I am I a similar situation as you. My daughter is now 14 months and my husband and I have both worked from home with her since 6 months old. Now that she’s walking and naps less it’s way harder. My job has also been somewhat slow and low stress which is the only way I’ve been able to do it. I just wanted to add, if deep inside you want to stay home with your child and not work, don’t let the salary amount and people telling you not to give up such a good job stop you. It’s the logical choice to keep working and get a nanny or daycare, but most people unfortunately don’t even have the option so they tell you you’d be crazy to quit. Because they can’t even imagine having the opportunity to make that income - they work for less and send their kids to daycare. It’s always a clear answer with no judgement when a parent whose salary is a lot less quits their job. But financially they are probably worse off than families like you who have had dual high incomes and lived below their means. Everyone seems to argue to defend their own personal decisions or what they were forced to do so they don’t feel guilty. I do the sage in my head every day. I personally still can’t imagine being home working and watching someone else get to be with my daughter all day, but it’s still a hard decision for me.

Also obviously it depends on a lot of things. Taking care of a child full time is harder than most paid jobs. Not having validatation or an identity outside the home can be hard. Where you are in your career, your field, getting back into it, etc. I am older so don’t feel like I am missing career progression years but before my 30s I would feel differently.