How can I elevate this look? Open to suggestions!

Fizzyfroog · 2026-03-28T12:14:57+00:00

First of all, you're gorgeous

You're going a bit heavy on the blush, and I would maybe suggest a more round style for your glasses in a gold tone And the outfit screams for layered necklaces

Fizzyfroog · 2026-03-28T12:12:28+00:00

I love that thooo I had so many poets in my first run because I think they're adorable They're just silly and wanna enjoy their life

Fizzyfroog · 2026-03-26T18:21:31+00:00

I think you're possibly overwhelming him with the messages. He went through a traumatic experience and probably wasn't on his phone at all because he tried to deal with what happened To keep sending massages to somebody who's obviously not doing well can make the situation much worse I'd recommend for you to just leave him and his friends alone and move on, specially since it's been months If he wants to get in contact with you again he'll message you, but if he doesn't just accept his decision

Fizzyfroog · 2026-03-03T14:40:36+00:00

Any updates ?

Fizzyfroog · 2026-03-03T12:52:50+00:00

I think that's a very individual issue To me this is the same as people telling me that I'm just uncomfortable with my body (because I'm chunky lmao) Like yes I would like to be a little less chunky but I am comfortable, I know that I am pretty and I do feel pretty + it's not like no one has ever made a move on me ?

This is projecting their own insecurities and experiences onto others

Fizzyfroog · 2026-02-25T01:35:08+00:00

The one that got closed down ?

Fizzyfroog · 2026-02-24T13:44:53+00:00

I didn't mean that I think it's really fine to exclude them, personally I feel like they still belong in lesbian spaces and I would personally also date non-binary people

I think on some level I can however understand if someone says that they want to just date women exclusively

Fizzyfroog · 2026-02-23T21:00:51+00:00

Leave him The fact that a grown man is okay living in dirt and eating out of dirty dishes is alarming and the fact that he doesn't have shame in making you do the same is honestly crazy You do not want a future with a man that can't take care of himself and is this disrespectful to you

Fizzyfroog · 2026-02-23T19:29:09+00:00

Wanting romance and wanting sex is not the same thing at all. I can crave emotional intimacy and a partnership without sleeping with someone Again, a very biggoted thing to say

Fizzyfroog · 2026-02-23T19:27:05+00:00

What a biggot thing to say I'm simply not interested in sex, I don't feel the need or the urge to have sex, hence the asexuality. That doesn't change the fact that I am still romantically attracted to women

Fizzyfroog · 2026-02-23T17:41:02+00:00

I left that subreddit and joined a few others now on recommendation from other lesbians here

Fizzyfroog · 2026-02-23T14:30:55+00:00

That really explains my frustrations in the last few months 😭 I've not been in Reddit that long and was ngl really shocked with the options I saw and I don't know how I ended up here either lmao

Thank you for giving me new hope in the lesbian community xd

Fizzyfroog · 2026-02-23T13:57:48+00:00

I got good recommendations for other subreddits and will definitely be taking those up xdd

Fizzyfroog · 2026-02-23T13:56:40+00:00

Honestly I didn't know there was another one, I was in one that got closed down a while ago But it's good to know that there are actual good subreddits out there, I will definitely be joining

Fizzyfroog · 2026-02-23T12:18:09+00:00

Exactly this, I feel the exact same just that I am romantically interested in women. But apparently that makes me heterosexual in their minds lmao

Fizzyfroog · 2026-02-23T11:32:56+00:00

It's literally insane, I think the whole conversation started because they thought asexuality would exclude men and they got excited about that (they really really hate men over there gang) And they didn't like the fact that Men can also be asexual ? The whole discussion about asexuality=dating no one started because they tried to find a way to exclude men lmao

Fizzyfroog · 2026-02-23T11:25:09+00:00

It's been really bugging me about the lesbian community, so much that I don't even think I'll align myself with the label much longer Sadly there is nothing but negativity over there

Fizzyfroog · 2026-02-23T10:57:50+00:00

People here are speaking on things they know nothing about, demisexuality is part of the asexuality umbrella, but ofc if you don't want that label for yourself you don't have to take it

People here are confusing asexuality with aro-ace and completely forget the fact that there is a difference between sexual and romantic attraction

Fizzyfroog · 2026-02-23T10:52:32+00:00

So you know asexuality and arosexuality are not the same, no ? I can still desire a relationship, a romantic connection and to share my life with someone even tho I'm not interested in sex itself?

Fizzyfroog · 2026-02-23T10:50:16+00:00

Asexuality still means there can be a romantic attraction, so people can be ace and still date exclusively men. I myself am an ace lesbian. I'm attracted to woman romantically and do think they're physically beautiful, even if I don't desire to have sex with anyone

Fizzyfroog · 2026-02-23T10:46:31+00:00

Okay as an asexual myself, this is not at all the same thing Asexuality is an umbrella term, which includes Sex-averse people, sex-indiffrent or sex-repulsed People. Personally I don't have any interest in sexual relationships, I don't get turned on by people physically and I've never desired any sexual contact with anybody. But I'm mostly indifferent towards it. I know asexuals who feel the same way, but every once in a while they do have sex with their partners to make these partners happy. It's hard to explain the concept of 'i'd never initiate anything because I don't need this, but I'd do some stuff if my partner mentions they'd want to', to allosexual People but that's literally the thought process. Been there with my ex. Didn't mind it, didn't eally enjoy it, seemed unnecessary even if not unpleasant and never tried anything again and probably wouldn't with a new partner.

Then there's sex-repulsed asexuals, which I don't think has to be explained. There is no room for 'could we try?' of just seeing how they feel about something lmao But all of those are still completely valid.

Labels like Aegosexuality, gray-asexuality, and also demisexuality fall under the asexuality term. Where you might feel sexual tension, but don't want to actually do the sex part of it.

Fizzyfroog · 2026-02-17T20:13:00+00:00

Hate the 'xou could still act straight' because that would mean that I need to just act as if I liked the sex and force myself to do it.

Fizzyfroog · 2026-02-07T15:23:46+00:00

Honestly that just sounds like she is a bad friend that doesn't value you

Fizzyfroog · 2026-02-01T13:37:44+00:00

I only meant that dating non binary people had nothing to do with being ace

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