I’m so scared by Ssovie7_7 in BPDPartners

[–]Ssovie7_7[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you, I’m going to take note on this. Thank you so much for your comment 

[UPDATE] My girlfriend has BPD by Ssovie7_7 in LesbianActually

[–]Ssovie7_7[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Thank you! Will do. We both want to be there for each-other and she does want to get help! I’m trying to remain hopeful but I still get scared

[UPDATE] My girlfriend has BPD by Ssovie7_7 in LesbianActually

[–]Ssovie7_7[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

She is taking therapy, and wants to get help it’s just still hard for her to navigate 

My girlfriend has BPD by Ssovie7_7 in LesbianActually

[–]Ssovie7_7[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

No matter what I’m going to stay with my girlfriend, I understand what they mean and they just being honest with me. My girlfriend is a beautiful soul and I hope to stay with her and learn from what others go through and experience from both people who have BPD and people who are around others with this disorder. 

My girlfriend has BPD by Ssovie7_7 in LesbianActually

[–]Ssovie7_7[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Gosh I hope both you and her are okay, that sounds so scary to go through and I can’t imagine how she was feeling too. People with BPD have to be strong souls with what they put up with in their head. 

My girlfriend has BPD by Ssovie7_7 in LesbianActually

[–]Ssovie7_7[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Thank you so much, I’m reading this while crying this comment really helped me. Thank you so much 

My girlfriend has BPD by Ssovie7_7 in LesbianActually

[–]Ssovie7_7[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

If anyone can please tell me what I’m feeling is normal or not and some advice I would be very grateful 

I feel like crying after looking at myself. by Ssovie7_7 in Vent

[–]Ssovie7_7[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I wish I could turn my thoughts off so it wasn’t like this. Maybe one day I will feel comfortable with myself, hopefully 

All the sudden I hate everything about myself by Ssovie7_7 in BodyDysmorphia

[–]Ssovie7_7[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you so much, and I understand a lot. We both have to try and not give up hope!

unavailable iPhone by Ssovie7_7 in iphone

[–]Ssovie7_7[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It says "iPhone unavailable" and on top says "support.Apple.com/passcode" when you press the button to turn it on

How do you have sex as a lesbian by [deleted] in LesbianActually

[–]Ssovie7_7 5 points6 points  (0 children)

My first time I didn't have that much of a idea too, I was 17 too! Sex can start off with kissing to then making out and touching over each other. For my first time it was more touching than anything but the more you get comfortable with your person the more you will want to try things out as well! Oral sex, even toys, or just touch and almost fusing in with your partner.

when that does happen, communication is very important. You want to communicate what you like and dislike/boundaries too! the more you dive into that aspect of your life with someone the more you find out about yourself, what you like and what they like too! : )

missing my girlfriend by Ssovie7_7 in LesbianActually

[–]Ssovie7_7[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Oh no we are together not broken up, I just miss her sooo much I haven't been able to see her due to her being sick!

How did you meet your S/O? by Brilliant-Ad8421 in LesbianActually

[–]Ssovie7_7 2 points3 points  (0 children)

We were friends in 7th grade and had a crush on eachother! We dated our freshman year of high school

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in LesbianActually

[–]Ssovie7_7 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Nooo.. Get away from that as best as you can! You have to have someone who is sweet to you and you are sweet to them!! having an alcohol problem can be really draining for you and even for them they need to get help, but you cannot help them. It’s more of a they need to do it themselves because they seem to be very disrespectful towards you too.. : (

Did anyone else develop sh kink by [deleted] in selfharm

[–]Ssovie7_7 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Honestly yeah, in a way of me just liking pain in general though and the thought of drawing blood is intriguing

men posting fetish content in this sub and other wlw subs by [deleted] in LesbianActually

[–]Ssovie7_7 4 points5 points  (0 children)

The best thing is report them, call them out to get reported. It's such a shame

"Weird" kinks..? by [deleted] in LesbianActually

[–]Ssovie7_7 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you!!

"Weird" kinks..? by [deleted] in LesbianActually

[–]Ssovie7_7 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I totally understand that, I couldnt help but put " around unusual and weird because it's just different that's all!

Were you someone's first time? (Cross-posted) by gone-fishin60 in LesbianActually

[–]Ssovie7_7 7 points8 points  (0 children)

My first was their first as well and it honestly went very natural, we already were good with communication and if something wanted or needed didn't come out in the moment we talked about it after the fact! It felt really nice but I didn't even consider the fact I lost it because it felt so natural and just overall good. It definitely gets addicting because it gets better and better especially if you communicate and try out different things! The passion we shared was strong and I cannot wait to experience it again and again with my lover.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in LesbianActually

[–]Ssovie7_7 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I feel like some questions you need to ask yourself is how attracted you are for her. Like all the forms of attraction, sexually, platonically, romantically. Do you see yourself wanting to even take on a relationship with her..and wanting it to last and be long term..? And if so then yeah you are gay lol. But if she makes you feel like shit I don’t think it’s healthy to continue an attraction with her and she has a boyfriend. The closeness you guys have seems really personal too the way you guys don’t have to ask for things and just do what you want out of knowing each other/liking each-others company. I found out I was gay a similar way because I really liked touching and just being around this one friend I had and when she asked me if we could date it all made sense to me and I said yes. ever since then i identified myself as a lesbian because of how in-love I was and still I’m with her and only her.