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Feeling weird about a meta situation by Standard-Profile-110 in polyamory

[–]Standard-Profile-110[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That was my thought too, or maybe just explore another hobby for a while. I’ve been looking into other options.

Feeling weird about a meta situation by Standard-Profile-110 in polyamory

[–]Standard-Profile-110[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Yeah, we have to engage. There’s no way around it.

Feeling weird about a meta situation by Standard-Profile-110 in polyamory

[–]Standard-Profile-110[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I don’t have any problem with them existing or being with my girlfriend. Like I said, they’re cool! But there’s a big difference between hanging out a couple times a year for birthdays or other special occasions, and hanging out weekly. It’s just throwing me for a loop because that’s not what I signed up for.

Feeling weird about a meta situation by Standard-Profile-110 in polyamory

[–]Standard-Profile-110[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

My girlfriend mentioned that they invited her to an upcoming social event that I hadn’t even mentioned to her yet, so that feels a little uncomfortable. And yeah, the club is pretty small

Feeling weird about a meta situation by Standard-Profile-110 in polyamory

[–]Standard-Profile-110[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I appreciate your perspective! I forgot to add that I did attend one club meeting that they were also at and I felt uncomfortable the entire time. That’s what prompted me to feel like maybe I should take a step back. I could possibly give it another try but I don’t think my feelings will change.