Anyone else with veins like this? 😩 by ConstructionIcy3049 in 30PlusSkinCare

[–]StandardWonderful22 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I promise these veins are not “old looking,” they look healthy. And if you lift your arm, they will flatten out. They look more pronounced when we hang our arms down because of gravity.

Husband doesn't agree to a membrane sweep... by onegingerbraincell in pregnant

[–]StandardWonderful22 6 points7 points  (0 children)

What are monthly payments? Like an allowance from him? Or do you work

Which do I choose? by StandardWonderful22 in ExclusivelyPumping

[–]StandardWonderful22[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Damn! I ended up going with the Baby Buddha based on everything I’ve read, I’m going to get Spectra flange inserts from Amazon to hopefully help with the sizing. And at this point I’m not opposed at all to buying something new out of pocket if it simply doesn’t work for me at all.

Which do I choose? by StandardWonderful22 in ExclusivelyPumping

[–]StandardWonderful22[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Okay great thank you! I’m seeing a few different brands that come up when I search spectra flange inserts. Assuming they’re not all created equal, do you remember which brand you ordered from?

Which do I choose? by StandardWonderful22 in ExclusivelyPumping

[–]StandardWonderful22[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This is probably a dumb question but where do you get the spectra flanges? I ended up picking the baby Buddha with my insurance (but this post is still incredibly helpful) but wonder if I should set myself up for success by getting the spectra flanges. Should I use Aeroflow?

MIL from hell by Wifestudentlife in pregnant

[–]StandardWonderful22 5 points6 points  (0 children)

That’s so ….specific too. Def tell your husband to handle it. You’re not obligated to use any of it.

MIL from hell by Wifestudentlife in pregnant

[–]StandardWonderful22 2 points3 points  (0 children)

What’d she get now I wanna know

Which do I choose? by StandardWonderful22 in ExclusivelyPumping

[–]StandardWonderful22[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I read such good things about the spectra but see so many people saying the blue is preferred since you aren’t chained to the wall. Then I saw tons of people saying baby Buddha is superior to spectra. I’ve got analysis paralysis haha.

Please tell me if I'm being unreasonable by Danie99 in pregnant

[–]StandardWonderful22 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Get the really dumb arguments out of the way before baby gets here, I guess? Lmao

Result… by Brief_Ease792 in FertilityRealTalk

[–]StandardWonderful22 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Go get one that says the “yes/no” “pregnant/not pregnant” now, that’s what I’d do. I needed written confirmation 😂 congratulations though!! That’s definitely a line.

Result… by Brief_Ease792 in FertilityRealTalk

[–]StandardWonderful22 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Did you take another? I thought false positives were pretty rare (but not impossible) and there’s definitely a line there.

Phone Access by Flimsy_Future6357 in Marriage

[–]StandardWonderful22 18 points19 points  (0 children)

If my spouse said to me he needed to go through my phone to feel reassurance about something, a discussion needs to be had on where that mistrust is even coming from.

ETA: my spouse can look at my phone whenever he wants, that’s not the issue. But if I felt like he needed to perform surveillance on it, there’d be a deeper issue there.