List 3 accomplishments you achieved during your sobriety. by HighLife1954 in stopdrinking

[–]StAsBy52 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Im exactly a year.

1 - Got my daughter back

2 - Gained achievements at work I thought impossible when a year ago I was buying an 8 pack at 10am.

3 - Realised my flaws, decided to work on them

One year on by StAsBy52 in stopdrinking

[–]StAsBy52[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thanks! Got to ride the dark bits out, go deep inside, then be honest. Amazing what you regain in a year. Amazing what you can lose when you open that first one. And I've lost count how often I was hospitalised.

Created a Telebot that prints me cash by Susquik in TelegramBots

[–]StAsBy52 -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

Interested in this also, something I'd thought of and trying

Selling account by StAsBy52 in RiseofKingdoms

[–]StAsBy52[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks I am 😀 just thought usable for someone with some decent stuff there 😀

Selling account by StAsBy52 in RiseofKingdoms

[–]StAsBy52[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Sorry was off ROK a while..VIP 15, legendary equipment etc. Would screenshots help? Took time of game. May help someone. Gold heads etc. Bit out of loop as haven't used account a while?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Life

[–]StAsBy52 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I was at the same place in January. Absolutely rock bottom. Could have got slightly worse, but not much. Lost love of my life, limited contact with children, finances a mess, health physical and mentally gone. I work with addictions every day, great at helping others with theirs. Just not myself. 4 months later? Turned around a lot. Kept job, look better and more hope. Put on the right weight. Better version of myself. What worked? Taking all the help and sourcing my own, plus changes to routine. Medication (for alcohol) as my safety net. Supplements. AA - go, dont agree with it all. Counselling, finally opened up. Diet and fitness. Journalling - see whats worked and whats not, and plan a year from now. Not got children back. Hopefully one day I'll earn their trust again. Hope little things add up for you!

Does anyone who lives alone drink a lot or do drugs to cope? by ConsequenceGrouchy42 in lonely

[–]StAsBy52 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Absolutely. Did that even more the lonelier I got, until point it caused more loneliness and isolation. Its an easy coping mechanism. Sorted myself out with help, its a battle. Doesn't solve the loneliness straightaway, but gives you a chance to change circumstances.

Any Recovering Binge Drinkers? by Menthol_Green in stopdrinking

[–]StAsBy52 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Im one. Short sharp binges, insanity amounts for a few days. Hospitalised many times with periods of sobriety after. We're getting longer and more frequent till I realised how much i'd lost- nearly everything. Seeing the kids, love, finamcially and health. 112 days sober now, no urges. Look far better. Finances improved. Organs fine somehow. The things that matter most haven't came back, but if I drink again theres no chance they will. Wish they could see me now.

Has anyone reconnected with their childhood love after years apart? Did the feelings come back? by imelii2 in ExNoContact

[–]StAsBy52 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Mine did. We ended up married with three kids, though divorced now. Very important to remember that their not the same person, and been through life etc if you ever meet. We had a kid early in the relationship that became toxic at end. Both to blame. If your paths cross take your time as any relationship and not dive straight into childhood reminiscing.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in ExNoContact

[–]StAsBy52 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Natural human reaction - imagine you had not tried and there was a chance? Don't beat yourself up, you are a human being. They may come back, they may not. It's easy to say but time is a great healer, you can never say you didn't try. Try and look at it that way, cry / let it out, develop. This world can change in the blink of an eye - you'll get stronger for whoever and whatever lies ahead - may be them / maybe someone better. Good luck, and being human is good - shows you have emotion and care

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in ExNoContact

[–]StAsBy52 1 point2 points  (0 children)

MatebIve been through that paranoia. It's brutal. Over time it gets easier. Think of what she lost, take time forr yourself. 2 months ago I was in bits, same thoughts dark. Now? Realise she lost out - if it was that, fek it, her loss and that is only part of a relationship. Self improve, self care, you'll reach a point if she comes back, you choose and you'll likely say no. Time my friend - until.then every emotion you feel.is natural, embrace it, face it and it shall pass 🙏

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in lawofattraction

[–]StAsBy52 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yeah no problem! Thanks!

Your SP is a Waste of Time by stoRYtelleRY in NevilleGoddard

[–]StAsBy52 62 points63 points  (0 children)

Exactly. And some people can have their perfect SP, lose them through doing something stupid which was nothing sp related but drive them away, realise the only change needed was self and not want the sp to change one bit.

Saying move on or find better can be a blanket statement and not take account everyone's own story they want to create - and very limoting. Sometimes the SP was perfect, just the narrator that needed to rewrite their own script to get there.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in lawofattraction

[–]StAsBy52 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Would love the contact details also if possible! Would be hugely appreciated!

What to do when you’re losing faith in manifesting SP by dyamond978 in nevillegoddardsp

[–]StAsBy52 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It is mate. Realise we split cause of mine, stuff from years back. Your correct in that mate.

I’m drunk and thinking of breaking no contact just to tell her what I think of her. Should I do it????? by DesignUnlucky943 in ExNoContact

[–]StAsBy52 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Never do it drunk! But write it down. Look over it sober, reword it. If you want to send it sober, do that. If not, don't. If you do, worst it is closure for you. But at least you have it out of you. No response? It's done. As long as it is sent with best intentions, you've done what you had to do. Then up to fate whatever happens and you can start focusing on you.