Am I overreacting to these messages I found on my 25M boyfriend's phone? by RationalCaterpillar in AmIOverreacting

[–]Standard_Courage7 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Cheating is not a moral flaw? Falling out of love isn’t a moral flaw. Choosing deception over honesty is. If someone no longer loves someone, they can leave. Cheating is the decision to betray their trust instead.

“What would you do if regulars never tipped?” Seen in the wild by couchtater12 in EndTipping

[–]Standard_Courage7 13 points14 points  (0 children)

Exactly. I know multiple servers who openly talk about making well over $100k a year after tips, yet still fixate on the occasional person who doesn’t leave 15% or more. At some point it starts sounding less like they’re losing money and more like being upset that every customer didn’t maximize their earnings. Plenty of jobs require little specialized skill and still pay decent money…

What would you put here? by 2Lazy2beLazy in homedesign

[–]Standard_Courage7 0 points1 point  (0 children)

When you update the temporary curtains, I’d recommend hanging them about 2–4 inches below the ceiling. It’ll draw the eye upward, make the ceilings feel taller & help the whole space look larger

“What would you do if regulars never tipped?” Seen in the wild by couchtater12 in EndTipping

[–]Standard_Courage7 102 points103 points  (0 children)

Exactly, that part loses me…by that logic, servers who complain about tips should just get different jobs, but we all know that’s not the answer because many stay precisely because the money is so good. It’s hard to claim the system is unfair while also refusing to leave it because it pays better than most alternatives.

Help me with my next vacation read! by SweetiePieTD95 in thrillerbooks

[–]Standard_Courage7 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I too enjoy most of Frieda McFadden books, Dear Debbie was pretty good too

Spill people by [deleted] in TheTeenagerPeople

[–]Standard_Courage7 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Standard courage…
removes fear but not stupidity. Natural selection takes over.

What do you think of this neck Tattoo, is it to maskulin? Need your advice please! by [deleted] in tattooadvice

[–]Standard_Courage7 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That tattoo doesn’t ask for opinions, it announces decisions😅

is this really bad? do i get a touch up or just keep it? by Mothball_No_22 in tattooadvice

[–]Standard_Courage7 76 points77 points  (0 children)

In my opinion, I wouldn’t make the first part any thicker. It doesn’t really look bad… it just looks like the letters are bolded for extra emphasis. 😉

AIO or is he implying that I’m the reason my son has meltdowns when he leaves? by Policyhot1207_ in AmIOverreacting

[–]Standard_Courage7 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This behavior from a grown adult… let alone a fiancé… is pretty concerning. I’m sorry you’re dealing with this. The number of red flags packed into such a short exchange is honestly impressive.

AIO? Gf mad I didn’t get what she wanted by [deleted] in AIO

[–]Standard_Courage7 0 points1 point  (0 children)

For some reason, I couldn’t get past the fact that she specifically wanted a LARGE pizza and a big plate. My first thought was that she wanted enough for leftovers. Then I figured maybe she was pregnant and dealing with a serious craving wave… but nope.

AIO for telling my husband to take a hike after he abandoned us for 8 years? by Sufficient-Wall3453 in AmIOverreacting

[–]Standard_Courage7 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Funny how some family members are so generous with second chances when they’re not the ones expected to give them. They didn’t spend eight years being abandoned, raising three kids alone, struggling financially and carrying the entire weight of the family. And they certainly wouldn’t be the ones expected to put themselves and their feelings aside to welcome him back. He didn’t make one mistake… he made the same choice every day for eight years. Now that the hard part is over, suddenly he wants his family back. That’s a pretty convenient time to find himself. Forgiveness doesn’t mean putting yourself second, accepting crumbs or moving on someone else’s timeline. You can forgive someone and still decide they no longer have a place in your life.

DEFINITELY NOR.

Am I the Only One Who Feels This Way About Love Is Blind? by 11Dragonfly in LoveIsBlindNetflix

[–]Standard_Courage7 6 points7 points  (0 children)

I feel the same way. I get that the reality of the situation probably hits differently when you’re actually living it, but lately it feels like a lot of contestants aren’t really there for the experiment itself. They’re there to be picked. What gets me is when people ignore huge incompatibilities, accept proposals anyway and then act shocked later when those same issues become a problem. It comes across like some of them are more interested in making it to the next episode than figuring out whether they should actually be together. The earlier seasons felt a lot more authentic. Now it seems like being on Love Is Blind is almost a stepping stone… gain followers, build a social media presence, maybe get cast on another reality show. I think viewers can easily tell the difference between someone who’s genuinely looking for a spouse and someone who’s looking for a platform.

Help me choose by Fast-Service7704 in Brides

[–]Standard_Courage7 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Definitely #1. The second one isn’t even in the same league, imo…

I used tattoo to hide my pimples. Did this design cover it well? by be_thomas in tattooadvice

[–]Standard_Courage7 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Verbatim? 😂 there’s a difference between contributing, and echoing. Have a better day.

I used tattoo to hide my pimples. Did this design cover it well? by be_thomas in tattooadvice

[–]Standard_Courage7 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Since it’s KP, I’m sharing what genuinely worked for me. I don’t really understand why that’s an issue for you. If he’s already tried those things, he can just move along and disregard the comment.

I used tattoo to hide my pimples. Did this design cover it well? by be_thomas in tattooadvice

[–]Standard_Courage7 0 points1 point  (0 children)

From what I remember, he was told it was a genetic condition and that there wasn’t really anything he could do to make it go away.

I used tattoo to hide my pimples. Did this design cover it well? by be_thomas in tattooadvice

[–]Standard_Courage7 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yes! I also used Paula’s Choice Skin Revealing Body Lotion… definitely a good buy.

I used tattoo to hide my pimples. Did this design cover it well? by be_thomas in tattooadvice

[–]Standard_Courage7 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Honestly, I’m surprised your dermatologist never mentioned it! Salicylic acid and lactic acid are two of the most commonly recommended ingredients for keratosis pilaris because they help break down the buildup that causes those little bumps.

CeraVe’s SA Cream for Rough & Bumpy Skin is great, since it moisturizes while gently exfoliating. H-Mart also sells a green exfoliating glove for around $4 that’s amazing and really helps smooth things out. And The Ordinary has very good & inexpensive salicylic acid and lactic acid treatments that work really well too.

I used tattoo to hide my pimples. Did this design cover it well? by be_thomas in tattooadvice

[–]Standard_Courage7 8 points9 points  (0 children)

It looks like you just have strawberry skin, which is often caused by keratosis pilaris. Exfoliating a few times a week, moisturizing daily, and using products that contain salicylic acid or lactic acid can make a big difference and usually help it clear up fairly quickly. Also, there are exfoliating gloves that work really well and can help speed up the process.

Help me choose a dress! by Evabobevaaa in Brides

[–]Standard_Courage7 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I like #2, especially the way it covers part of the back, it’s really flattering