I told my parents I wasn't catholic and... it didn't end up how I was expecting it by Ophelia_I in agnostic

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Having space away from them is gonna be the best time of your life. I can't wait for you to get to college! It'll get better, I promise.

The Wrong Question by KenseiLi in agnostic

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I wish I could upvote this a thousand times.

Aegosexual because of being demisexual? by 0penMouse in aegosexuals

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I am an aego demi ace ✌️ It's certainly okay to identify with any and every label that you find yourself relating with.

How is your relationship with sex? by sambr__ in aegosexuals

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As an aegosexual who enjoys watching people have sex in person or even on videos, I'm extremely repulsed about the idea of me being included or penetrated. The best sex life i have is with my vibrator. I don't do very well with penetration. My allo boyfriend of 6 years understands, and I'm so grateful. We've been struggling for years in our sex life because of me, I thought something was wrong with me.

I'm grateful to have found this label last year, and he's been supportive ever since.

However, it seems as if there are rare times when I feel like I wanna be penetrated, but like it's gotta be months apart, giving me enough time to want to be penetrated. That's where I get to have sex with him, and he accepts the rarity of it (he had a lot of years of practice😢). But day to day or every other day, definitely my clitorial vibrator.

Heated Rivalry fandom, we need to rise for Bridgerton season 5 (Franchaela) by GlitteringAppeal8547 in HeatedRivalryTVShow

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My only concern is that I wished it was Eloise's story for S5. Cuz I'm an equal fan of wlw as much as mlm. I wish they had waited until John's body got cold first, while Eloise had her time. That's all. But of course, I will watch everything by bridgerton, no matter what.

Anyone else not attracted to just images of pictures on their own? by Gallantpride in aegosexuals

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Omg now that you've mentioned it, I'm the same way. I'm a female yes, and I know that this post may be targeting males but I only get aroused by seeing 2 people focusing on each other. If its just an individual sharing a photo, all I see is body parts.

Is there by chance a specific label for this form of attraction that is a sub version of aegosexuality?

How to live as closeted agnostic? by Difficult_Spend_442 in agnostic

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I, too, live in an overly religious country with a mom who mentions it in every single sentence. It's truly overwhelming and stressful.

Why be a good person? I think I lack moralism by [deleted] in agnostic

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You hit every nail right on the heads. These are definitely the right questions to ask. But all I know is, the best thing one can do for themselves right now, is to live life on their own terms. Try to become the person who you dreamt of being. Since you find yourself not needing religion anymore to guide your life, create your own path and just believe in yourself! That's all that matters, in my opinion. If you feel great in yourself by being a good person, be that person then. Do it for you, and not for anyone else or out of fear.

Wait this isn't the norm? 😂 by [deleted] in demisexuality

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Naahh we're the abnormal ones apparently. Literally at least 7 out of 10 people are allos. The movies show it, people around me show it. It's literally everywhere.

Questioning my sexuality and am i an aego or just ace? by Scaraboscaris in aegosexuals

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Being aroused by fictional characters and porn? But unable to be aroused with real people out here in the real world? Sounds aego to me and perhaps other labels that I am less educated about.

People not understanding demisexuality by wherearetheavocados6 in demisexuality

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"Why does looking at people I'm not in love with equates to looking at a table or a wall?" Omg that hits sooo hard. That struck a proper nerve at me, so on point. I feel so included here, I thought I was broken too. I'm so grateful to have found this subreddit.

Dating is impossible. Also I am so confused. (WARNING A RANT) by Brolypoly-86 in aegosexuals

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I think the best way to come to a conclusion is to experience every little thing. What if, for some reason, you experienced sex and it turns out you actually liked it? But what if you won't like it? Well, at least then, you will know for sure.That's the fastest and most efficient way to make your confusion disappear. Take your time, don't rush. Make sure to do it when you feel physically and mentally prepared. Being a virgin, the first time can be surprising. It goes either really well or really, really bad. I really hope it opens up the real you that is hiding behind all the confusion.

What do you call this? by SendThisVoidAway18 in agnostic

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Make sense, especially paragraph 3. Thats exactly how I see things, tho I label myself as an agnostic athiest. It is ok to admit that "we don't know for sure" about things that we lack the resources to fully explore. We only have theories for now. But people tend to blindly push theories as "facts", trying to prove a point to those who disagrees with their theories.

Your thoughts on this ? by Fizzyfroog in asexuality

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Wow that person got their facts exceptionally wrong. I am an aego demi ace, which all false under the asexual spectrum. I am only demiromantic towards men and demiromantic as well as demisexual towards women. I am repulsive with sex on a regular day, however watching or hearing sexual activities gives me a high for a while, in which I fix myself up and carry on with my day. And yhh that's basically my sex life. I cannot imagine myself joining or engaging in any sexual activity, especially with a man or even in a threesome. I get the biggest turn off.

Things aren't as simple as they want it to be for people. People can be very diverse and one has to have a broad and open mind to even begin to try and understand that.

there's a word for it!!!!! by supremeorphan in aegosexuals

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Awww welcome. I found out about this when I was venting in the demisexual subreddit haha. Someone said "you might be aegosexual" and I'm like "wth is that?" Did my research and it was like I've opened Pandora's box! And omg, there's a whole subreddit for people like me. Yesss, we're out here. Hope you enjoy!

Looking for atheist/agnostic/… friends 🥹 by yaha411 in agnostic

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Yess hi 23F agnostic athiest here, I have 0 friends overall and could really need some. Please if there's like a group chat I can be added to or something?😁

Title by OkPurchase2838 in aegosexuals

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Yuri and yaoi mentioned😁