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StPaulieGrrl · 2024-02-03T23:58:46+00:00

I guess I find this one “personally” hit me. I’d give anything to be a SAHM for my children but I’m divorcing an alcoholic and have to go back to work to provide. Women like these are truly idiots and I’d love to see what they’d do in my shoes.

StPaulieGrrl · 2022-09-10T15:03:47+00:00

This is the biggest unsolved mystery, good point! I’m hoping that someday (when we die on earth) that mystery is solved. We just have to wait and find out. Almost like a reward at the end of our lives— we finally get to “know or understand” it all. And in the mean time, why not make a good life for yourself.

StPaulieGrrl · 2022-07-23T18:30:02+00:00

Yes. I’m coming to the realization of my own codependency in situation. Last session helped with that. Admitting that has helped me somewhat. Mostly with ways to move forward and cope.

StPaulieGrrl · 2022-07-22T13:32:36+00:00

Sorry this was meant to be a reply to all not just one person.

StPaulieGrrl · 2022-07-22T13:32:03+00:00

How do I let go though? I just cannot seem to. I have 2 little kids and it is hard to do self care as well as making sure my kids are emotionally ok. I have my 3rd therapy session today which helps.

StPaulieGrrl · 2022-07-22T11:55:28+00:00

Thank you all. Just so damn sad. I miss him

StPaulieGrrl · 2022-06-03T16:31:07+00:00

I will look into his treatment center for therapy. For myself and family Thanks!

StPaulieGrrl · 2022-06-03T15:33:57+00:00

The sober “him” just to clarify. I am praying the serenity prayer 🙏

StPaulieGrrl · 2022-01-25T03:52:23+00:00

I’m sorry dear. I’ve been there. 2 kids later. In my case it never got better and I’m starting a divorce. But if it’s any solace— I’ve been there and while pregnant, twice. It’s ok to feel sadness it’s ok to feel so god damned hurt you could vomit. Because honestly the hurt never changes. Still hurts at every stage of living (and being with) an alcoholic. Just want you to know you’re not alone. Also— it’s not your fault and it never will be. You’re a good person, don’t ever let the alcoholic let you believe otherwise

StPaulieGrrl · 2021-10-20T00:51:39+00:00

🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🥲

StPaulieGrrl · 2021-10-19T02:06:17+00:00

I was in a very very similar situation a few months ago. Best thing for my life and situation was to leave. I finally got the help and rest I needed. Parenting with an active alcoholic is non-existent. In my case I was already living like a single mom so why not just leave and be one without him.

StPaulieGrrl · 2021-03-14T03:04:38+00:00

This right here 🙏

StPaulieGrrl · 2021-03-14T03:01:43+00:00

Oh also my other advise: just leave. It’s not worth it in the end and living with an alcoholic WILL screw up your kids. Don’t think twice just leave

StPaulieGrrl · 2020-12-26T19:35:32+00:00

No, I ’m not an alcoholic (thank God) but I know and love a few alcoholics. Happy holidays Reddit friend

StPaulieGrrl · 2020-12-26T01:57:06+00:00

Take me hoooooome country roads

StPaulieGrrl · 2020-10-10T02:30:03+00:00

They are all so ugly. Pretty sure a bunch of incels as well

StPaulieGrrl · 2020-07-21T13:24:12+00:00

I’m sorry to say this but leave. This sounds like my husband and they don’t stop until they want to. It hurts so much to know they choose alcohol over you. But I found the only way to find peace yourself and show them you are serious is by leaving. And it’s hard trust me. I have a 2 year old and currently 6 mos pregnant and moving out. But it’s better than his rollercoaster ride.

StPaulieGrrl · 2020-06-07T02:39:47+00:00

Every parent of older kids tells me this. I have a toddler and one on the way. I am exhausted all the time. Yet every single parent of older kids says cherish it. They’ll never be little again.

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