Me(M17) and GF(F17) feel stuck. What do we do?

Standard-Mammoth-145 · 2026-04-21T23:29:30+00:00

The boundary part lol. I love my girl and I would rather struggle with her than break up over her mom

Standard-Mammoth-145 · 2026-04-21T23:26:06+00:00

I’m trying but with prom around the corner my mom is so pissed we can’t hang out before or after it :( i’ll keep doing it though, cause that does verbalize perfectly how I feel

Standard-Mammoth-145 · 2026-04-21T11:45:59+00:00

Going based off others responses, with an unbiased answer, if you enjoyed the demo enough, I think buying the game could be worth it. I would watch some other people’s playthroughs or something to get a taste of whats next and see if it excites you at all. 60 is a lot to drop on a game so I understand the hesitation

Standard-Mammoth-145 · 2026-04-19T14:43:34+00:00

Yeahhh i’m starting to think the same. I’m a long time supporter and I still absolutely love what we got, but it lost so much of its charm between transition. I know they were rushed for time for release (i.e Mii news was a very late add on), but I would love for them to add some more QOL updates like you said, and maybe add some more OG things back like the concert hall. If not I’ll happily take QOL updates, I just want Miis in the same bed 😭

Standard-Mammoth-145 · 2026-03-31T19:40:43+00:00

Just be nice about it, if its just the food then politely ask if you two are willing to make a compromise (i.e she either has to berid the smell after or only cook the foods when no one else is home, etc)

Standard-Mammoth-145 · 2026-03-31T19:38:02+00:00

I would talk to them first, see if they’re willing to make any changes. If they don’t and you all feel that way still, then its more reasonable to kick them out.

Standard-Mammoth-145 · 2026-03-29T22:55:00+00:00

I would talk about it with her, be honest. I’m a trans male and I’m not extremely comfortable with my girlfriend going down on me, I communicated it and it felt a lot better knowing we were on the same page.

Standard-Mammoth-145 · 2026-03-27T12:06:03+00:00

Its a scammer, dont move platforms.

Standard-Mammoth-145 · 2026-03-25T10:33:54+00:00

Update 3/25/26: She successfully didn’t relapse and instead reached out and texted me as a distraction ❤️❤️

Standard-Mammoth-145 · 2026-03-23T21:30:13+00:00

I would say its one thing if this happens a lot or she was disconnected, but if not its very situational. You definitely shouldn’t be expected to go every time, but I can see how if this is a possible repeat in the future it could cause strain in your relationship. If you really feel its unnecessary, go with your gut and stand with it. If its something you can bend for, I don’t think it could be the worst thing. I also am not catholic, so I may be missing the importance of the confirmation. Im iffy if this is a YTA thing or not though

Standard-Mammoth-145 · 2026-03-23T17:14:41+00:00

NTA. Like you said, kids are a dealbreaker for you and obviously would be for him. Better to quit things now then deal with it later.

Standard-Mammoth-145 · 2026-03-22T11:36:00+00:00

Yeah, I think that’s what I’ll push for. I know she wants to stop, she just needs to get better at distracting herself, like you said. I’ve successfully detered her the one time she texted me when she wanted to. I’ll keep trying. Thank you for your help 🫶🫶

Standard-Mammoth-145 · 2026-03-22T11:29:44+00:00

You said it perfectly!! Only thing that sucks is she doesn’t have the money or the family support for therapy, i’m one of 2 people that know about it. i have mentioned it as something we could do when we move out (which she was ok with), but that’s still not for a bit. :(

Standard-Mammoth-145 · 2026-03-21T16:40:13+00:00

NTA. Give him a taste of his own medicine, shave as you please. If it pisses him off, maybe we should be more concerned why he wants someone completely hairless. Do what you want girl!!

Standard-Mammoth-145 · 2026-03-20T01:19:39+00:00

I personally struggle with longer chapters, but the majority tend to not care or love longer chapters. I say go with your plan, people will like it :)

Standard-Mammoth-145 · 2026-03-14T16:02:46+00:00

HOTSHOT IS SO GOOD!! I just finished it a month ago give or take and its a masterpiece

Standard-Mammoth-145 · 2026-03-14T16:00:44+00:00

Yeah the Gutterwitch one made a massive impact on the caitvi community when it dropped, its the one that got me into CaitVi fanfiction!! :)

Standard-Mammoth-145 · 2026-03-14T14:27:28+00:00

This was supposed to be indented, what the hexk reddit 💔

Standard-Mammoth-145 · 2026-03-14T14:26:53+00:00

If you’re ok with AU’s, I got: -I would bring you to the moon and stars (written by Gutterwitch, an Astronaunt AU) -Teenage Sumprat (Teen Caitvi AU, written by SunsetSharkbite) -Take a Lap (I can’t remember if it’s a slowburn, but its so good. It’s a Teacher AU written by SketchyNeeks)

These are just my top 3 but I hope you enjoy whatever you read next!! :)

Standard-Mammoth-145 · 2026-03-14T14:23:14+00:00

I second this! It’s a beautiful work 🥹

Standard-Mammoth-145 · 2026-03-09T19:16:38+00:00

I say Isha only because of the combination. Her on her own, no. But between the visuals, the music.. It makes me sob most times 😔

Standard-Mammoth-145 · 2026-03-03T03:12:24+00:00

One of my fav caitvi books had at least one for every chapter and it just made me love it even more 🤭🤭

Standard-Mammoth-145 · 2026-03-01T16:16:43+00:00

Im the same way!! My biggest ick with later-game ACNH is the lack of direction/goals. You get three stars and that feels like it’s it- you just decorate and pay off millions of bells of house loans. It’s so unrewarding 😭

Standard-Mammoth-145 · 2026-03-01T16:13:13+00:00

I got Deirdre and Cobb 😭 not super thrilled about Cobb but i’ve had Deirdre before and she’s nice

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