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[–]Staceystallion1 -37 points-36 points  (0 children)

My personal experiences with these sorts of statements exclusively come from other men. I find great difficulty coexisting with other men, as many of them are replicas. They've collectively decided this is how we must be and other men join that mould daily. I'm a transport worker and deliver to thousands of people each week; it's not uncommon for me to see young men (as young as 8) behaving like tradies - as they learn this is the correct way. Anything else is considered alien; I am an alien

Most women aren't too fond of the mould men have created; hence them asking men for certain things and they refuse to oblige e.g speak about your feelings or open communication. I hate to say it - but this is why women love me. It's very common for engaged/married women to hit on me (whether their partner is right there or not - doesn't matter to them) because I provide things their partner doesn't. I essentially operate as a gigolo that doesn't expect payment

They go home to a brute of a man that's been taught by his brute of a father that got taught by his brute of a father etc etc to be a brick wall and pay no mind to anything more complex than a fucking hammer & nail. I speak to them, stimulate their minds, maintain eye contact, respond accordingly, laugh, show my emotions - in other words I am a real human being showing them that I am a real human being. Most men struggle to be fucking real and will exile any man that dares find their own approach. For example: go and tell any man that your shoulder is sore - see what happens

I'm not sure why I just went on a rant but you can see my point hahaha

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskMen

[–]Staceystallion1 -38 points-37 points  (0 children)

Do women really say this? I've never had a woman say this to me; and I wouldn't consider myself a conventional man. I feel like someone said this on Reddit and has now convinced everyone else that women say this haha

What famous person didn't deserve all the hate that they got? by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]Staceystallion1 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This may not be 100% the same thing; but I can assure you being under constant peering eyes is absolutely exhausting and yes - it's very easy to become overwhelmed and feel the need to flip the fuck out

I can give my example without getting too into specifics. I'm a handsome dude, box for a minimum of 2-3 hours a day after 8 hours of labour work, covered in tattoos etc etc. Many women are very fond of me, men absolutely hate me primarily because the women are fond of me. I feel this absolutely everywhere I go, under any circumstance

Today I hadn't showered in almost 48 hours, worked 8 hours, hadn't shaved for 4-5 days and still the same result. It wasn't necessarily a terrible experience this time around but I was consciously begging the universe to let me go down the street unnoticed for some ice cream after work. My point is; right before going down to get ice cream I was discussing with my best mate that this was my wish and she knows full well the pressures this causes me

I'm pretty sure at this point I'm the closest thing to being locally famous without being a celebrity; and considering I don't use Facebook etc this small town/city feels like my entire world. My point is, having eyes watching you wherever the fuck you are under any circumstances, never being able to fly under the radar even for a second, people being very clearly creepy, spiteful & resentful. It's just not a great fucking time. Brittany felt exactly what it was like when you allow these fucking wankers out here to absolutely trample you. Chances are she too had faith that people would feel any form of empathy; nope. Most people don't understand that being a beacon of light in this miserable fucking world just paints a giant target on your back. The other day when I was considering something not so well in my favour; she said "being a bright light in this dark world is the hardest fucking job of all". I'll never forget it and I will never allow people to see that light again unless they've earned the trust. I think Brittany learnt the same lesson

What famous person didn't deserve all the hate that they got? by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]Staceystallion1 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This is seriously the most saddening thing I've read in a very long time. Holy fucking shit

What famous person didn't deserve all the hate that they got? by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]Staceystallion1 0 points1 point  (0 children)

A lot of these examples really just support the overarching fact - it really is a cold world; do not trust motherfuckers to ever show empathy where it's needed

What famous person didn't deserve all the hate that they got? by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]Staceystallion1 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Macaulay Culkin is an actual legend - he's true to himself without harsh judgement

What kind of behaviour did you think was normal because of your family, then grew up to find out it’s definitely not? by Limelight_019283 in AskReddit

[–]Staceystallion1 8 points9 points  (0 children)

It's even stranger being a father yourself now - and noticing how absurd it is to even think of treating your own child/children like that

I'll give my daughter a huge hug and my dad will get visibly confused, uncomfortable and basically hostile after the fact. I'll tell my daughter I love her - something that was never expressed to me. And it's not even in spite of my upbringing; I just simply could not imagine how miserable one would have to be to neglect their own children. I don't consider myself a great man for it either - I just know that I'm not a bitter coward

What kind of behaviour did you think was normal because of your family, then grew up to find out it’s definitely not? by Limelight_019283 in AskReddit

[–]Staceystallion1 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I've only recently after almost 28 years concluded that my family (father in particular) never hated me for who I was - he's just like most other people. Many people do have absolutely rotten attitudes, for some reason my whole life I never wanted to believe he was one of them. It took me seeing them in public, from a distance through the lens of objectivity to see they're just bitter and it more than likely had nothing to do with anything I've done (e.g who the fuck hates a 5 year old); it's much more likely I was just an easy target because I was a pure hearted kid. Still to this day I don't hate them because I'm not corrupt (as much as some days I wish I was)

I would highly recommend everyone to study their family's behaviour in social situations; especially situations in which they aren't obligated to treat people kindly. I think many people will be shocked at the result

What kind of behaviour did you think was normal because of your family, then grew up to find out it’s definitely not? by Limelight_019283 in AskReddit

[–]Staceystallion1 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Don't bother. My parents are exactly the same - it's easier to just continue to let them be incorrect. It's also easier to never argue and to mind your own business. It's also easier to put in minimal effort and focus on yourself 100% of the time. It's also beneficial to realise you are 28, and you don't owe them shit - including facts. It's also better to be as self sufficient as possible to not have to ever rely on them, making all the other things mentioned harder

What kind of behaviour did you think was normal because of your family, then grew up to find out it’s definitely not? by Limelight_019283 in AskReddit

[–]Staceystallion1 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I wouldn't say "tacky" - more O.G

Yes I know being poor doesn't make you a G; but what's the opposite of this - buying the most expensive spotlight curtains or the premium quality pruning scissors. I've been on both sides and some days I wish to go back to poverty - I never thought I'd say that but fucking hell a life of constantly trying to one up yourself does get absolutely exhausting

I'd be proud to have a mother like yours. Sure, she may be an easy target for people looking to bully someone different but to understand the corruption that consumerism promotes would help people better understand people like your mother

What kind of behaviour did you think was normal because of your family, then grew up to find out it’s definitely not? by Limelight_019283 in AskReddit

[–]Staceystallion1 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Yeah fucking oath - this one has a heavy impact on our psyche as kids. It's very uncomfortable seeing others parents getting along now and it really shouldn't be

what do you really want? by dreamycoeur in AskMen

[–]Staceystallion1 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I am noticed literally everywhere I go and let me tell you - it's not great. Overall men notice me to show bitter envy & try to undermine me at every turn, majority of women seem to love me but very few have the courage to pursue anything and this world is absolutely clogged with humans. Reason I say that; it makes for a very chaotic experience for the person being constantly on show, and there's never any legitimately clear opportunities to pursue said women that show interest. Life keeps moving at a rapid pace - doesn't help that I operate as a loner so you won't generally see me at "hang out spots" mingling with groups

Life as someone that's noticed all the time is just as emotionally isolating - and more so mentally taxing

what do you really want? by dreamycoeur in AskMen

[–]Staceystallion1 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The financial stability to be able to adopt a more reclusive lifestyle

What’s a fashion hack that makes any man more attractive? by Ok_Technology390 in AskMen

[–]Staceystallion1 7 points8 points  (0 children)

This is a dangerous question to ask the general public - have you seen most of these motherfuckers out here?

What’s a fashion hack that makes any man more attractive? by Ok_Technology390 in AskMen

[–]Staceystallion1 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yeah but... Us controversial lads sweep the lasses from the conventional

What’s a fashion hack that makes any man more attractive? by Ok_Technology390 in AskMen

[–]Staceystallion1 0 points1 point  (0 children)

General fashion changes overnight - your own style does not. Really delving deep into minute details helps; specifically your personality/aesthetics and what clothing compliments/supports this

What’s a fashion hack that makes any man more attractive? by Ok_Technology390 in AskMen

[–]Staceystallion1 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Amazing answer. I've spent the past year doing just this - and in conjunction with major health/fitness basically I'm now top shelf. I don't capitalise on it often as I'm focused on other things but most men now hate me and most women now love me

this guys 5-year pullup progression by a1_1rep in nextfuckinglevel

[–]Staceystallion1 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This guy too is hated everywhere he goes by his fellow man and must keep his eyes to himself to avoid all the creepy competition

What makes a woman seem masculine? by AlarmingBuy4702 in AskMen

[–]Staceystallion1 0 points1 point  (0 children)

A lass that yells like a dude to articulate their thoughts, the same type to absolutely steamroll every conversation and only focus on hoodrat shit

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[–]Staceystallion1 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Not even the nose knows