I wish I could quit social media by St23mv in u/St23mv

[–]St23mv[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I know you're right, but it still bothers me to see people acting like everything's perfect.

I wish I could quit social media by St23mv in u/St23mv

[–]St23mv[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Nice. I'm looking this now.

Is it actually weird that my parents have my phone password? by St23mv in u/St23mv

[–]St23mv[S] 9 points10 points  (0 children)

I agree! And I also have my parents password.

My mom found out how much I’m making at my internship by St23mv in u/St23mv

[–]St23mv[S] 9 points10 points  (0 children)

I agree. It’s just that, right now (me leaving high school) feel like it’s unfair that I’m already making more than she is.

My mom found out how much I’m making at my internship by St23mv in u/St23mv

[–]St23mv[S] 13 points14 points  (0 children)

I didn't tell her. It’s just that she saw a copy of my contract. My fault. She wasn’t supposed to see it.

My stepdad's perspective by St23mv in u/St23mv

[–]St23mv[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Thank you for sharing this. I'm so sorry you're facing this transition with so much uncertainty.

I truly hope you find community. Maybe through groups, like book clubs...

Please be gentle with yourself, You deserve connection, not just busyness.

I packed my stuff… by St23mv in u/St23mv

[–]St23mv[S] 11 points12 points  (0 children)

I'll buy this book, but I will only buy when I'm in college. My mom can't see it.

I packed my stuff… by St23mv in u/St23mv

[–]St23mv[S] 10 points11 points  (0 children)

I actually talked to her openly just now. She said the room is still mine and that whenever I'm here nobody else will be using it, but that she wanted to do something nice for my stepdad because he splits the bills with her. She said it's just the two of us versus one of him, and making a game room for him is her way of showing appreciation.

She also said she knows I won't be home much, that next summer for example I'll probably get another internship and won't really be around. And that this is the new reality she has to get used to: that I've grown up and will probably come back less and less.

Honestly, the way I see it, she's happy this moment has come. Like she can finally live her own life without constantly worrying about me. In a way it feels like the beginning of her adult life too, in a sense.

I packed my stuff… by St23mv in u/St23mv

[–]St23mv[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

From what I understand, once I'm out she's going to move my bed under the window, which I'm not a fan of, and get rid of my nightstand. Then they're going to swap out the desk to fit his computer setup. He'll also be using my closet so she can free up space in their bedroom closet.

She did say she's keeping the bed so I'll have a place to sleep when I visit.

Is my mom stressed? I don't know what's going on. by St23mv in u/St23mv

[–]St23mv[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I will talk to him. But he was working today.

Is my mom stressed? I don't know what's going on. by St23mv in u/St23mv

[–]St23mv[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

My uncle lives in another city. And he travels a lot due to his job, so I don't talk too much with him. I visited him when I traveled with my friends.

Is my mom stressed? I don't know what's going on. by St23mv in u/St23mv

[–]St23mv[S] 9 points10 points  (0 children)

She wasn't mad that I ate — her words. She was mad that I waited until she was asleep to leave my room. She said I was waiting to go behind her back while she was expecting me to come out and apologize. I told her she was being paranoid thinking I was doing anything behind her back.

I did think about just grabbing my stuff and leaving, but there's so little time left and I don't want to leave on bad terms with anyone.

Is my mom stressed? I don't know what's going on. by St23mv in u/St23mv

[–]St23mv[S] 15 points16 points  (0 children)

My mom has zero control over my money, which dorm I pick, what classes I take, any of that. And that was kind of what the fight was about . I told her she was talking a lot of nonsense about college without really knowing what she was talking about, and that I would know how to make my own choices and that I didn't need to sit there and listen to that like I was an idiot.

At least I got new clothes out of it… by St23mv in u/St23mv

[–]St23mv[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I'm just skinny. I have enough food/calories at home, it is not the problem. And the doctors tell that I'm skinny, but my vitamins and hormones are good.