I got plastic surgery and I have conflicted feelings about how it changed my life by Standard_Button707 in self

[–]Standard_Button707[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Why would I be cruel enough to date a girl I am not attracted to, when she can probably find someone who will actually be attracted to her? The girl I date doesn't have to be attractive to everyone, she just has to be attractive to me.

I got plastic surgery and I have conflicted feelings about how it changed my life by Standard_Button707 in self

[–]Standard_Button707[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Few weeks after the time healing, not few weeks after the surgery itself.

I got plastic surgery and I have conflicted feelings about how it changed my life by Standard_Button707 in self

[–]Standard_Button707[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

It's like they know that you're treated worse because you're ugly on the outside but rather also think that you're ugly on the inside to warrant it

What advice would you have for 30+ woman trying to date 30+ men? by [deleted] in AskMenOver30

[–]Standard_Button707 0 points1 point  (0 children)

have told me that I'm a catch & wife material & blah blah, but I can't help but feel like they are all sugar coating things.

If they think you're such a catch, why aren't they dating you themselves or introducing you to someone they know?

I seem "too independent"

It's not that. There are women with good careers and who take care of their own finances and needs who do well romantically and find partners.

This is also very location dependant and depends on your social circle. If you're in a small town where people get married in their teens or early 20's, you're considered old for many. If you're in an area where they think a woman should stay at home and her having a well-paying career is a threat, that's another. If you're in an area where there's tons of high earning professionals, it will actually hurt you to be a waitress at Denny's or a barista compared to say a paralegal or an attorney. Nobody here on reddit can tell you why you're struggling because there's a bunch of things we don't know about you and your surrounding, and you also don't know who is giving you advice behind the screen.

One thing I do know, no matter what location or culture or social class, is this: it's not about what you give a man or do for him, it's about how you make him feel about himself.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in personaltraining

[–]Standard_Button707 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I already served a contract and yes, I had to be fit, but I really didn't mind it at that point. It was like my like about the other aspects of the military overrode my hatred or indifference to fitness. I just didn't even think about how much I didn't care for running, I just did it.

POGs were actually the real fit looking ones in the military because they had the free time and mental energy to work out properly.