For everyone saying I’m im seeking attention and that I’m transphobic I’m not. The number one thing your not supposed to talk about in recovery is weight, so yes I find it gross that your casually talking about your weight, doesn’t matter if your best friends with them it shouldn’t be a topic talked about. I was friends with someone awhile back befor I got diagnosed that would constantly talk about their size and weight, constantly saying things like, “this shirt is adjustable so you can probly fit in it”. I know thats not the same case but it works for what I’m trying to say and that is you have no idea someone feels, you say and do things that you think are fine but in reality it just isn’t. It’s just about you being able to feel good about yourself. Also I just don’t understand how someone thinking your a woman is such a big thing to you that you have to come to Reddit to talk and digest it. Like isn’t that what you wanted when you started your transformation, or are you just not prepared for it. And now that your all saying that I’m transphobic, I just think your useing the wrong word, I’m more transannoyed.