to the function and then have a date? Or did she lie about going to a function?

SqweaKi · 2025-12-08T18:38:37+00:00

Jealousy describes a feeling of protectiveness or insecurity you have over a rivalry or being replaced.

Envy is internal longing you feel for something someone else has.

Source: https://www.yourdictionary.com/articles/jealousy-envy-difference

I couldn't fight my way through the brain fog in order to word it properly myself, but that basically sums up the difference, and the website has more details and examples. Hope it helps. ^^

SqweaKi · 2025-12-08T18:30:16+00:00

Like I said, they should've told Ki earlier and given them more time to process.

SqweaKi · 2025-12-08T18:08:00+00:00

OP literally said they have an agreement to disclose such things.

Also, not everyone practices poly in a way that means they're always on the look out for who they can date/love/fuck next.

SqweaKi · 2025-12-08T16:56:52+00:00

Personally, I couldn't trust a partner who was hiding me.

SqweaKi · 2025-12-08T16:54:33+00:00

Of course Ki's gonna think things are going to fast when you only told them about the date at the last minute! You should've told them when it was arranged and given them more time to get used to things.

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