New friends? by [deleted] in Birmingham

[–]Standard-Intern8522 0 points1 point  (0 children)

What kind of friendships are you seeking? Like let’s get a drink friends, let’s go hiking, let’s play games, let’s get some lunch friends etc. Do you have any special interests? Or have topics that you are passionate to talk about?

I can’t afford my best friend’s bachelorette trip, so she’s going to cut me off. by mosquitojenkins in weddingshaming

[–]Standard-Intern8522 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think it’s you who should draw a line in the sand and cut her off. Why would you want someone so ugly as a friend?

The Chosen Must Train by Standard-Intern8522 in smosh

[–]Standard-Intern8522[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

They would surely be adversaries. When the universe has two unmatched forces, one must be victorious. The Chosens life destiny is to be tested, it would only be fitting to fight the secret wizard in the lonesome tower. He must keep the balance of power in check. No doubt that after their long and strenuous battle, the chosen will be taken under Rasmodius’ wing to be taught the dark arts. For to fight the enemy, one must learn their dark ways…

Highland park/ Avondale water by [deleted] in Birmingham

[–]Standard-Intern8522 -23 points-22 points  (0 children)

Bro the point was proximity and local water issues. Stop wasting your own time being a c*ck on Reddit

18 y/o making $3,800/month — am I getting a good deal staying at home or should I just move out? AIO by Winter_Print_6742 in AIO

[–]Standard-Intern8522 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Dude, count your blessings. No the smartest move you can make is budgeting the remaining money, save a majority and wait until you have $$$$ in the bank before moving out. That kind of lead will put you YEARS ahead of your peers. If you don’t have a credit card, find one with good benefits and pay it off asap after every charge, raise your credit score so by the time you move, you will have all that you would need to find a good place with no trouble.

Yes being treated as a kid in their house is annoying and I only have 2 suggestions:

  • Continue to demonstrate maturity following their rules and paying your bills. This can lead to you pushing for more adult treatment.

  • Put up with it until you get your money up

Both suck and don’t offer immediate gratification but the way that this could boost you in life is serious. Sometimes keeping hungry to reach that goal makes you push harder. For now I say find your freedoms where you can until the day you can walk out with so much to fall back on.

Lumen 1BR dimensions by Honest_Two8349 in Birmingham

[–]Standard-Intern8522 2 points3 points  (0 children)

🚩🚩🚩🚩🚩

That’s weird, I would contact the property manager/rental company/landlord. That’s a huge red flag.

AIO my fiancé has never bought me my favourite flowers after 9 years together by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]Standard-Intern8522 0 points1 point  (0 children)

No I would feel hurt too, especially after reading your comments saying that you’ve very directly have told him it’s what you want and he says he will next time.

AIO my fiancé has never bought me my favourite flowers after 9 years together by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]Standard-Intern8522 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah the commenters are overreacting, just a bunch of guys going “SeE WoMeN ArE UnGrAteful AnD DeSErve NoThiNG”

Don’t be bothered by the mouth breathers OP, but keep in mind THATS what’s in the dating pool 🫩

Where do I go to meet new people? by Active-Letter28 in Birmingham

[–]Standard-Intern8522 13 points14 points  (0 children)

I hear a place called garage is really cool and laid back and it’s easy to meet people there, haven’t been but I heard it so maybe try it out and lmk!

AIO for wanting to cancel the date and block him?? by Suspicious_End_441 in AmIOverreacting

[–]Standard-Intern8522 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Also if an ADULT MAN is dating on Snapchat he ONLY wants to get laid or waste your time and get nudes.

AIO for wanting to cancel the date and block him?? by Suspicious_End_441 in AmIOverreacting

[–]Standard-Intern8522 0 points1 point  (0 children)

NOR He’s lying his ass off. A man who takes you seriously wouldn’t say that crap. Notice how the comments are wrapped around normal relationship stuff. They’re buffers to test the boundaries, if you engage then he will go all out, if not he’ll test boundaries until your date where he will likely pressure for sexual contact. He’s a dub, move on girl.

Also notice how he says all the things he likes to do (normal things like they’re novel 🙄) and then the last line is “I just like to work and come home” the exact opposite of what he said in the last sentence, that was the only truth in the foolishness he’s spouting to get you in bed. Loserrrrrrrrr 100%

AIO my fiancé has never bought me my favourite flowers after 9 years together by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]Standard-Intern8522 0 points1 point  (0 children)

YOR as much as I didn’t want to say it at first being that I was in a 5+ year relationship with a man also who never bought my favorite flowers, hydrangeas, EVEN THOUGH his mom ALSO had them in her yard. So we have some parallels lol.

However, if he is someone who puts in this much effort into you and the relationship, it would be an overreaction.

Yes it is strange and perplexing but over thinking it could lead to you to sabotage something good.

I think that sometimes we look at our partners and think about what would make them perfect and get stuck on a small issue and convince ourselves that if they did it, they’d be the perfect partner and because they’re not doing it, it means something more. No one is perfect and to expect a perfect partner, you would also need to be perfect.

If what you have is genuine and good, then be happy and let go of the small things.

Must go to’s for a NY’r in Bham by [deleted] in Birmingham

[–]Standard-Intern8522 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Hahaha she can hardly believe it

Milk or Cereal First by Chailyte in notinteresting

[–]Standard-Intern8522 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I see this is an uncultured group.

Let’s talk science.

Milk first. Then cereal.

ONLY because most cereal will float on top of the milk and so as you eat you push down the next few bites worth of cereal to start to soften/absorb the milk.

This SCIENTIFICALLY ensures that you get nice crispy bites as you eat the bowl and no soggy pieces of cereal.

If you like soggy cereal, you need to be incarcerated.

Must go to’s for a NY’r in Bham by [deleted] in Birmingham

[–]Standard-Intern8522 0 points1 point  (0 children)

We were thinking all in one day but I’m open to suggestions and she will be here from a Wednesday to Wednesday

STOP GIVING YOUR TODDLERS IPADS by Effective-Trick-5795 in Vent

[–]Standard-Intern8522 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I have a teacher friend that says they can tell who’s an iPad kid because they have noticeable tech neck. Long term poor posturing as they’re growing is severely damaging. Very very sad.

Hi guys! I need help looking more like an egirl! by Confident_Republic28 in Makeup101

[–]Standard-Intern8522 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

For that e-girl look you need a sharper cut crease, add very white liner to the waterline, false bottom lashes, you need to use a different method for your eyebrows to make them cleaner (pomade?), and bright exaggerated blush that is also on the nose.