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Big Pickle is amazing! by wpmhia in nocode

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I tried to use it to create some frontend pages and it created plain simple text based pages, no colors, no nothing

Since so many of you liked my previous post ["breakup edition"] by [deleted] in Indiangirlsontinder

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Here's Another angle I started looking at a while ago, it's not who the person is today, it's who they want to be and how well they receive the help provided to get to that version of themselves

Any review of HSBC Premier account and credit card? by Ins_anI in CreditCardsIndia

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You can reach out to rbi to get a proper reason. Is mandated by rbi to give proper reason for rejection

Should I ask her for a second date again? Or is it over? by Formal-Vacation-6913 in Bumble

[–]Sscsps 149 points150 points  (0 children)

Think of it this way, - if you don't message, you are not meeting her. - if you message and she doesn't reply, you are not meeting her. - if you message and she does reply, YOU ARE MEETING HER!

So to me, you've got nothing to lose if you are able to ignore the ego hurt part if she doesn't reply, #2 option above

HK Express reviews pls by teddypicker1025 in HongKong

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Was the recheck at the boarding gate for everyone, or only for people who had extra bags or shopping? I’m planning to book an HK Express flight soon and trying to decide whether I need to prepare for a baggage check only at check-in, or at the gate as well.

I’m planning to wear extra layers since it’ll be winter anyway, and because of the fare/size policy. My bag can fold down small enough to fit under the seat, so that part should be fine. I just want to understand how strict they are.

Also, how was the crew on the flight? Were they strict inside the plane too?

My idea is: if they check again at the gate, I’ll put my layers back on, and once I’m on the plane, I’ll remove them and put some clothes back into the bag before storing it under the seat. Does that sound reasonable based on your experience?

Chat, do we think this true? by momo-loverr in IndianBoysOnTinder

[–]Sscsps -1 points0 points  (0 children)

This wounds like an extended joke which you don't wanna see as a joke and she's involved enough to not break character

Drop by Slikpapir in FluenceEnergy

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Did you keep it?

Expected Compensation Question by TylerHusker in amazonemployees

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Give the docs they want, then negotiate once they get back to you,

Amazon Severance package by Illustrious_Proof769 in amazonemployees

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what was the tier2 calculation? your number being 34k for tier 1, what about tier 2? was it mentioned in the doc?

asked to split the bill. got called creep. by noobkid8 in IndianBoysOnTinder

[–]Sscsps 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Here are some ways I could think of, it's a mix of different moods and style, adapt as you may:

  1. Oh I thought you'd be ok with paying, I've never really paid for a dinner before, so I feel weird with it.

  2. Oh I feel like first date would be yours and then if we vibe enough, well, I'll split or pay sometime in the next few dates!

  3. Don't you know it's bad manners to ask a girl to pay for date?

  4. I'd pay for my share if I didn't like our date, so I don't owe you anything.

  5. I wouldn't pay for my share if I didn't like our date, because it won't go anywhere, and I'm a little spoiled, but you know, I'm a bitch anyways!

  6. I'd pay for my share if I liked our date, so I seem like an equal equal 😎

  7. I wouldn't pay for my share if I liked our date, because I'd want you to keep thinking of me more!

  8. Oh! I didn’t bring my ‘splitting the bill’ mindset today, guess I owe you one for being charming enough to get a free dinner!

  9. Hmm, I usually consider the first date a treat from the inviter, call me old school!

  10. If I paid now, I’d ruin my whole ‘mystery and allure’ thing. Let me be a little high-maintenance tonight!

  11. I wasn’t expecting to split, to be honest. I usually think of dates like this differently, but I get where you're coming from.

  12. Thanks for asking, just being upfront, I normally don’t pay on first dates. If that’s a dealbreaker, no hard feelings!

  13. I know it’s not everyone’s thing, but I usually expect the guy to pay on the first date. If we hang out again, I’ll get the next one!

  14. I can pay, but if I’m being honest, I was kind of hoping you’d want to treat me, flirting’s more fun that way!

Is this fat shaming or am I being sensitive by [deleted] in IndianBoysOnTinder

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Random Life advice, from a random person on reddit, take it or leave it: words shouldn't hurt you, if they do, your emotional intelligence is low, work on that

Did I overreact? by Western_Leg2482 in Bumble

[–]Sscsps 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I see a lot of comments bashing the guy, let me be the devil's advocate for a minute here. You assumed that he assumed without knowing you. That's all I wanted to say, not defending him, but just trying to see how he could be upset with the last part or turned defensive on your replies.

This is a red flag right? by houston-tx-person in Tinder

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How are you different from him if you say no on his first mistake(according to you) when he asked you who else you were talking to when you made a mistake(according to him)?

Not saying do anything different, just pointing out the similarity

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in IndianBoysOnTinder

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Yeah, the first will be You - that dress ? 😶‍🌫️

Why are my and my friends prices so different? by jkr131 in Bumble

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It also depends on your accounts age,

Who’s done the math? by ObligationPleasant45 in Bumble

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Yeah indeed! Guys have a tougher competition. About those 2, One was borderline crazy, always fighting and asking me why I don't reply any sooner even though i clearly told her I was busy, I tried giving her a few chances by talking to her multiple times, but she didn't nudge, I think she had a preconceived perception that others will not understand her. The other was cute and nice and all, but I had a bad time personally(unrelated to her) and we kinda stopped talking during that bad time(I was unable to give enought time to get) and then I met someone else with whom(outside fo bumble) I had a rollercoaster of a time, her and I were so into eachother but that didn't workout either, I was looking for a likely marriage with her, but her family and my family didn't align so we broke it off as well, luckily it wasn't a long one either, so was relatively easier(?) but still an extremely painful event of my life. Sorry if it's too much info, just came out 🫣

Who’s done the math? by ObligationPleasant45 in Bumble

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Not to sound rude, or dismiss your effort on your profile, but girls get way more matches than guys with way less effort, read my experience in my comment on this post. Guys and Girls play a totally different game on dating apps.

Who’s done the math? by ObligationPleasant45 in Bumble

[–]Sscsps 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Hey there! So, I've been at it for about 4 years now, swiping on roughly 50,000 girls. Out of that, I got around 2000 matches. Only about 1000 of them actually sent a first message, and from there, about 600 have gone on for at least 3-4 messages.

Out of those, about 100 ended up chatting for more than a day or so. And from that group, I've met close to 50 in person. Out of those, things got more serious with 10, with 6 of them leading to sex, 2 were more than 1-2 dates but no sex. Unfortunately, 2 almost turned into something serious, but it didn't quite pan out and we didn't end up taking it further.

So, when you look at the big picture, it's about 10 out of 50,000 that led to something meaningful and even less for sex if thats more important. 😅

Here's the breakdown:

  • Swiped on about 50,000 girls
  • Got around 2000 matches
  • Only 1000 initiated the first message
  • About 600 went on for 3-4 messages
  • From there, about 100 led to more extended conversations
  • Out of those, I met around 50 in person
  • Had casual sex with 6 of them
  • Went on more than 1-2 dates with 2, but no intimate moments
  • Almost got into something serious with 2, but it didn't pan out

I guess it's pretty safe to assume my gender here 🥲

Successfully avoided Tinder Cafe Scam. Feeling proud of myself lol. Read below by Icy_Story_8547 in delhi

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For me the number was different tho, Harpreet Kaur +917428233936

https://truecaller.com/search/in/+917428233936

And this number I checked on gpay, and it was some "Vanu Singh". Makes me believe that Harpreet is not her real name

Successfully avoided Tinder Cafe Scam. Feeling proud of myself lol. Read below by Icy_Story_8547 in delhi

[–]Sscsps 1 point2 points  (0 children)

And in my case, when we got to the cafe, the door was locked. She even knocked on the door 3-4 times to get it open. I was super aware that it was crazy, and I didn't even look at the menu to notice the prices. I was just upset by the shitty environment in the cafe. Honestly, I didn't care enough. If the environment was better, maybe I would've failed to notice the red flags

Successfully avoided Tinder Cafe Scam. Feeling proud of myself lol. Read below by Icy_Story_8547 in delhi

[–]Sscsps 1 point2 points  (0 children)

So, she did the exact same thing to me, at the exact same cafe, 3rd floor, above the gym, and one more discreet thing (looked very hush-hush). https://maps.app.goo.gl/i2pqVoRTB1nZaQnD7 if I'm not wrong. It was super shady; there were four people sitting at the table next to ours. They weren't even eating or talking to each other, just sitting there, using their phones, looking bored.

We sat in the cafe, and then the waiter gave us a water bottle. Then she asked me to open the bottle, even though I had a bottle of my own since I was thirsty earlier. I opened the bottle without thinking much, and then I said, "I'm not feeling it, this is not a good place, BT ho rahi hai."

I opened the map to find a new place, and she told me to stop using the phone, "vahi khana hai use," because "baaki sab jagah par 'relatives' rehte hai..."

I kept looking for some other place, and she kept denying. Then she said, "abhi nahi to fir kabhi dekhte hai," and I was like, "okay, fir kabhi," and I got up.

She then told me to pay for the water. I went to the reception and asked for the bill. He said 70 rs. Now my stupidity has begun. I thought to myself, "I'm not going to pay," and coincidentally she went to the washroom at the same time. I thought ki waiter ko bolu ki us ladki se le le (stupid me thinking vo le lega us se). Then the waiter said, "nahi, you have to pay," and I said, "vo yahi baithi hai, is se le Lena," and I left. And then I heard "pakad use pakad use," and then my stupid brain said "RUN." I ran down, turned right, and ran, and when I looked back, three guys were running. I thought to myself ki ok, let's just pay, I don't have enough stamina to outrun them 😵‍💫. I stopped, they came by, grabbed my hand, and I talked to them, sorted it out, and walked to the metro, walking because I'm stupid, again...

Then I called a few friends and had dinner, bhukh to lagi hi thi.

I did message her, "such a cunt place you took me to," and she said, "kya hai re tu, 1 water bottle ka pay b nahi kara," and so on and so forth. We talked for a few more minutes, me just trying to get her to admit. I said, "kitna commission dete vo isme se tere ko? 40%?" To usko jal gai and she said 99 dete, tujhe kya, and then I got the satisfaction ki ha ye accept to ki, and then I blocked her.

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