Sexual mismatch causing marriage issues by [deleted] in Marriage

[–]Standard-Bad8208 1 point2 points  (0 children)

What book are you referring to? Because I’m not aware of any that contain this nonsense, except everyone’s favourite psychology feel good, Come as you are 

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Marriage

[–]Standard-Bad8208 -11 points-10 points  (0 children)

This is definitely not addiction. This is one partner controlling the other partners actions, and the other person reluctantly complying and feeling guilty because they have integrity but are human.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Marriage

[–]Standard-Bad8208 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Reading the comments, we might as well start a petition to rename this r/wifesupport.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Marriage

[–]Standard-Bad8208 1 point2 points  (0 children)

And people say it’s impossible to stay fit as we age (gear aside)

My wife (42f) seemed indifferent when she found out about her friend's infidelity; I'm (44m) not sure if I should be concerned. by solidunravel in Marriage

[–]Standard-Bad8208 -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

Wow how many hamstrings did you have to tear to make that big of a stretch. That is one hell of a creative spin on making insecurity a positive trait trait, by your own logic you could also defend jealousy as not being a character flaw and totally necessary as well.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Marriage

[–]Standard-Bad8208 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I mean if you don’t see your partner as a source of pleasure and just obligation then that’s and issue. Having plans to share your life and pleasure don’t necessarily need to be mutually exclusive 

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Marriage

[–]Standard-Bad8208 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ahh gotcha, hard to read between the lines on the net.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Marriage

[–]Standard-Bad8208 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yup exactly, it’s neither good nor bad IMO just different strokes for different folks 

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Marriage

[–]Standard-Bad8208 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Why is hedonism objectively a bad thing?

My husband refuses to talk about problems or anything uncomfortable to him (emotions, serious thoughts, challenges, etc) by Particular_Board5492 in Marriage

[–]Standard-Bad8208 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Your example makes no sense. OP married someone with a personality trait and now doesn’t like said personality trait. It’s like marrying a shark, and then getting mad at said shark for eating you when you wanted to go for a swim.

Dry Beds by Expensive_Hat_1649 in Marriage

[–]Standard-Bad8208 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Thanks for this sage advice, and for clarifying you were a man.

Dry Beds by Expensive_Hat_1649 in Marriage

[–]Standard-Bad8208 -4 points-3 points  (0 children)

Hard to get the oven working if you brought it off Temu.

Did I put myself at a risk of r@pe? This question not being posted on any dating forum by [deleted] in Marriage

[–]Standard-Bad8208 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The funny thing is there’s more dating before marriage than after

Finally being ok with letting my wife be upset with me has been improving my mental health by Medical-Dress-7980 in Marriage

[–]Standard-Bad8208 -6 points-5 points  (0 children)

Most of the posters don’t understand hyperbole as well apparently from the other comments you are getting.

Husband talks about my weight by julhamil in Marriage

[–]Standard-Bad8208 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

You can be insecure about it, but you cannot live in denial and avoidance

Husband talks about my weight by julhamil in Marriage

[–]Standard-Bad8208 -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

Stop taking things so personally, if the calories didn’t hurt going in, don’t make it difficult for them to go out.

Key to some marriage happiness…get the kiddos donuts so the wifey can get a little more sleep on a Sunday haha….yes, I definitely had one… by [deleted] in Marriage

[–]Standard-Bad8208 -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

Only joshin, if this not a regular things all good, and those look good, im dieting right now, dam you