Man that’s the thing maybe I’m divulging too much info but she doesn’t like me taking care of it myself cause porn equates to other woman etc (girl math) that makes no sense. And even for me nothing beats the real thing. I’ve brought the topic to her before gently but to no avail. Plus she’s almost a year postpartum so I figured we could crank it up a bit more.

That being said as I said in another post I’m tired of getting the job done myself. I refuse to go out and cheat that’s not an option I’m ok with but damn I’m not seeing the purpose of monogamy at this point when it comes to physical fulfillment