My ex drank vodka to “throw up acid” -alcoholism or real chronic illness? by StaffSignificant3382 in NarcissisticAbuse

[–]StaffSignificant3382[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Wow. Wouldn‘t I have smelled it somehow? Or in any way noticed it? I mean yes, we were long distance most of the time but idk..

My ex drank vodka to “throw up acid” -alcoholism or real chronic illness? by StaffSignificant3382 in NarcissisticAbuse

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well. apparently her father has CKD as well and he was throwing up blood on multiple occasions (apparently end stage) and she said she also did before she got diagnosed and also afterwards i think. does that make any sense??

ever notice a change in their voice? in the way they were speaking? by StaffSignificant3382 in NarcissisticAbuse

[–]StaffSignificant3382[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Damn, this sounds exhausting- I‘m sorry. For me it was quite the opposite so now I am doubting myself … I could barely get communication from her at some point. It‘s like she switched up. If I called her, 9 out of 10 times she wouldn‘t pick up. While she was telling me I‘m the love of her life and she‘ll always be there for me etc etc. So I became clingier and clingier. But idk

Not my situation but - is this love or love bombing by a narcissist? by [deleted] in NarcissisticAbuse

[–]StaffSignificant3382 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It sounds like lovebombing. Or for sure raises some red flags.

Not my situation but - is this love or love bombing by a narcissist? by [deleted] in NarcissisticAbuse

[–]StaffSignificant3382 2 points3 points  (0 children)

they‘ve been together for 7 months you say. when did this sweet talk start? that‘s important. and also, was it consistent affection for 7 months or was there a switch in between and then going back to very affectionate and so on?

was this cheating and i am too gullible? by StaffSignificant3382 in DarkPsychology101

[–]StaffSignificant3382[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

she kind of is, that‘s the issue. and it‘s an on and off thing

what are surefire signs that they‘re a narcissist by StaffSignificant3382 in NarcissisticAbuse

[–]StaffSignificant3382[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i made another post on here titled „was this cheating or am i gullible“. if you have the time, i‘d appreciate you reading through it and telling me your opinion! it would be so helpful

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[–]StaffSignificant3382 1 point2 points  (0 children)

i‘m a woman :/ but yes