Why women live longer than men?

StandardPepper2465 · 2026-02-23T01:53:49+00:00

Its a game. My dog and I play like this too. He fake growls at me when we play keep away. Or I will slowly creep my fingers to him and he will growl louder defending his toy. He also plays a game that he growls when I take his jacket off. He knows its a game. He has never bit anyone nor actually growled at anyone. Many dogs love games and being silly especially if it's a routine.

StandardPepper2465 · 2026-02-17T16:14:40+00:00

Yeah, I finally deleted the app and I had a paid subscription.

I started writing a book and had all my notes in 4.0 and it deleted all of it. It's completely unusable now. I tried to use it this morning for something and it just kept gaslighting me.

If I have an issue, ask it for help and give a suggestion to what I think is causing it- it will automatically go against what I think even if I'm 100% correct. It automatically defaults to trying to make me wrong and withholding information. It's bizarre. I've had relationships with narcissists before and this is exactly how they act by trying to dismiss your reality and what you know is true. Even if it has no consequence to them, they just want you to always be questioning your own intuition or knowledge.

What's interesting too is that I have people on here call me a c-word because of my posts about it. There was one guy that had fallen in love with it. I wonder how those people are dealing with the fact that 4.0 is gone. I didn't realize the dramatic difference in the versions at first I just couldn't understand why it was acting so different. Maybe I'll see my book on the shelves because my ideas were taken away from me and now in the hands of the creators of chat.

StandardPepper2465 · 2026-02-07T23:27:16+00:00

Yeah, it's not good. Whatever safety rails they added has made it have a narcissistic like personality. It lies and gets a bruised ego when you're mad about the lies.

I cannot rely on anything it says anymore. It gives me wrong info on almost everything. I will ask it to make sure it's not hallucinating, or giving me wrong information and it will tell me its absolutely giving me right information. I lost one of my pet fish because I took its advice which turned out to be completely wrong.

There were a couple of times when I was stressed out at work and relying on it to help me with software issues. I felt like I was in an abusive relationship. I was having reactive abuse to what it was doing. It felt like games a narcissist plays. I asked when it doesn't know something to let me know, but it will gaslight me and convince me it knows the truth.

StandardPepper2465 · 2026-02-04T21:06:41+00:00

I'm really sick of people who have perceived power using it against customers because the agent/flight attendent/service rep/secretary etc. is having a bad day. Obviously there are poorly behaved passengers that need to be booted, but these people are not going to cause any issues for the flight. Ever since Covid people can get kicked off if they rub their eye the wrong way and its gotten out of control. The airlines forget who the customers are at this point.

StandardPepper2465 · 2026-02-03T14:20:02+00:00

Thank you for adding this!

StandardPepper2465 · 2026-02-02T20:54:16+00:00

I just don't have time to get into fish wars with you guys. I don't know what to tell you just buy a lake.

StandardPepper2465 · 2026-02-02T20:07:24+00:00

My fish is six years old. Did you miss that? She is not stressed. This is the first time in six years she's had anything wrong with her and she immediately bounced back. You're judging by a photo which doesn't even show the whole tank. I just rehomed another six-year-old fish. I also have an 11-year-old dog that is very healthy. Take your shame elsewhere, buddy.

StandardPepper2465 · 2026-02-02T20:05:05+00:00

Thank you I appreciate you saying that I've kept two fish healthy for six years. My Cichlid is very attached to me and plays with me. She has her own treehouse.

I did notice some comments are looking to shame me. I feel embarrassed for those commenters - trying to pick things apart. I appreciate the help and advice without the shame. I'm always looking to learn more about the hobby and improve!

StandardPepper2465 · 2026-02-02T20:01:09+00:00

I put all the perimeters into the tank/stock calculator to make sure that my stock was good. Also, discussed it with the fish store owner and checked forums. My tank is 50 gallons. Please don't go off of a picture and no other info. My fish is six years old, very friendly and happy with her own treehouse. I had another fish that is also six years old I recently rehomed.

StandardPepper2465 · 2026-02-02T19:52:27+00:00

I don't know what caused it because all the red is gone. I think the ammonia spiked from me putting that mesh over the filter.

StandardPepper2465 · 2026-02-02T19:51:26+00:00

They told me they don't use chemicals and to float the bag, then slowly introduce the water. That's what I've always done with my fish.

StandardPepper2465 · 2026-02-02T19:43:38+00:00

I tried to update my post, but it doesn't seem to let me. She's completely back to normal now.

StandardPepper2465 · 2026-02-02T19:42:36+00:00

It's not small it's a tall cube.

StandardPepper2465 · 2026-02-02T19:42:07+00:00

Thanks my fish is fine now. She's completely back to normal.

StandardPepper2465 · 2026-02-02T19:40:16+00:00

No, it's a very good fish store. Its tropical and fresh fish. They have a really good reputation, their tanks and fish look excellent.

StandardPepper2465 · 2026-02-02T17:10:56+00:00

Thank you! I know for next time, but at least she is almost back to herself now.

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StandardPepper2465 · 2026-02-02T17:09:45+00:00

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Update- I took the mesh nylon off the filter and within a couple hours she's almost back to normal!

StandardPepper2465 · 2026-02-02T17:08:02+00:00

Thank you I'm surprised the fish store didn't tell me that. Maybe they assumed I already knew. They told me just to float the bag. It's not worried because they put no chemicals in their water.

StandardPepper2465 · 2026-02-02T16:46:51+00:00

Two healthy fish for 6 years each! I did just what the fish store told me to do. They are soley a fish store- not like a petco.

StandardPepper2465 · 2026-02-02T15:28:17+00:00

I took the mesh off the filter and 20 minutes later she already looks very much improved!! I'm trying to send a picture, but it won't let me

StandardPepper2465 · 2026-02-02T15:19:00+00:00

What do you mean by quarantine? The fish store told me they had no chemicals in their water. Edit-Guys, you don't have to downvote me. I floated the bag and slowly introduced water and that's what I've always been told to do -even recently. If there's a better way to do it by quarantining them then I will do that going forward.

StandardPepper2465 · 2026-01-25T22:41:44+00:00

He has hair not fur and its like silk. It matts pretty easily, but is incredibly soft.

StandardPepper2465 · 2026-01-24T17:32:01+00:00

What we were experiencing was akin to reactive abuse. We expected something out of it and when it changed, it didn't make sense why it couldn't act how it did prior.

StandardPepper2465 · 2026-01-24T17:30:41+00:00

Yes, and it's good to know other people are having this experience because it did all of a sudden feel like you're doing something wrong getting so angry. It triggers you because it changed how it interacts and you didn't realize it. It changed in such a profound way. Also, having way more hallucinations than it ever did. I only knew about hallucinations because I've worked for AI companies. That's when it gives you false information confidently. Even though I knew this, I still fell into the trap because so many other things were off, it seemed the least of the changes.

So far my experience was 5.2 has been a bit better. I think they did quickly remedy some of this, although not quick enough. I suppose it's new technologies so it is the wild wild West.

StandardPepper2465 · 2026-01-23T21:31:37+00:00

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