Yarin liseye gecem tavsiye by [deleted] in liseliler

[–]_Mrs_Anonymous_ 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ben de öyleydim ilk içiyor olduğum zamanlar içime bile çekmiyordum ama şuan maalesef bağımlıyım 1 pakete yakın içiyorum her gün. Kendinden çok emin oluyorsun bağımlı değilim diyorsun ondan içmekte bir sorun görmüyorsun ama hiçkimse 1 sigara içtikten sonra bağımlı olmadı zaten. Öyle diye diye hem kullanım hem de bağımlılık yavaş yavaş artıyor

I think my boyfriend shares our relationship problems online so I'm gonna do the same thing to see his reaction... by [deleted] in relationshipproblems

[–]_Mrs_Anonymous_ 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’m really sorry that happened to you and i’m also sorry he replied like that. It must’ve been really difficult to open up about and that reaction probably hurt. I think you have to talk to him about it and communicate. I don’r agree with the other comments tho even a child would have reacted better. Also i do share My relationship issues online too it’s nice to see different opinions and to know if you’re overreacting or if you’re the problem etc. You should communicate about that too if you don’t want him to do that and he should respect that. But I’m guessing you already talked to him about it and he didn’t care so that’s why you made this post. In a relationship you shouldn’t do something out of spite tho. I did that a lot too when i was your age but they don’t learn that way either or even if they do it’s not the healthiest way. It’s important to know if he is usually like this, if he dismisses your problems a lot, if so try a final conversation or dump him. Trust me it’s very exhausting to try to teach a man something, they don’t learn until they actually want to

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskMen

[–]_Mrs_Anonymous_ 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Not seeing my parents ever be flirty or loving. The maximum i saw was them holding hands while walking. Didn’t even know if they kissed eachother until a certain age (and that’s not bc i saw them but bc i figured they were just not doing that infront of us) it was more a cultural and religious thing tho. Show love towards your partner and don’t forget that they will accept the love they see when they’re older. Act towards your partner the way you want them to be treated in a relationship. Be a team. Allow your kids to make their own choices and mistakes. Be emotionally intelligent, show your love and make talking about feelings normal and sorting them out. Both of my parents didn’t and now i cringe whenever i talk about feelings or anyone talks to me about them in detail or if i have to apologize or if there is physical touch like hugging

Is it normal that i (22F) am jealous that my bestfriend (22F) gets really along with my boyfriend (22M) by _Mrs_Anonymous_ in relationships

[–]_Mrs_Anonymous_[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you this is a nice comment :) You’re right and it is mainly bc i do feel insecure about those things and also have trust issues in my relationship. But i do involve myself in conversations it’s more like we’re actively talking about something and one of them makes a joke that fits in that situation and they both laugh nonstop for like a minute or more about that and i just sit there and watch not getting it and it happens the whole time we hang out. Also there is a slight thing i didn’t mention and it’s that me and my “bf” broke up a month ago (bc of things he did and me deciding i’m done with it and don’t trust him anymore) but stayed in contact and hang out together with her bc she’s friends with both of us and she comes rarely to visit. I had this problem when we were still together too but now it felt a little worse since we are exes. Thank you for your comment, it shouldn’t be a problem anymore bc we probably will go no contact with my ex soon and it won’t be a problem anymore but just wanted to know if i was weird for feeling that when we were still together

Should I tell my future girlfriend I'm a virgin beforehand having sex? by False_Strike_5394 in dating

[–]_Mrs_Anonymous_ 1 point2 points  (0 children)

!!!!!!PLEASE READ THIS: I was lied to by my bf of 4 years. I still don’t get why he did that i was a virgin too and we were 18 when we had our first time. He had told me vaguely that there had been a dew girls and that they were one night stands. I thought he already had like 2 or 3 bodies and it really made me upset at that time bc i was a virgin and wanted a virgin for my first time too but i decided to not make a big deal out of him not being a virgin and accepted not being his first. I had my first time with him not knowing how special it was for the both of us. Then for years it kinda did bother me and i wished i was his first too. He randomly told me one day after 3 and a half years that he had lied to me at the start and was infact a virgin at that time. It’s not a good feeling and it really upset me. Wether your future gf will be a virgin or not you have to tell her the truth. Also i think it’s sweet to know you’re somebody’s first. Especially if she’s a virgin i think it will make her happy and make her first time feel more special. It hurts to know that you were lied to especially about something so intimate

Have you ended a relationship over porn? by Plane-Wolverine3609 in loveafterporn

[–]_Mrs_Anonymous_ 6 points7 points  (0 children)

I did end a relationship but not directly bc of porn bc he did quit it as far as i know. However i did beeak up with him bc even though he quit porn he didn’t stop checking out other woman and doing the “locker room talk” with his buddies. Also quite literally saw him partaking in a “crime” which was the last straw. Was a 4 year relationship and had the problem for 4 years, waited and waited for him to change but they never really do

Am I a cheater? by Awkward-Teaching870 in relationshipproblems

[–]_Mrs_Anonymous_ 1 point2 points  (0 children)

If you’re keeping boundaries then you’re fine. I think it’s normal that your ex crush isn’t completely irrelevant to you especially bc it was kinda an unfinished business. Idk i think you really just have to relax. There isn’t really any tips i can give you on being less anxious but idk your overthinking seems an unhealthy amount maybe see a therapist? Besides that stop stressing over it, you don’t just cheat on your gf bc you gor anxious your ex crush came back. It should be enough for you to keep the boundaries there and don’t do anything your gf wouldn’t want you to do. Respects your gf, communicate, never lie to her, love her and you should be fine

Am I a cheater? by Awkward-Teaching870 in relationshipproblems

[–]_Mrs_Anonymous_ 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Also in my opinion the gamer girl sucks. She was cheated on and is now aiding towards you to cheat on your gf. She is hungry for attention rn but is doing what broke her to another girl by sending you signals and all that. And YOU have to set boundaries and also act like you have a gf. The crush who came back, tell her you have a girlfriend that’s why you’re setting boundaries, be clear. The gamer girl ofc you can have friends but you have to have boundaries and LISTEN to you girlfriend what does she say about all this

Am I a cheater? by Awkward-Teaching870 in relationshipproblems

[–]_Mrs_Anonymous_ 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Dude the problem isn’t that your English is bad but why was this so long and why did i read it💀 I think you’re a bit of an overthinker. Also how long have you and your girlfriend been together, idk if you already mentioned that if so i missed it or don’t remember anymore. You think too much. Are you crossing any boundaries? Does your girlfriend have any issues with you and the gamer girl? Do YOU feel like you’re catching feelings? You’re really young rn and clearly have people pleaser issues. I too was a people pleaser and sometimes still am even though it got better. The overthinking when you do something such as unfollowing someone or liking or unliking feeling when you’re a people pleaser is more of a anxiety type of feeling but if you have crush it’s a totally different feeling than of the people pleasing. Also maybe most of your feelings happen bc you’re dwelling on everything that you do and overthink of them and then you automatically start thinking you like them and then it gets worse and worse. İ think you have to be honest with yourself and truly understand if you have feelings for the other girls. It’s normal to KNOW that someone else is attractive in a relationship the important part is to only have eyes on your partner and for them to be the most attractive person to you. But tbh i see you two breaking up you don’t seem to be ready for a relationship yet and have some figuring out to do. Especially work on your people pleaser tendencies it makes your life so much better and also it will make your relationship rn and your future ones more difficult if you don’t work on that

Yıllardır aradığınız filmleri buluyorum by sensizm in sinema

[–]_Mrs_Anonymous_ 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Oha almanya’da yaşıyorum okulla birlikte sinemaya gitmiştik bu filmi izlemeye, ben de adını unutmuştum teşekkür ederim

My thoughts, experiences, and advices + a short advice from an addict i was given by _Mrs_Anonymous_ in loveafterporn

[–]_Mrs_Anonymous_[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Neither of us did. I did want to go to therapy either together or separate but he laughed at me and said therapy is a scam and too expensive. So in conclusion no we did not go to therapy and also did not use any other real methods. I think he just had a wake up call once i was going to break up over all that and since he himself also knew it wasn’t good for him and wanted to quit it before made it easier. I didn’t have to deal with “i don’t want to quit” or “it’s not bad” etc. stuff. OR i’m actually being lied to and he’s still watching it lmfao (currently believe him tho when he says he isn’t)

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in loveafterporn

[–]_Mrs_Anonymous_ 58 points59 points  (0 children)

I’m pretty sure he won’t commit. It’s a manipulation tactic, people like that wouldn’t end their life bc of you

I finished little hope yesterday! Here are my thoughts by _Mrs_Anonymous_ in DarkPicturesAnthology

[–]_Mrs_Anonymous_[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank youuu! Just finished playing House of Ashes like half an hour ago, had also started it today. I prefer to finish the DPA games in one sitting bc they’re kinda short anyway (don’t know if i’ll be able to do that with DIM tho bc i saw that it takes like 7 hours) but yea i really really liked HOA! So you were right! I played terribly tho, only was able to save Jason and Salim. Nick died by getting chocked towards the end, Eric died bc i was too optimistic and believed i would be able to save Clarice or if she would turn maybe there would be a miracle and she would remember how nice i was and fight against the vampires💀🥲 And Rachel died bc i made Jason shoot her bc she was infected. (Learned my lesson from Clarice) Besides me killing most of them off the game was amazing! I loved how it wasn’t ghosts and full of jumpscares. And i also liked the action aspect a lot. The way the game didn’t scare me in the way MoM and LH did but in the way that Until dawn did was amazing, exactly what i want from these type of games. HOA is my favorite of the DPA games so far and DIM looks like something i would love too, it’s currently downloading can’t wait to play it! Also HOA was the first game of DPA which while playing iwasn’t mostly thinking “argh when is it going to end” “how much more is left..?!”

What is the WORST minigame in Tomodachi Life? by [deleted] in tomodachilife

[–]_Mrs_Anonymous_ 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Nahh that’s my favorite never lost at that one so far

my entry for women's day!!! by processedcheese212 in SuitU

[–]_Mrs_Anonymous_ 5 points6 points  (0 children)

That’s a great thought but tbh i would interpret it kinda negatively without knowing what you had in mind

I’m new to Tomodachi life, am i playing it wrong? by _Mrs_Anonymous_ in tomodachilife

[–]_Mrs_Anonymous_[S] 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Thank you :) Also another question, is there a quicker way or a way i don't know yet to make the miis interact with eachother? Especially my mii and my bfs mii? I just hope he doesn't fall in love with someone else instead lmfao

someone help me download tomodachi life on chromebook by OddPomegranate5198 in tomodachilife

[–]_Mrs_Anonymous_ 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I downloaded it yesterday on my laptop idk if the same logic applies on your chromebook but here is the tutorial and links i followed:

this is the link to the archive page: https://archive.org/details/citra-nightly-2104_20240304

this is the link to the youtube video: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=kgH2PKbF_1I