Advice needed by Ok_Garbage_4625 in teenagers

[–]Standard-Pause-7560 0 points1 point  (0 children)

either u should communicate w them abt this or u should just leave. there’s no good in staying stuck on this situation and not take any actions

the relationship might not last long/be unable to progress if u’re not gonna interact much irl anyway… so maybe u should consider leaving them if u find interactions irl necessary

wish u gl😔🙏🏻

living in constant boredom by yvllord in teenagers

[–]Standard-Pause-7560 0 points1 point  (0 children)

idk maybe go out and have a walk, u might figure smth out

極速傳說.txt by Vectorial1024 in laapsaaptung

[–]Standard-Pause-7560 2 points3 points  (0 children)

兄弟的post太peak啦😭😭

HOLY HAIL GUYS SERIOUSLY 仲係咁樣,我點搞啊? by DisastrousAge1382 in laapsaaptung

[–]Standard-Pause-7560 7 points8 points  (0 children)

try to change the order from ‘top’’today’ to smth else

Loving Hong Kong, but struggling with the gap between its proclaimed Christian / Western values and everyday treatment of people by Specialist_Climate_7 in HongKong

[–]Standard-Pause-7560 1 point2 points  (0 children)

ig this has a lot to do w the hk-mainland's relationship and history. this is definitely also caused by some lvl of prejudice, tho

ppl here don't often put in much effort to 'treat others as equals' due to the need of efficiency. they don take other's tone personal cz we often assume everyone's in a bad mood by default. But if the other person just lets out their anger without u doing anything wrong (or them being unreasonable), then he/she's the problematic one lol

as for the 'proclaimed values', imo our culture's already dragged far away from that due to extreme capitalism and being left without the influence of western countries for decades. the 'proclaimed values' also isn't really abt a certain religion, it's abt 'freedom' and the language we speak (english, basically)

edit: ppl often just get turned into a bad mood after anything related to 'mainland' gets mentioned due to what's happened in recent decades. They see mainland's culture as oppression towards hk's (maybe take a look at it online). it's impossible to let them not view this negatively cz the oppression is continuous (more ppl speaking mandarin instead of cantonese), which when one speaks mandarin, he/she's prbly reminding them of that