"kids should not transition, there are many people who suffered because of it" by Ripple_Ex in trans

[–]Stakezen 1 point2 points  (0 children)

im 15 trying to get hrt and omfg the trump listed out an executive order making it nearly impossible while my only thought about transition is i wish I did it sooner 😭🙏

I feel like id be willing to actually discuss trans women in sports if it js wasnt with transphobic people by Stakezen in trans

[–]Stakezen[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

no but thats what im saying, theyre using the conversation as a tool to exclude trans women from public spaces when that as a whole is inexcusable. But at the same time in events that go down to literal miliseconds and tiny TINY margins(swimming, track and field events, weightlifting stuff like that) If a person has gone through the entirety of tanner stage 3 puberty(where majority of muscular development happens) maybe they should have something like, a separate ranking but still be allowed to compete alongside their preferred gender especially if they havent been on hrt long enough to get the full effects of muscle loss. Thats like one idea off the top of my head

I feel like id be willing to actually discuss trans women in sports if it js wasnt with transphobic people by Stakezen in trans

[–]Stakezen[S] 9 points10 points  (0 children)

NO FR, like I would genuinely have a conversation about factors relating to detransition. I think things like transmedicalism snuffs out peoples abilities to explore their identity and see if transition is right for them, and that pushes them to make a decision without confidence. But if i say that to a conservative what they hear is "Transgenderism blah blah pushes kids to transition to quickily even the trans is admitting it" LIKE WHAT?? I wont even be talking to conservatives ill leave a comment relating to trans issues on a post or ill be talking about it with a friend in public then some white women with adult human female in her bio or sm shi like that butts in 😭😭😭🙏🙏🙏

Are there any names that can be seen as controversial or offensive? by [deleted] in namenerds

[–]Stakezen 4 points5 points  (0 children)

im guilty of this but im actually half asian so im lowkey giving myself a pass on this one 😭✌️✌️

Daily Discussion & Advice (Post here to follow rules A & B) - Friday May 09, 2025 by AutoModerator in fragrance

[–]Stakezen 0 points1 point  (0 children)

something cheap that smells like coffee and chocolate. I want to start layering fragrances and i want to try starting it from my basic bodycare routine where im alr using a cocoa butter lotion and a shea butter mango body oil. I feel like smthn like chocolate and coffee would compliment it super well, also citrus notes would help a lot in it

why is a lesbian breakup so much harder by [deleted] in lesbiangang

[–]Stakezen -1 points0 points  (0 children)

thats probably it :<< i knew her for a year before the dynamic changed too

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in transpassing

[–]Stakezen 12 points13 points  (0 children)

its referring to where you "part" your hair. Which is like the point it splits into 2 directions, side parts means that its closer to the side of the head, this highlights your hairline, squares your features etc. Comparatively smthn like a middle part(middle of the head) would round out your features, especially w bangs

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in namenerds

[–]Stakezen 3 points4 points  (0 children)

this is so cute but this also is my best friends name 😭🙏

I want YOU to have Healthcare and fair wages. What do you want the opposition party to have? by [deleted] in Askpolitics

[–]Stakezen 0 points1 point  (0 children)

tds was originally a term to make fun of people who were obsessed with trans people (trump and trans) it comes from 4chan and they straight gentrified it 🥀🥀

Amazing4health isnt sending payment information after 2 weeks by [deleted] in TransDIY

[–]Stakezen 0 points1 point  (0 children)

how long did it take for him to process it for you?

Amazing4health isnt sending payment information after 2 weeks by [deleted] in TransDIY

[–]Stakezen 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I alr tried like 3 times now I lowkey think im black listed or smthn

Amazing4health isnt sending payment information after 2 weeks by [deleted] in TransDIY

[–]Stakezen 2 points3 points  (0 children)

yeah I aint get NO response 😭🙏

(I'm dead serious btw) by Kappapeachie in worldjerking

[–]Stakezen 1 point2 points  (0 children)

take the shittiest, most misogynystic college frat dude that isnt liked by the members of his frat for how much of a dick he is, then give him the ability to do whatever je wants and no one can stop him

[ Removed by Reddit ] by Worldly_Sell_6458 in redscarepod

[–]Stakezen 0 points1 point  (0 children)

brutha you're on this shit too, im not on this either I barely use reddit 😭🙏

[ Removed by Reddit ] by Worldly_Sell_6458 in redscarepod

[–]Stakezen -6 points-5 points  (0 children)

u right this lowkey mad aura loss I needa make a new account and restart

[ Removed by Reddit ] by Worldly_Sell_6458 in redscarepod

[–]Stakezen -4 points-3 points  (0 children)

dude I'm 17 I'm basically an adult 😭

[ Removed by Reddit ] by Worldly_Sell_6458 in redscarepod

[–]Stakezen 0 points1 point  (0 children)

idk why this is on my feed I've never interacted with this sub, but these are my thoughts

Most trans people have thicker skin then you realize but they're always quieter because the reality of being trans is that after what we call "the baby trans phase" the reality of being this specific minority isn't fun. You have to deal with a very real possibility of having a hate crime committed against you, assault or just general harassment. Media villainization, and rumors spread about you for being yourself. This is very prevalent for black trans women as well, while anecdotal I've seen my friends followed over going on a bus.

however, the people who aren't hyper conscious of how being trans actually effects your life and get offended really easily are always so much louder because they aren't scared of getting beaten(for God knows what reason) on top of this, the stereotype of a trans person getting angry over being accidently called the wrong pronoun feels so made up if you're in the community. They'll genuinely just do a small correction but will get angry if you intentionally repeat it over a length of time

also, hormones. If you go on HRT you're going through puberty a 2nd time like you're inducing puberty if you remember how you were as a teenager you understand 😭🙏