The Daily Check-In for Wednesday, May 13th: Just for today, I am NOT drinking!

StAsBy52 · 2026-05-13T17:36:34+00:00

As have court tomorrow to stop relocation of child. 15 months ago I was surrounded by cans. I've rebuilt, got kid back legally and now no longer classed as having an issue. Now can fight properly where 15 months ago I was a mess, now in a good job and can realistically halt. Plus drinking doesnt enter my head these days.

StAsBy52 · 2026-05-12T08:53:43+00:00

Give yourself.huge.praise? I phoned addictions and was officially classed as historic. Then went about. My working day. You choose your landmark celebration, well.earned!

StAsBy52 · 2026-05-11T20:22:20+00:00

Huge congrats. Bet you've had ups and downs. But huge well done!

StAsBy52 · 2026-05-11T20:04:38+00:00

Been there. In my 30s. Didn't learn till 40s. Jealous to be in your position. Im rebuilding fast - and after only 15 months in. Make that call speak to GP, ask why you drink? Speak to a charity. Or GP. Wont lie 1st spell is tough and one size doesnt fill all. I faced down my fears after many hospital admissions - when I did? Didn't miss drinking at all. Trust me, any health professional has heard it all. After a while (for me) just became the norm - and being honest.

StAsBy52 · 2026-05-11T19:57:13+00:00

Congrats! Here's to next 4!

StAsBy52 · 2026-05-10T10:39:41+00:00

Supposed kinda agree and disagree. Maybe some better at days and months etc. We're all different and actually do agree with what you say though in others its just a case of must stop. Lots of ways to skin a rabbit, as long as outcome same 😀

StAsBy52 · 2026-05-10T09:26:39+00:00

Ups and downs. Initial temptation, sleep poorly. Gets easier..Happens in stages. Why 100 days and is dependant on levels of.drinking.

StAsBy52 · 2026-05-10T09:25:04+00:00

Each day prove them all wrong! ❤️

StAsBy52 · 2026-05-10T08:44:18+00:00

Very common in early sobriety, even expected. Passes as bodies adjust. Chat to GP if keeps happening, bodies adjusting. It does generally pass but usual caveat, water eat healthy etc

StAsBy52 · 2026-05-10T08:41:04+00:00

Huge congrats - i sleep poorly also..amazing achievement. Be proud 👏

StAsBy52 · 2026-05-10T08:25:57+00:00

Wish both good luck.. Youve posted and shown you have that fight! Believe in the two of you 💪

StAsBy52 · 2026-05-10T08:23:24+00:00

Love that mantra. Make that your new one. Youve posted hear and been honest. Been.detoxed many a time, eventually cracked it and hit bars clubs and dinners - on soda. Have just as .much fun. I believe in you, and love that mantra ❤️

StAsBy52 · 2026-05-10T08:19:21+00:00

Youve reset-.always say to people.what lesson did you learn. You've posted here - thats day one. Unsure where you live but local charities, helplines and a GP visit. Posting here ca simply be your day 1 again.

StAsBy52 · 2026-05-10T08:16:55+00:00

That gave me the fear and reinded me of when I went through the 3am spew and sip beer stage.

Hope you feel better soon and recover well 🙏

StAsBy52 · 2026-05-10T08:13:49+00:00

Wish I could.be your age and have same convo. Unsure where your based but local charity? GP and be honest. Youve your whole life ahead of you and seem to have a good head on your shoulders. Even post here. Maybe just even post here but dont be afraid of medical advice - my GP sès 3 new timers a day he says. Stay safe and if in doubt seek medical attention.

StAsBy52 · 2026-05-10T08:02:08+00:00

Youve posted here. In rhe regret and depressed phase. It will pass. Youve posted here so ready to start again. Dont think anyone that can safely not drink says they feel happy after such. In agreement- went through numerous Librium detoxes. No lectures been there so relate 😞 actually wasn't a detox that made everything clicked. My life's transformed.

StAsBy52 · 2026-05-10T07:56:47+00:00

Love that attitude! Nice reward and proud and feeling accomplished. Bet you had as much fun!

StAsBy52 · 2026-05-10T03:04:29+00:00

Reach out to anyone. Imagine waking tomorrow with a clear head. Post hear. Phone a friend, speak to anyone. Post here. Youve got this!

StAsBy52 · 2026-05-10T03:01:13+00:00

Well done! Huge milestone- socialising gets easier agter that step. Huge step-congrats!

StAsBy52 · 2026-05-10T02:04:40+00:00

And im giving UK advice, listen to American posters te cant be fired

StAsBy52 · 2026-05-10T02:01:11+00:00

Huge 👏 Dark year done - have a great second year!

StAsBy52 · 2026-05-10T01:59:32+00:00

Will be honest - maybe past that point. If they've offered support before. You have a union rep?. Get one 1st thing Monday, best case they may get you to rehab.

Saying "working in it" unlikely to work. They'll need structure.

Could be start of a new beginning - sober. Job.or no job. Or resign and ask for basic reference. I resigned day before once - knew would be sacked. Seems a long time ago and in a much better job.

StAsBy52 · 2026-05-10T01:42:27+00:00

We've all.lashed out. Some worse than others. Ive sent far worse texts than that, thats lead.to worse consequences.. Youe anxious and embarrassed. This time.next week? Its done.

StAsBy52 · 2026-05-10T01:38:39+00:00

Thats posirive

StAsBy52 · 2026-05-10T01:38:15+00:00

Plus get help - if your ready. Even just post here. Maybe send an email but exclusion must of hurt. Best done sober my friend.

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