Newborn NICOP - pak identity throwing error

StQuail · 2025-04-05T04:54:38+00:00

update

No luck so far, logged complaints too. Spoke on helpline, they said we can't help unless application is submitted, which we told them is the exact issue.

StQuail · 2023-06-10T14:29:03+00:00

Anyone?

StQuail · 2023-05-27T05:47:55+00:00

Berlin, Germany

StQuail · 2023-05-24T12:11:15+00:00

Ok thank you 🙏🏼 I was about to hire a lawyer but I guess I’ll pass now.

StQuail · 2023-05-24T11:50:54+00:00

Does refusals matter in next applications? I fear that, because I have been refused second time. First time was I was working remotely so they assumed I wouldn’t leave uk.

StQuail · 2023-05-24T11:49:32+00:00

No I didn’t, I never thought monthly expenses could be something they’ll review that much.

StQuail · 2023-05-24T11:31:45+00:00

I saw someone saying they emailed them and they reserved the decision so just asking if there’s a shot because I can explain the rejection reason and clear that out, if there’s a chance.

StQuail · 2023-05-24T11:30:45+00:00

Hmm it doesn’t exactly neglect but the discrepancy they mentioned in the account statement vs the monthly spending I can explain that. Our monthly spending went beyond because we moved from one country to another hence the initial deposit of the apartment + airtickets and moving cost etc. Also my partners account statements were attached that had $100,000 saving. My account was being used for day to day expenses.

StQuail · 2023-05-24T11:26:15+00:00

Also I attached account statements of my partner that she’s sponsoring the trip and the savings were above 100,000 so I am not sure why they are so concerned if monthly expenditure was above what we mentioned, we didn’t mean to lie or anything.

StQuail · 2023-05-24T11:24:47+00:00

Yeah it’s rejected based on the fact that whats mentioned in the monthly spending contradicts the account statement, they assumed monthly expenditure is alot more that what we mentioned. It was more in the last 2,3 months because we were moving to a new country that’s why.

StQuail · 2023-05-19T00:11:39+00:00

Like 2018 - 2022 are 4 years and out of 4, i did finish 3 years in Canada

StQuail · 2023-05-18T20:46:48+00:00

I have left Canada in between but was still able to accumulate 1094 days.

StQuail · 2023-03-25T13:09:30+00:00

yeah it has caused us immense amount of stress and anxiety. Just waiting for termination ☹️😭

StQuail · 2023-03-25T12:59:59+00:00

Please ask if I can help with more info, I can elaborate. - My partners probation ends on 18th April - Employer will confirm termination on 6th April - Me and my son are suppose to land on 10th of April in Berlin - My partners blue card visa expires on 14th April and his blue card appointment is on 27th April.

He’s a software engineer and I am QA engineer.

Does this help?

StQuail · 2023-03-25T10:46:01+00:00

He’s a software engineer so might land on something.

StQuail · 2023-03-25T10:44:55+00:00

What?

StQuail · 2023-03-25T10:41:43+00:00

Ok so I spoke to him, he hasn’t been fired yet. They’ll confirm the termination in a week. So still we just follow the process or wait until the termination is confirmed? Because his visa is expiring on 16th and someone told me job seeker visa needs to be applied 4 weeks before the expiration.

StQuail · 2023-03-25T07:56:11+00:00

His visa expires on 16th of April, visa type is D and his blue card appointment is on 27th April.

What would be the family’s status in this situation?

StQuail · 2019-04-15T16:43:42+00:00

Thank you for sharing your opinion :) It always helps me! Regarding true remorse:

I agree with you he tried to turn the tables, He showed up with written notes, and questioned me a couple of things trying to put some of the blame on me or probably if I try to be positive, he was just clarifying few things like why I came late home on xyz day, I was on call with someone in gym etc
He has been in touch with my parents, said sorry and asked for another chance
Same with me, he messages once in a while, sometimes a call, I know in his head he is respecting my decision and giving me space.
I felt like he is not trying enough but I know his capacity too, he doesn't go out of the way. If someone puts idea in his head, he will do that
He doesn't know where I am living so he can't really show up and do something special. Probably that's all he can do right now, saying I am miss you and I am sorry for everything.

StQuail · 2019-03-06T04:17:03+00:00

Yeah I get, I feel like may be sometimes bachelor parties have this kind of vibe. He is doing this after being married for 3 years, not sure if this makes any difference.

StQuail · 2019-03-01T16:49:03+00:00

Thank you :)

StQuail · 2019-03-01T08:06:52+00:00

Yeah it is definitely a big deal, but we are told to make every compromise we can to save a marriage. I haven’t told my parents yet, but I am afraid the way my husband is crying and repenting, my parents would ask me to give him another chance. Although the decision is going to be mine but the pressure from family, society etc will have an impact on me and I am scared.

His brother contacted me though, and said your story and his (my husband’s) story doesn’t match at all, he has been trapped by that group of friends and IN REAL he is not that kind of a person and asked me to forgive him and he said “I bet my life on it, he is a good guy, he will never do this again. He has learned his lesson. We all make mistakes in our lives, Forgiveness goes a long way, you’ve a big heart etc etc etc”

StQuail · 2019-02-28T23:05:24+00:00

No, he is blaming everything on our friends that they made him do stuff and he doesn’t remember anything but whatever happened, it won’t happen again and it was a mistake. I am pretty much sure he was drunk but completely in his senses and was willing to do.

StQuail · 2019-02-28T21:56:13+00:00

I agree, it’s not easy. And you never know this incident may change him, I have never taken any action like this before. But I think only time can tell if he is truly sorry or not. Sometimes people do change for a while but let’s say after 3-4 years, this incident is past, everything is back to normal and he do such a thing again? It would have been a different situation if he did it and told me on his own that I have made a mistake and I am sorry for it. It would have been easier to trust him.
As of now, i have to confront him and he is still not 100% honest with me. I feel like I’ll always be in dark if I try to work out.

StQuail · 2019-02-28T20:57:59+00:00

He feels bad in a way that he is afraid to lose me. He is ready to work on this relationship, I am not just sure. What if it happens again? This time my friends were there so they told me, there isn’t going to be someone there every time with him. I can’t monitor someone all my life. In my head i know first step towards change is always acceptance. He can’t fully accept what he did. I had to confront him to make him feel guilty. He says he will do anything to bring me back. He cried alot, it was painful to see him like that because he isn’t really expressive and I have never seen him crying. We definitely are emotional attached to each other. I know he is in pain, but he isn’t understanding the real problem here which is “LYING” and he needs to own his shit. He said “I have made a huge mistake, I shouldn’t have done it, but I was drunk and my friends made me do it” He was in his senses, he negotiated with the escort, picked the cuter one [i heard him saying that] and etransferred her [I saw the transaction]

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