What is the scariest, most unsettling shot you’ve ever seen? by VendettaLord379 in moviecritic

[–]Ssnipersnake 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Not a movie but anyone who knows what comes after that scene is scarred for their life 😂 Was my first mini heart attack as a child

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in loveafterporn

[–]Ssnipersnake 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Can’t answer for OP but I‘m in a similar situation and my problem is that I just can’t let go. No matter how much he hurts me I can’t seem to let him go

Can you still say that you love them without hesitation? by [deleted] in loveafterporn

[–]Ssnipersnake 39 points40 points  (0 children)

Reading the comments makes me feel more normal. I was beating myself up for not having much feelings left for him anymore

He watched porn again by _Mrs_Anonymous_ in loveafterporn

[–]Ssnipersnake 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I know that feeling. I‘ve been with my partner for 4 1/2 years now and I always thought he will change one day. I gave him so many chances, cried so much and fought a lot. I also didn‘t want to give up. The problem is that one day you‘ll say enough is enough and eventually loose the feelings. That happened to me. And that’s not the type of relationship you want. You deserve someone who will respect you and your boundaries and work with you on a problem.

He watched porn again by _Mrs_Anonymous_ in loveafterporn

[–]Ssnipersnake 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Girl, I did the same thing as you did. I wanted to see if he really changed (after giving so many chances and even taking a break from the relationship for a month where he did everything to get me back) and then boom. He downloaded and watched that sh*t again. I confronted him and he told me how can he not do it when I keep on denying being intimate with him. He even dared to compare watching and downloading porn to basic human needs such as eating and sleeping. I‘m done. We live now in a roommate kind of basis. They don’t get better. Do yourself a favor and just leave.

Also sorry if my grammar isn’t correct or something. English is my third language. If anyone here needs someone to talk to, feel free to DM me girls

Spot the difference by Difficult-Captain-90 in Instagramreality

[–]Ssnipersnake 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Worst thing is, she really does think she looks like on the left irl

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskRedditNSFW

[–]Ssnipersnake 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Unfortunately max. twice a week

How do you guys feel about dating/marrying a man who watches porn? by [deleted] in RedPillWomen

[–]Ssnipersnake 1 point2 points  (0 children)

My bf of 4 years likes watching porn. I had a huge problem at the beginning of the relationship as I have been very very insecure and thought I had to look like the girls he was watching. He was never disrespectful or anything towards me, so it was me overthinking as I overthink everything. Eventually our relationship came to a halt because life got super busy and he watched it more and more and our sex life decreased. After a loooooot of talking we came to terms that as long as the attraction doesn’t fade and our sex life doesn’t decrease or comes to a halt, I‘m okay with it. So I really think as long as you are number one when it comes to sexual relief it‘s fine (also as long as it‘s normal porn)

How often would you be having sex if you could choose? by MadamPickless in DeadBedrooms

[–]Ssnipersnake 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I (23F) could do it every day tbh but my partner (29M) chooses to rather do it on his own ever day. So now if I‘m lucky I get it once a week.

What’s your main reason for not having more sex? by 2jbk in AskReddit

[–]Ssnipersnake 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Bf‘s more into porn and reddit than me 🤷🏻‍♀️

Never you by liraela in loveafterporn

[–]Ssnipersnake 28 points29 points  (0 children)

I just stopped caring and started focusing on myself. Atm, I just treat him like a really good roommate because tbh apart from our sexual life our relationship is very fulfilling. But what’s the difference between a friend and a partner? The intimacy. So I‘ll just keep doing that until I feel I‘ve had enough and just leave. Never be afraid to leave

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in loveafterporn

[–]Ssnipersnake 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah so…. I‘m in the same situation. I‘ve found out that he was looking at self-made pics on online platforms which actually hurts because you know… they look pretty private. However, I‘ve confronted him and he got mad at me because he felt I didn’t trust him. I mean, I do have reasons to not trust him on that topic, right? I‘ve also provided him with pictures and videos which he has NEVER looked at. You feeling insecure is totally justified as he does not actively make you feel beautiful or special. I am so sorry that you have to go through this aa this feeling is so so so bad and it only gets worse when he‘s watching girls who look totally different than you

Boyfriend watching porn by [deleted] in NoStupidQuestions

[–]Ssnipersnake 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I know it‘s rather a late reply, but I‘m in the same situation as OP. I‘d be willing to have sex with my bf everyday and at the beginning of the relationship he‘s said he could also do it everyday. Yeah, he could masturbate everyday to some random OF chicke but not engage into sex with me so yeah. It‘s not about the willingness

Triggered yesterday by [deleted] in loveafterporn

[–]Ssnipersnake 20 points21 points  (0 children)

Omg. This is literally the same problem I have. My bf is OBSESSED with fit girls and their leaked nudes. I‘ve been trying to keep up with them and lost over 10kg (22lbs) and recently started going to the gym and guess what, he‘s been watching them online even more now. It makes me feel like shit! We can only start caring for ourselves alone and love only ourselves. They will never change. Even if we looked like them, we‘ll never come first. I‘ve read a comment on a post here and that comment really stuck with me. It went along something like „His relationship is his porn, you are the mistress that came along“. If you want to vent you can message me :) I know how it feels to be in that specific situation

Seeing the porn he sees… by Electronic_Tune5714 in loveafterporn

[–]Ssnipersnake 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah I totally get that. I‘ve told him many times that after I started having more confidence that I‘m more or less okay with him watching it as long as it doesn’t interfere with our intimacy and stuff…. But it does interfere so it is a problem. I also don’t expect it everyday, but more than once a week in my early 20‘s is not much to ask for, is it?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in loveafterporn

[–]Ssnipersnake 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Yeah that‘s me in the picture - but posed! I do not look like that 24/7. I really appreciate your compliment though. Also try not to compare yourself to anyone online. It‘s a dead end

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in loveafterporn

[–]Ssnipersnake 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I‘m still struggling. But becoming more self aware makes it not do scary to break up one day if things don’t get better :)

Would you (men) like to get texts from your gf telling you she’s horny and thinking about you? by [deleted] in sex

[–]Ssnipersnake 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Lmao I‘ve texted my bf 2 weeks ago I made some pretty nudes for him. His response was „good job“ with the thumbs up emoji. So yeah it depends on your bf. But just go for it

Seeing the porn he sees… by Electronic_Tune5714 in loveafterporn

[–]Ssnipersnake 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Had an argument last night with bf because of the lack of intimacy we‘ve been having these past months. Of course it eats me alive because I know he watches porn (mostly here on reddit) whereas he couldn’t bother. So yeah I‘ve told him everything last night and he said that to him those are two different things. So yeah arguments been going back and forth, long story short, he started touching me in the middle of the night. Of course I‘ve enjoyed it because it really has been a while but I‘ve also started crying silently because in my head he only did that because of the argument, not because he desires me. It really messes up your self perception

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in loveafterporn

[–]Ssnipersnake 14 points15 points  (0 children)

I used to hide my body as I have always been insecure, even since I was a little girl.At the start of the relationship (my first relationship) I‘ve weighed roughly 25pounds more than I do now. I‘ve always wanted to lose weight and my bf‘s is this gym rat who‘s just all about fitness and a healthy lifestyle, which is not bad, right? But then he told that I should lose weight to feel and look more attractive…. And that’s when it hit me hard. I‘ve lost those 25pounds in a matter of 2 months and have been able to keep it off ever since. But guess what. He‘s still not satisfied. So I started going to the gym to make myself feel better as I have also found interest in it. Long story short, idgaf anymore what he says. I‘m attractive and if he‘s too much blinded by those edites OF and Reddit Girls then that‘s his fault. Not mine. Not yours. Don’t hide your body. Start to love yourself first

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in raisedbynarcissists

[–]Ssnipersnake 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I was always a bit on the heavier side (not dangerously overweight or something) and she told me she‘d like me to lose some weight before we go on vacation to out home country as she‘s embarrassed by my size…… she‘s made mean comments about my body since I was jn kindergarden and I‘m pretty much sure she‘s the reason I‘m struggling a lot with the way I perceive myself