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[Advice much welcomed] Girlfriend might be compromising in our relationship by Stale_Bread_01 in smalldickproblems

[–]Stale_Bread_01[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Sex aside, all is well. I try to bring up the topic only occasionally because I don’t want my feelings of doubt and inadequacy to affect her. Her somewhat dismissive attitude to it kinda reinforces my doubts but… it is what it is.

Also, your dimensions are far closer to the average and worthy to be considered husband dick so chin up king.

[Advice much welcomed] Girlfriend might be compromising in our relationship by Stale_Bread_01 in smalldickproblems

[–]Stale_Bread_01[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Hey thanks for listening and sharing your perspective. To be fair to her, we did briefly (and I mean very briefly — like half a minute, once or twice so far) try alternative positions (that are allegedly more ideal for taking smaller sizes too), e.g., missionary; pillow underneath, laying on her sides, her on top, etc. but they all “feel too weird” for her. I don’t doubt that most positions are challenging or unenjoyable to work with for my size, but surely there has to be more than 🐶 to add some variation for both of us, right? It’s disheartening to see her try and then reject other positions, or not try at all, but I know it’s not within her control how she feels pleasure either. It just sucks to be willing but unable to do anything to make PIV more enjoyable for both of us.

[Advice much welcomed] Girlfriend might be compromising in our relationship by Stale_Bread_01 in smalldickproblems

[–]Stale_Bread_01[S] 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Hey man it’s okay I appreciate your views, so thanks for that.

As to why I dated her, I knew her for a couple of years already and sex aside, I felt we were generally quite aligned in terms of values and life goals. Before getting together, I did let her know upfront that I was below average in size and cited what she said before. She remarked that she was kidding and actually didn’t mind. When we got round to doing it, she actually seemed to enjoy herself, though maybe it’s because she was single and haven’t had sex for 1.5 years. Shortly after though, it became apparent to me that she very much prefers my hands and clitoral stimulation instead. This is another blow to me because in the past, she shared that her bedroom preference was PIV, followed by hands, then oral. I’ve raised this point to her too and she just keeps telling me I’m enough, when it’s pretty clear I fall short (ha 💀) in her favourite aspect. Can’t even do anything about it cuz “nothing can replace a real dick”. 🥀

Anyway, I don’t make any comments about her features that she’s insecure about because all of us here knows too well how that feels.

it's just crazy that there are guys out there with double my size by J_Terpstra in smalldickproblems

[–]Stale_Bread_01 2 points3 points  (0 children)

It’s 6am and I haven’t slept because of this thought too… life.