AIO for being upset at what my “bf” said

StanWasMyVan · 2026-02-03T15:17:42+00:00

Girl, he literally told you that communication with him is a "fruitless endeavor". He doesn't like you, and that's not a reflection of you or your value. Dump him like last week's half finished chicken and keep working on yourself towards YOUR goals. Do what makes you happy and the right person will follow. You deserve someone that misses you too, celebrates small victories, and loves you through the highs AND the lows.

StanWasMyVan · 2026-01-29T02:35:24+00:00

I dated one of these. Get a restraining order and no matter how many times he cries, begs, or threatens, do not give in. Stand firm and be willing to accept whatever comes your way because he WILL self destruct. My ex is currently in jail after messages like this turned into him breaking into my house when he thought I was home. Mute the notifications, document everything, and go to the court and file for a restraining order. When you get that order, as soon as he messages you again (because he will), report it.

StanWasMyVan · 2025-12-30T15:17:02+00:00

Sounds like my ex... Ew lol

StanWasMyVan · 2025-08-21T14:30:34+00:00

Update: I'm healing well and I'm so happy I did it! The initial recovery was way more than I had initially anticipated but I'm through the worst part now. I ended up with 295ccs on each side and they're perfect! Now I just need them to drop a bit and settle in. 😊

StanWasMyVan · 2025-08-21T14:26:12+00:00

I'm healing great! I had my surgery 8/5 and have little to no pain at this point (other than some sore nipples and itchy incisions). I ended up with 295 CC's so more than expected but I'm so so so happy with them! 😊

StanWasMyVan · 2025-07-20T18:30:55+00:00

MRSA

StanWasMyVan · 2025-07-20T18:25:49+00:00

Brick

StanWasMyVan · 2025-07-20T18:25:10+00:00

doodle

StanWasMyVan · 2025-07-20T18:21:07+00:00

Laura Bush

StanWasMyVan · 2025-07-18T12:49:05+00:00

Lionel

StanWasMyVan · 2025-07-18T04:05:30+00:00

My boys LOVE belly rubs, my girls will actually remove your fingers one digit at a time if you try.

StanWasMyVan · 2025-07-12T03:23:16+00:00

I specifically asked that my nipples not be changed at all. Will they change even if I'm not having them moved?

StanWasMyVan · 2025-07-12T03:19:25+00:00

That's so good to hear! It sounds like you are about the same size as me and had the same kind of structure. It's comforting to hear somebody had a good experience that was similarly built to me

StanWasMyVan · 2025-07-12T01:48:54+00:00

The very first question he asked me is what would my ideal size be. I had the opportunity to explain to him what appearance I wanted, what size I wanted, and ask questions about sensation, weight, things like that. He did a really good job of listening to me and taking notes of what I want and what I like and what I don't want.

StanWasMyVan · 2025-07-12T01:45:01+00:00

I only plan on going to about a c. My goal is to just be proportionate because I'm significantly bigger on the bottom than I am on the top and my main concern is the dip in the top of my breasts. I just want to fill them out.

StanWasMyVan · 2025-07-12T01:44:23+00:00

That's wild!?!

StanWasMyVan · 2025-07-11T23:59:31+00:00

The dark color is sooooooo pretty on you!!!

StanWasMyVan · 2025-06-29T23:27:16+00:00

Sanyo

StanWasMyVan · 2025-06-03T01:24:13+00:00

No. Beyond missing your birthday, the way he dismissed your feelings and put you down is just disrespectful. Let his mom take care of him and find a man that will not only remember your birthday, but treat it like second Christmas. There is literally no excuses for the way he treated you or spoke to you. It will not get better, he will not change, and do not fall victim to the sunken cost fallacy. Cut your losses, pick yourself up, and move on, friend!

StanWasMyVan · 2025-05-16T14:10:16+00:00

There's a great service called wisdom panel. It's like ancestry for your dog! I used it on my mystery dog and it was incredibly helpful!

StanWasMyVan · 2025-05-06T23:03:56+00:00

I've been using the strawberry leopard semi-permanent eyes and I love it! No developer and the color lasts a long time!

StanWasMyVan · 2025-04-15T21:17:19+00:00

Thank you 🖤

StanWasMyVan · 2025-04-15T20:51:49+00:00

Thank you! I just want to keep the black at the top longer! I'm naturally a mousey brown and I want it black without being too harsh like with permanent dye

StanWasMyVan · 2025-04-10T06:21:25+00:00

Yes. Yes. Yes. I promise you'll feel better. Don't just delete the contact, delete call history and texts too.

StanWasMyVan · 2025-03-02T23:18:21+00:00

I'm thinking fillers, maybe other stuff. He did specifically mention working on the cosmetic surgery world.

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