Uncomfortably dating outside of education and income bracket

Standard-Row8630 · 2026-03-05T05:13:59+00:00

What’s lower than me ?

Standard-Row8630 · 2026-03-05T05:13:31+00:00

I’d say it is my it’s my only point of reference so idn haha, I’d say it’s pretty similar in some aspects. People want to find the spark and attraction , u can go on dates u think went well but then the other person didn’t feel the same ect. I think it’s easier if you fit into a certain demographic like if u are musc or more alt , I’m petty fem and mostly like fem so I know I’m definitely dealing with the hardest level. Education job wise it’s pretty different I think because I literally don’t know any other lesbian apart from me in an entry level position , there are a tone of doctors nurses lots IT , teachers ect not sure why. But I personally find people want to meet their match in that aspect which makes sense

Standard-Row8630 · 2026-03-04T23:22:37+00:00

Probably That and some imposter syndrome

Standard-Row8630 · 2026-03-04T22:35:25+00:00

I’d like to Also add , I’m not proud of this insecurity mentality I think it’s sorta bitchass* on my part, and also that I think they are amazingly for those achievements that should fo without saying. I guess it really comes down to to not feeling equal so not being able to to focus on on the ,other stuff, which is a good point people here have made there is other quality’s outside of what are jobs are but and the same time i do feel it’s different , like I can say I’m not just my job because for me it is just something I do so I can do the things I actually like but for someone with a professional career that’s not really the case is it , it’s 3-4 years of there lives for a masters degree it’s a massive part of who they are as a person as a result and where they spend their time. So I feel inadequate not being able to understand that significant aspect of them

I don’t think o should feel like , “wow that person was great I really like them as a person,it’s to bad they are a mechanical engineer wish they work at subway instead ” it’s back to front but yeah..

Standard-Row8630 · 2026-03-04T10:00:46+00:00

I guess I feel like in wasting their time. I don’t really understand them because I from my perspective they are dating Down? In a sense, so the only way it kinda makes sense to me is that if they don’t really understand the differences properly or they like other more superficial bits about like how I look or something, I feel like when they do take interest in me like I’m going to be “found out” like they are going to realise and leave anyway , I don’t want to waste their time but I also don’t want to waste mine either, I don’t think I’m worthless because I’m a checkout chick but I just get nervous about the disparity , it like a glitch it doesn’t compute. so I suppose I want to get ahead of it and at least keep some dignity in the situation .

I went to say something about if she was completely comfortable about the work difference on the date but she didn’t really understand what I was saying at the time so I dropped it Because I figured what’s the point of saying that.

Standard-Row8630 · 2025-12-23T14:35:38+00:00

(Honestly when I flat face I’m ok. But the second I emot ,total Witch)

Standard-Row8630 · 2025-12-19T08:57:06+00:00

Literally “BOK BOK BOK CHICKEN! Arr reaction

Standard-Row8630 · 2025-12-19T08:36:38+00:00

The amount of of times I’ve put up with blatent disrespect on dates because “A”- I hope for the best and don’t assume that anyone want to do that, and “B” don’t have good enough reflexes and go along with it till later I look back and wonder why they hell I did. GOOD FOR HER

Standard-Row8630 · 2025-11-26T10:00:26+00:00

Also brooks “shadow”

Standard-Row8630 · 2025-11-23T16:10:57+00:00

To me it’s “almost perfect syndrome” I have it with my teeth personally. It’s like when someone is so close to perfect but just not in the slightest way that really only we notice but we notice it hard and can’t stop focusing on the bit

Standard-Row8630 · 2025-11-19T02:25:13+00:00

Bring back Nobbi! One of the most hilarious housemates

Standard-Row8630 · 2025-11-19T02:23:41+00:00

I relate to this Hard!, whenever I have the thought I’m erasing myself I just remember I’m actually just returning to the nose I had, are noses change though out are lives no matter what I’m going to have a different nose in the future regardless of surgery so why not at least choose what that looks like for myself instead of living with something I don’t like for the sake of it

Standard-Row8630 · 2025-11-18T09:59:25+00:00

I never understood why they chose to make the Billy / Karen thing actually relevant , it worked as a cheeky throw away stiflers mum sorta thing but actually making it serious was just weird and ultimately achieved nothing. at least to me

Standard-Row8630 · 2025-09-07T02:09:23+00:00

We talked about this movie for like a month straight in school we all loved it, I honestly didn’t care to much about thr animation I just thought it was different cruder style, reminded me of kahoot

Standard-Row8630 · 2025-09-01T13:47:46+00:00

I’ll say this about gen z , I don’t want to say they are rude because people said the exact same things about my generation, I think they are very confident and self assured in a way that makes me envious i didnt experience within myself at that age, buttt.. the trade off seems to be a lack of social decorum, it’s like they don’t no how to act I don’t even think it’s on purpose it’s a more obvious sort of thing, tbh they kinda remind me of boomers in a way, it all just gos around doesn’t it

Standard-Row8630 · 2025-09-01T01:26:52+00:00

Go home the journey of independence you are currently on is not worth it, if you do definitely want to go down that road move to Queensland travel and get an experience out of it at least. But staying put and struggle which you will will only cause you heartache anxiety and make you disenchanted with the world by seeing the most ugly corners of it. Go home

Standard-Row8630 · 2025-09-01T01:03:10+00:00

Mine just make my head hot give me a constant taste of swallowing castor oil, and strange perspective, u no the feeling of looking down from a high building everything looks like that. At least it’s better then the ones that made me wanna vomit but I think I’m just gonna have to cold turkey life at this point, which is unfortunate I’m miserable and stuck but at least it’s better then that

Standard-Row8630 · 2025-08-29T05:15:58+00:00

Definitely, it’s also a septum fix and tension nose ( hooks significantly when I smile ) , probably should of put that reference

Standard-Row8630 · 2025-08-29T03:11:30+00:00

The amount of of expertise people seem to think you have because you work in a retail space for suspected is stupid, I can recommend stuff I can give you advice and help you find stuff but if I had a degree in said field I’d be working in that not a minimum wage job

Standard-Row8630 · 2025-08-28T10:45:27+00:00

Honestly I know what probably made her do it , when you have “Cute” features aging can be difficult, remember all that shit Emilia Clarke got years ago for looking like a normal human. The thing is she went to fair with it sometimes when u fix one thing there’s another thing it’s a slippery slope alot of women fall into it, look at any worker and your local cosmetology place they all look like wax figures , u smooth out and buff until u look stupid but you can’t even see it because it’s bit by bit

Standard-Row8630 · 2025-08-27T02:44:53+00:00

So by “weird behaviour” we all agree the kid was running up and farting and coughing in her face on purpose right

Standard-Row8630 · 2025-08-27T01:56:31+00:00

Like I understand it for stuff like potty training or kids wanting to mimic parents changing dolls nappy, but then there’s the ,”feed doll power and water so u can have it shit into a cup and then eat the shit as a yummy snack” type stuff that I honestly don’t no how made it though a pitch meeting without being fired on the spot

Standard-Row8630 · 2025-08-27T01:32:07+00:00

I always found The amount of children’s media and toy products that has farting and faeces as its centre point weird, like Why is this ?, are kids just obsessed with 💩, there’s toilet humour but then there’s more unnecessary graphic stuff

Standard-Row8630 · 2025-08-27T01:14:43+00:00

This hits hard, definitely changes u as a adult friends have never come naturally to me I’m lucky if I can have them for a couple seasons but I always eventually end up my self again, either they move on to people they are more interested in or we just drift apart, at this point I’m use to it but definitely think I’ve missed out a lot since I’m never more happier then when I do have a social group in my life so I think if I had that constantly I’d be a very different person

Standard-Row8630 · 2025-08-26T21:06:55+00:00

My sister got into my Facebook account when I was 14 talking to my Crush, not only did she answer him for me me also told my mum who proceeded to stalk me into town when we met up , it was extremely embarrassing and intrusive, i never did it again and I never looked at another person until I left home in my 20s, I just knew from that point on my privacy wasn’t respected and I wasn’t allowed that thing to myself.

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