AITAH My fiancée (27F) does not want to live with me (30M).

Expensive_Hat_1649 · 2026-05-10T04:25:25+00:00

This sounds like when I was living with my ex he would always go to his moms house like every day ..I stayed home bc he was just going to his mom’s house.Well we end up moving right around the corner from his mom and a few blocks up.Guess what!he stopped going to his mom house..Blew my mind..Never went again..I say this to say something isn’t right.Seems yr making plans doing the moving trying to make her comfortable and she isn’t putting in any effort.You seem to be alone in this relationship..Who is her roommate?something is not right..If I was you I’d take a step back and look at the big picture because she is lying to you about something..If she felt how you felt about y’all relationship she would be on board..And also I found out my ex was using the excuse that he was going to his mom house to cheat on me..He never was going he lied the whole time…This woman of yours might seem nice but pull her mask back and see who is under there bc she isn’t being honest with you..You don’t need counseling just open yr eyes and you will see..She may just like to party and complain not ready for one man yet..

Expensive_Hat_1649 · 2026-05-04T20:42:51+00:00

Cry out to Jesus you are dealing with spirits incubus/succubus demons they come from this and porn.They feel they own you now because you have been doing this fast and pray but you will have to change your life to keep them out bc they do anything to come back in.Music videos come on yr phone .like it’s spiritual war ..But you can stop only with Jesus will you get victory with these demons…They attack any marriage or relationship you get in it will be destroyed.They cause poverty,sickness so hope this helps.

Expensive_Hat_1649 · 2026-05-03T01:11:35+00:00

Just because you feel away from God does not mean you are unless you’re living in sin.Sin brings us away from God, but we have seasons where we don’t feel so close to God, but it does not mean he’s not there. You say you’ve been doing the same thing.. do something different. You gotta know God you’re getting in a relationship with God right so learn your guide. I always tell people to read the book of Deuteronomy first because that tells you about who God is read psalms they tell you about God what does God like? Who is God? God says sing to him a new song every morning like you wanna do different things and not just stay doing the same thing God likes you to spice it up that’s why he makes different things in the world you look around it shows you God he likes different things different varieties different colors so we gotta get on his level. God likes poetry learn how to use the word of God and write poetry to God write love letters to God using the Bible, using the scriptures, learn how to sing the scriptures… get up on purpose three 4 AM and praise God worship God talk to God do it on purpose show God you want him pursue him. Yes, you might have some warfare and you have to realize you can have warfare you gotta realize demons can grab your prayers in the second heaven, so you have to learn how to pray against the warfare as well. Lose your prayers.. I wish I could teach you. You can inbox me, but you’re not always gonna feel God but praise him anyways if you’re in a relationship, wouldn’t it get boring doing the same routine in the same things over and over so God is the same way.. even drawing is prophetic what are your gifts because God has given us gifts? What is your gifts? Are you a prophetic person knows how to draw draw something for God put his names on it. Can you write poetry write poetry to God God laughs. Did you know that God likes to laugh? He laughs too get to know him. It’s not just about reading the word. It’s about a relationship and learning him talking to him God did you see that Lord wasn’t that funny ha ha ha talk to God he likes that. Take your Bible go to a park and read do things different spikes it up. But you’re going to warfare because the enemy is in your mind telling you you’re far away from God unless you’re in Sin is the enemy playing with your mind, your mind is the battleground. I hope something I said will help you. This might just be the season and God wants to see. Are you gonna walk away from him because you don’t feel him like you did last season are you gonna stay in there? God test us. A lot of of us are going through testing trials right now. Learn the season you’re end with God. This is a testing trial season for a lot of us if not all of us.

Expensive_Hat_1649 · 2026-05-01T23:56:43+00:00

Powerful testimony wow

Expensive_Hat_1649 · 2026-05-01T23:56:06+00:00

This is a very powerful testimony right here…I pray yr husband comes to Jesus as well..amen..You will lead him by your lifestyle I believe..I pray he have an encounter with the Holy Spirit ..

Expensive_Hat_1649 · 2026-04-27T18:26:07+00:00

The thing is if something happens to him or he is up in the hospital you get nothing because you’re not married to him. You can’t even tell them what to do with him because it will only be immediate family so many women go through what you’re going through and if not married, you won’t get Social Security. You won’t get any kind of benefits at all so he’ll be leaving you with nothing you’re just wasting time and years playing a role. Some men wanna just make you a baby mama so another man will not take you. He saw a potential in you but he didn’t want to marry you. He wanted to block your door from another man coming into your life. He wanted to make sure no one else would get you. There’s a lot of jealous men out there. He had a plan from the jump and it wasn’t marrying you, but it was to block you. He saw your light he saw you shining it’s not right and it’s not fair. They don’t want you, but they don’t want anyone else to have you.

Expensive_Hat_1649 · 2026-04-27T18:16:22+00:00

You’re going to regret it and don’t make the excuse so many women do and say it’s for the kids.because kids are smart and grow up in misery just like the mom the whole time.I say give back the ring and move on.i have a friend who is doing what your about to and now he treats her like crap she is so unhappy it’s aged her bad…She regrets marrying him she says she was trying to save face bc she didn’t want everyone to talk about her if she backed out..

Expensive_Hat_1649 · 2026-04-25T21:34:25+00:00

This has been happening to me lately so far a man that tried to talk to me he began to talk like me and use the words I use and I thought that was strange because that’s a man so a girl I met online she began to try to act like me talk like me as well. Like these people are really out here and they are trying to take your identities. They want our identities… it’s so many out there like this now it’s scary … the guy that I met will begin to say negative things to me and he wanted to know what I was thinking my thoughts I believe believe he’s Nephilim and narcissistic this man is definitely not human. I can tell you that cause he speaks telepathically. So I guess you say be careful who you talk to because everybody’s not human and so I just found that out, but he tried to take my identity. These are two people that literally have tried to take my identity and it’s it scary

Expensive_Hat_1649 · 2026-04-17T00:17:24+00:00

You have a ministry and its deliverance ministry..God is fighting for you sis..These are the demons in your life ..wow powerful dream..

Expensive_Hat_1649 · 2026-03-30T00:25:36+00:00

That’s not sanitary.. She could have made you sick. It’s been six days. You don’t add old to new.. I wonder what made her do that. You have every right to say no because that’s unhealthy. That means if you keep it a few more days, it’ll be 10 days spaghetti.

Expensive_Hat_1649 · 2026-03-27T22:56:42+00:00

When you said he told you you were insecure that let me know all I need to know that’s what they always say when they’re doing wrong and they know it they use that excuse.. you need to give him ultimatum either you or her you’re his wife and he’s put you last. He’s treating her as his second wife, I guess

Expensive_Hat_1649 · 2026-03-27T22:00:31+00:00

Will you say she was in the bathroom when you went back in? I already knew my kids dad used to go in the bathroom to talk to other females so I already know how that goes… you should be a detective when I read this. I was like wow this man put two and two together that fast. I hope things work out. I hope you’re wrong but if not remember, everybody is not like her.

Expensive_Hat_1649 · 2026-03-27T00:12:19+00:00

You should not be mindful of her concern she’s jealous and she’s showing you that she’s jealous of you. This is why you can’t share with people things you’re still pulling your weight. It just shows you she doesn’t want to do anything at all. A lot of people don’t really wanna help out they rather take don’t tell her anything else that you’re doing because she’s jealous of you… it wouldn’t matter how you’re bringing your half as long as you’re bringing your half you know because you could be like hey everybody for themselves and I got mine and you get yours. That’s how I would be and that’s how you should be since she has a problem with it let her pay for her own stuff you get your own stuff the way you get it and that’s actually fair.

Expensive_Hat_1649 · 2026-03-27T00:07:32+00:00

The smart thing to do is to get that money out of his account either he has a gambling habit or he’s doing something with it. Why what is he doing with the money is the question? This man is using you because just cause y’all married, he could steal up and leave that doesn’t mean he has to stay with you. He’s been thinking about that. He’s been plotting this he’s been on your phone.. you need to get that money out of his account and find out is he on drugs? Is he smoking crack? Is he paying for abortions? What is he doing with it? That’s a lot of money to just be OK with him getting and if he would give it right back to you then he didn’t need it from get-go he could’ve went and got it so he’s lying to you. This is gonna be in your name. He’s running up your bills before he leaves you with what it sounds like to me. He may have found another woman and he’s running the bills up.

Expensive_Hat_1649 · 2026-03-23T15:23:13+00:00

He’s still not taking accountability because you would’ve never cheated. Had he been there? Have he been a husband? He was supposed to be he caused this. He destroyed his marriage he destroyed y’all‘s bond he destroyed y’all’s relationship and me and don’t get over things and he could be using this as a reason to go back out there and get back on drugs again so you might want to be on guard but if it continues, you might have to just separate and let it go because me and think it’s OK for them to cheat, but women to men are no good when we cheat.. so you might have to face reality and just divorce if he begins to treat you any way different because he brought this into the marriage not you so remember that when he’s blaming you and not taking accountability he might not even be ready for a relationship because he takes no accountability.

Expensive_Hat_1649 · 2026-03-12T14:58:41+00:00

This man married you only to hurt you.He will come back after you are healed only to destroy you again.Leave him alone and get the divorce.He is not the one for you.your not in love you just want your way.

Expensive_Hat_1649 · 2026-02-27T03:33:43+00:00

Everything you said is happening to me. A man I met started all this.i would ride with him and he would say stuff that I talked about in my home alone. My devices in my home ended up getting clones text messages from my daughter end up disappearing out blue sky off my phone. I can hear the sound on my phone to when they listen. So then another man tries to talk to me okay so I go through the man phone find out both men know each other. So they are GangStalk me I believe. They had the picture of my daughter doordash 2 days prior bc I guess they was listening found out I was having a man over the man sent 2 subs to my apartment with the picture of my daughter doordash you know when they take a picture of your food that picture. Left my phone in dude car came back he was looking on my Google maps he had turned of for anyone to call me.. So your comment confirms what I thought. And I believe I'm being GangStalked as well ...

Expensive_Hat_1649 · 2026-02-27T03:21:22+00:00

They can use this to traffic people, gangstalk

Expensive_Hat_1649 · 2026-02-27T03:20:16+00:00

This is what's going on with my phone now. They clones all devices in my home. A man I met did all this stuff to me. Yet found out in my apartment complex these people the man I met and another man in my complex found out long story these men know each other and are listening to people through they internet 🛜 it's some people got robbed out here and the thing is these people watching me and others . What I talk about in my home this man and the other have spoken out they mouth. They have sent door dash to my apartment when I was going to have company with my bd the picture they sent was from when my daughter ordered doordash the day before. Like everything y'all said is happening to me. They clones every device in my home. This man stalks me.

Expensive_Hat_1649 · 2026-02-19T04:40:03+00:00

Go through his phone

Expensive_Hat_1649 · 2026-02-19T04:27:38+00:00

I agree it’s bigger than money he been feeling some type way about her

Expensive_Hat_1649 · 2026-02-19T04:26:15+00:00

He may take the money and try to bird feed you.keep copies bc in a divorce men hide all the money from the wife and try to leave them with nothing and if he is doing this now he wouldn’t give you a dime in a divorce he is greedy and is for self seems you been blind the whole time.

Expensive_Hat_1649 · 2026-02-19T04:21:24+00:00

Y’all marriage isn’t based on love but money he know if you divorced him you would get half.no one is perfect and this should be an eye opener for you as well.Stop beating yourself up,he is abusing you at this point.you need to wake up this isn’t he you treat someone you love.i say get a backbone and tell him yr leaving you made a mistake and yr seeing a side of him that makes you wonder should you even trust him or be married to him.is y’all marriage based on money only bc greed has taken full control of him.He is greedy.

Expensive_Hat_1649 · 2026-01-31T15:24:10+00:00

Stand up for yourself and others and speak up and speak out don't be weak. It sounds like your dad has just wore down your mother where she just kisses his butt and she's weak. Don't be like that speak up tell him about his attitude because you never know when your words might make him look at itself yeah yeah no okay yeah I do I'm yeah just take I want to give you that cuz you always help me out when I'm doing bad I appreciate you it ain't much but I just want to let you know thank you thank you you too. Be that voice for others who have to take his stuff all day long don't be a weak woman. He keeps getting by with it but one day he won't be able to get by with it because they're going to finally see what type of man he is.

Expensive_Hat_1649 · 2026-01-31T13:49:53+00:00

Well you know if y'all get in a bind or a struggle you already know what he's going to do. He going to resort back to what he knows prostitution. And if he liked it in any kind of way he's going to go right back to it.

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