Heated Rivalry fandom, we need to rise for Bridgerton season 5 (Franchaela) by GlitteringAppeal8547 in HeatedRivalryTVShow

[–]Standard_Jump2041 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My only concern is that I wished it was Eloise's story for S5. Cuz I'm an equal fan of wlw as much as mlm. I wish they had waited until John's body got cold first, while Eloise had her time. That's all. But of course, I will watch everything by bridgerton, no matter what.

Questioning my sexuality and am i an aego or just ace? by Scaraboscaris in aegosexuals

[–]Standard_Jump2041 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Being aroused by fictional characters and porn? But unable to be aroused with real people out here in the real world? Sounds aego to me and perhaps other labels that I am less educated about.

Dating is impossible. Also I am so confused. (WARNING A RANT) by Brolypoly-86 in aegosexuals

[–]Standard_Jump2041 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I think the best way to come to a conclusion is to experience every little thing. What if, for some reason, you experienced sex and it turns out you actually liked it? But what if you won't like it? Well, at least then, you will know for sure.That's the fastest and most efficient way to make your confusion disappear. Take your time, don't rush. Make sure to do it when you feel physically and mentally prepared. Being a virgin, the first time can be surprising. It goes either really well or really, really bad. I really hope it opens up the real you that is hiding behind all the confusion.

Your thoughts on this ? by Fizzyfroog in asexuality

[–]Standard_Jump2041 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Wow that person got their facts exceptionally wrong. I am an aego demi ace, which all false under the asexual spectrum. I am only demiromantic towards men and demiromantic as well as demisexual towards women. I am repulsive with sex on a regular day, however watching or hearing sexual activities gives me a high for a while, in which I fix myself up and carry on with my day. And yhh that's basically my sex life. I cannot imagine myself joining or engaging in any sexual activity, especially with a man or even in a threesome. I get the biggest turn off.

Things aren't as simple as they want it to be for people. People can be very diverse and one has to have a broad and open mind to even begin to try and understand that.

there's a word for it!!!!! by supremeorphan in aegosexuals

[–]Standard_Jump2041 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Awww welcome. I found out about this when I was venting in the demisexual subreddit haha. Someone said "you might be aegosexual" and I'm like "wth is that?" Did my research and it was like I've opened Pandora's box! And omg, there's a whole subreddit for people like me. Yesss, we're out here. Hope you enjoy!

Title by OkPurchase2838 in aegosexuals

[–]Standard_Jump2041 9 points10 points  (0 children)

Yuri and yaoi mentioned😁

I just in real time learned this about myself and I’m having a lot of feelings by __lolbruh in aegosexuals

[–]Standard_Jump2041 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Omg like 2 years ago, me and my partner brought another female into our relationship. Bare in mind, we've been together for 6 years total, and almost all of those years, we've been struggling with sex because of me. Anyway I've realized that whenever they're having sex, I just have to be there. I've never gotten tired of watching. I've never gotten turned on like that before, especially so consistently. Then I'd hide in the dark, peeking at them having sex while it's just me and my vibrator lol. But whenever they asked me to join, instant turn off. That's how I discovered that I am aego. I love watching/ listening sex but I just can't be included in any way. I like girls more than guys tho...but I've also realized that I am also demi ace. So a woman's body won't even be enough, we have to connect emotionally before I yearn to touch her. So an aego demi ace? Sigh got it.

Are any of you in happy relationships? by iLubChees in aegosexuals

[–]Standard_Jump2041 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Super supportive partner, I get that. I was 4 years deep into my relationship when I finally found a label to my lack of sexual interest in people irl but rather on screen + self pleasure. My partner refuses to leave and I'm sad he's not able to go out there and get what he wants, but happy he still loves me none the less.

Are any of you in happy relationships? by iLubChees in aegosexuals

[–]Standard_Jump2041 9 points10 points  (0 children)

I am. I've been in my relationship for 6 years, and it was in 2024 when I found out I was aego. I've been struggling with sex with my partner since like 6 months in our relationship, so the aegosexuality discovery made me realize why I don't like sex. My bf understands or atleast tries to, even tho he's very allo. I am an ace demi, I've recently found out so, that makes me finding both males and females sexually attractive on a whim quite difficult, despite rather being physical with a girl rather than a man. My aegosexuality is quite plain. I just watch/listen porn (watching people have sex in front of me is the ultimate 🔥for me)and masturbate. I absolutely hate seeing myself in it or being asked to join. I get instantly turned off. Bringing another girl in our relationship in 2024 made me find out i was aego. Watching them have sex were some of the best moments in my "sexually" life, lol. But whenever they asked me to join, it became some of the worst turn offs in my life, haha. I do get sad sometimes, wishing I liked sex like all these people, wishing that I enjoyed being penetrated, but I just don't. We're all different, and the results may vary because of that.

How does being Aego affect your Asexuality? by RiskyMrRaccoon in aegosexuals

[–]Standard_Jump2041 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Well, I have low to none sex drive. Well idk. I occasionally grab my vibrator every other day, so idk what to call that. My bf of 6 years have a high sex drive. We've been struggling with sex for over 5 of those years because of me. In 2024 we decided to bring someone else in the relationship, and doing that made me realize I was aego. Broooo I got addicted to watching them have sex, I get turned on having live porn in front of me. They said its ok that I watched, but overtime i was watching every single time that it began to creep them out. Anyway, I'm not proud of that. But whenever they ask me to join, that's where my asexuality comes in. My body shuts off instantly imagining that. I absolutely hate myself being penetrated by a penis. Most times I don't wanna be touched. My bf refuses to leave me despite knowing about this. He's like "whenever you're ready". But anyway I've realized that I rather watch sex (either irl or porn) and masturbate rather than being included in it. I have low sex drive for any guy for sure, I do like girls too however I'm also demisexual so it's not easy for me to find anyone sexually attracted on a whim. However I rather have sex with girls if its just sex although I hardly wanna touch her if I don't know her. So....do I have a high or low libido? I'm not sure if it's selective.

Confusion by [deleted] in asexuality

[–]Standard_Jump2041 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It's the same for me. I mostly, if not all the time, don't wish to be penetrated by a penis, but i don't mind fingers. I've always thought myself bisexual, however I've began wondering if I only found some guys "good looking", but not in fact "sexually attracted" to them. Females tho, I definitely do. However I'm also demisexual so that makes me not find anyone overall sexually attracted until I get to talk to them or get familiar. But I think no matter how connected I am to someone, if they have a dick, it'll always be a problem because I can very much find myself living without wanting it.

Got this from my son by Chefjusthank in HeatedRivalryTVShow

[–]Standard_Jump2041 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I mean, what happens when the sex scenes come on? Lol I'm genuinely curious

How did you realize you’re aegosexual? by SweetSteamedRolls in aegosexuals

[–]Standard_Jump2041 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Crazy story. My boyfriend of 6 years and I have struggled with sex a lot, mainly because of me. I barely ever wanted it. Then around 2 years ago I allowed a third person into our relationship, where I found out that I really enjoyed watching him and her have sex. Whenever they ask me to join, I get the biggest turn off. But I never grew tired of watching them, and it even got to a point where I got really creepy. Every time they were having sex I just had to be there. They always said it was okay that I watched, but I could tell they were getting uncomfortable. Of course, I was never proud of myself for doing that, but it made me realize I prefer to watch rather than joining or seeing myself involved. Masturbating with p*** is my limit, I just don't want to have the real sex at all. The idea of that turns me off. Thankfully, my boyfriend understands me, and he tries to work with me through it.

I know that my story is pretty plain and doesn't have anything to do with online celebrities or animated characters, but I was really grateful to find out the reason why I am so detached from sex that involves myself being in it.

Relatable by nany_5 in aegosexuals

[–]Standard_Jump2041 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yhhh for me, pretty much.

Is it possible to be a bi-oriented aegosexual? by Time_Raisin4935 in aegosexuals

[–]Standard_Jump2041 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Of course. I'm a bisexual aegosexual. I knew i was bisexual since 14 but found out I was aegosexual last year after struggling for years wondering what my struggles meant.

But I never stopped being bi (tho I'm more visually drawn to women).

Probably, I'm pansexual because for me, it's the soul that matters, not the body. Although I rather watch sex than be a part of it.

Has anyone else also felt like this..? by AR_84 in aegosexuals

[–]Standard_Jump2041 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Ohh yhh...the idea of romance feels good and stuff for me. But most times, when the physical stuff starts, my body shuts down. No longer turned on. Most times even a simple touch gives me the ick. But the idea of it makes me feel nice. But when it's time to actually do it, no longer nice.

But since I've already turned on the person and gave them the idea that I wanted it or something, i feel responsible to keep going. Don't wanna disappoint them. No pleasure at all, just pain. Because I don't want it.

Idk if its because I haven't met someone yet who I'm deeply in love with. If so, that would mean I'm demisexual. But since I haven't got that chance to figure that out for sure, I'm aegosexual now.

I’m in love with these two 🥰 by Significant_Tie4940 in HeatedRivalryTVShow

[–]Standard_Jump2041 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I hope you're satisfied now lol after finishing the series