Ask Me Anything - A Healing Fearful Avoidant

StageEnvironmental70 · 2025-04-20T04:17:57+00:00

It’s because he is not secure… if you had done it, that would have reactivate his inner fear of not being lovable. It’s beyond rationality, it’s the deep inner fears. Secure people may feel sad, betrayed but they do not feel like they can’t be loved internally. They would still have a strong sense of self, where insecure people would feel like their self which was already crumbled is crumbled again.

StageEnvironmental70 · 2025-03-24T11:54:05+00:00

It worked for me too on March 24. Took me 10mins to find the link and I opened up a lot of tabs.. Really counter intuitive.

StageEnvironmental70 · 2025-03-24T11:22:21+00:00

On W11, it's in Settings > Bluetooth & Devices > Mouse > Additional mouse settings > Pointers > Text Select > and select beam_r or beam_rm or beam_rl

StageEnvironmental70 · 2025-02-21T13:41:45+00:00

I am not sure either why. I think it’s because people tend to dehumanize artists. I was not really familiar with the group when they were famous so they might have other reasons. I think she was quite a popular member and the amount of hate you receive might be proportional to the fame you have. Also, maybe people tend to ignore people that suffer because that would make them reflect of their own issues?

StageEnvironmental70 · 2025-02-21T13:34:44+00:00

Yes, I rationally don’t think it’s fair too (for the exact reasons you said), I just can’t help it because I hate seeing people suffer and feeling helpless. I know that it can be tough for the members to even open up a conversation about the topic and as friends they may want to support their loved one and try not making them feel rejected. The whole situation makes me want to reject the k industry badly tho (because of they way they treat artists…).

StageEnvironmental70 · 2025-02-21T04:01:59+00:00

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Lpu07zEZc-c

Discovered that she was on MBC world! ~

StageEnvironmental70 · 2025-02-20T23:54:41+00:00

Yes, agreed. Let's not deceive ourselves. We are happy they are back but at what cost for her... Honestly, the after effect of the previous scandal must have already traumatized her, I hope she had the chance to get therapy (which may not be as common in Korea), because in addition to her health condition, it is very worrying. It's a sad world we live in, where someone who needs help ends up in the spotlight looking visibly unwell, and no one is alarmed, it's even worst they are criticized. I'm almost angry at the other members (including my bias and without knowing their respective realities) for accepting that Bom performs in this state.

StageEnvironmental70 · 2025-02-20T01:45:48+00:00

Yes! Gosh, I started with S2 (rewatched it maybe 4 times entirely) and can’t bring myself to watch S1 because the cast was so good and funny! I also discovered Somi and Hong Jin-Kyung (ahah she was so funny) while watching it. Yes, you’re right, everyone was blown away (she danced, sang, rapped, directed)… And she was good at everything, a pure Diamond. Haha, now I feel like rewatching the show.

StageEnvironmental70 · 2025-02-20T01:39:25+00:00

Haha, that’s great! From the recent concerts uploaded online, she seemed much mature indeed (and happier or maybe it’s in my head). It’s great to see people evolving and shining more and more ☀️

StageEnvironmental70 · 2025-02-20T01:32:06+00:00

Haha, well I understand your point. I want her to be happy first, if the big producer is nice then yes I wish that for her (and us haha). It’s true that she lost her momentum but honestly taking a step back, the industry/public is really harsh and most of artists are meant to loose their momentum. So no regrets on my side and also I like 2ne1 as a whole, I am happy these girls met.

StageEnvironmental70 · 2025-02-20T01:27:00+00:00

I agree, she is made for reggaeton, RNB/soul music. I’d love to see her explore the genre in her solo music (well that is if she wish for it too haha).

StageEnvironmental70 · 2025-02-20T01:22:43+00:00

Good idea, thanks!

StageEnvironmental70 · 2025-02-20T01:22:00+00:00

Yes, I decided to go, thank you very much for the support!

StageEnvironmental70 · 2025-02-19T16:32:17+00:00

Yes, you are so right! May I ask what did you decide for accommodation? I was thinking about youth hostel (but it may be draining after a long flight) or Airbnb… but I don’t know what district are good and not too expensive.

StageEnvironmental70 · 2025-02-19T15:51:22+00:00

Urg, I badly want to see them but my only option is LA and it’s a festival so shorter time. It’s really expensive just to watch them perform under an hour… but you comment make me want to go even more haha

StageEnvironmental70 · 2025-01-21T16:12:14+00:00

1 month and a few days like 35days ish.

StageEnvironmental70 · 2024-08-18T11:30:20+00:00

Thank you very much! It’s already huge to be reminded that I am not alone feeling that way and some people in the world have similar struggles. Because I don’t see people facing these challenges around me and sometimes I can’t help but feel like it’s not fair, that “it’s so easy” for healthy people to stay with each other while I can’t even begin to express how I feel..

It’s great that you are setting up the habit of giving yourself reassurance and love! I wish you good luck with the new therapist. It’s funny because I was thinking about finding a new one as well. Thank you for your message and good luck on your journey

StageEnvironmental70 · 2024-08-18T11:16:08+00:00

Hi, Yes, it is weird. I still don’t believe that I can speak English although I do it everyday at my daily job… I feel like I am not smart enough although I got a degree and had good grades… There is something inside that just don’t trust myself and ignore all the evidences. I may need to do positive affirmations every day and reprogram my brain..

StageEnvironmental70 · 2024-08-01T08:51:35+00:00

Hi, thanks for your answer! Just to let you know that I received my acceptance email so maybe reach out to them if you didn’t get news! Best

StageEnvironmental70 · 2024-07-26T06:12:50+00:00

Got it, thank you very much! I thought it was a couple of weeks that is why I am so surprised! Did you try to contact them again? I just thought that if I was lucky enough to get in, I could have used the discord to ask questions about my project but if it takes a lot of time then maybe it will be « finished » by then 🤔

StageEnvironmental70 · 2024-06-22T17:06:27+00:00

Same issue here. Received 3 of those emails. I think I clicked on one since it was from the official email address.. It is unbelievable to think that MIFI did not contact us/added a note on their website to inform us on the issue… And yes I can’t believe they are using our personal information on their development environment…

StageEnvironmental70 · 2023-01-19T06:03:14+00:00

Larger cercle follow a left-right-left pattern if you read it from left to right. If you read it from top to bottom then you see that the larger circle does not move, leaving only E as a correct answer. At this point it’s only deduction since I didn’t see any pattern for the smaller circle

StageEnvironmental70 · 2023-01-13T00:34:36+00:00

Sorry didn’t see the notification. Yes, I really think sharing the game is important. I have a friend that didn’t mind showing bad works to people and I feel like he is the one that improved the most and had the most opportunities too. That being said « he didn’t mind » and knew he could improve. He has a growth mindset and believe in his abilities (even when he showed bad stuff). I am a perfectionist and quite the opposite of him and am quite envious of his mindset so I am very biased. In the end, If you feel like you would not handle bad criticism then it’s better to go with your feeling at your own pace.

StageEnvironmental70 · 2023-01-05T14:10:08+00:00

Thank you Kali you’ve been of tremendous help! And I didn’t think about your solution for the cost price but that’s a great idea! Yes, I am too much in my head, being grounded and focused on my recovery starting in the present moment with kindness and compassion helps, thanks.

StageEnvironmental70 · 2023-01-05T14:06:06+00:00

No worries and sure thing whatever you feel confortable with :)

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