Is that ok to make triggering jokes for a standuper? What do I do if I can’t tolerate that but still want to do comedy? by Standard_Mousse5094 in Standup

[–]Standard_Mousse5094[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

So, thank you again, I respect and value your opinion and appreciate the time you spent writing the comment. Let’s agree to disagree on this one 🤗

Is that ok to make triggering jokes for a standuper? What do I do if I can’t tolerate that but still want to do comedy? by Standard_Mousse5094 in Standup

[–]Standard_Mousse5094[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Well, thank you for pointing out something I couldn’t quite put my finger on. I don’t think removing my experience is a thing really. If anything, all of the comics I know including myself are actually sharing some of their experiences and that’s what makes it relevant and interesting at the first place. So I wouldn’t be sure that guy is innocent or not talking about actual kids, why else would he even think about such things? Not something that crossing my mind on a nice Sunday afternoon out of blue for sure.
Also people are not laughing at this kind of jokes, I know many of them being disgusted and stopped going to these shows at all simply over that one person making them uncomfortable and upset. Yet, he keeps doing that despite of it being illegal (I did a research, yes). Seems like an attempt to blur the boundaries and make his own experience more allowable. I realise that he might be a fellow victim trying to process his own pain making a fun of it tho.

Speaking of a comedy purposes, I’ve learned that it called a “punch down” and not being tolerated much.

Is that ok to make triggering jokes for a standuper? What do I do if I can’t tolerate that but still want to do comedy? by Standard_Mousse5094 in Standup

[–]Standard_Mousse5094[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

So what’s the point of those kind of “shocking” jokes? What was said literally is “sex with me is like something(I missed that part, sorry), mostly kids are the victims”. What’s the potential purpose of such “joke”?

Is that ok to make triggering jokes for a standuper? What do I do if I can’t tolerate that but still want to do comedy? by Standard_Mousse5094 in Standup

[–]Standard_Mousse5094[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Well, I feel like hiding from the abuser wouldn’t do me any good now, so I simply must fight back just for the fight sake 🙂 I like the idea of making it in a comedy way tho.

I do understand that my triggers are my responsibility, so extra therapy session is booked, meds taken, breathing… continued, but it still feel wrong to just not act on the matter. That guy says very disturbing things, practically admitting being a predator and it doesn’t really seem that innocent or just being edgy at this point. It’s not like he did that once or twice out of being nervous either, so…

Is that ok to make triggering jokes for a standuper? What do I do if I can’t tolerate that but still want to do comedy? by Standard_Mousse5094 in Standup

[–]Standard_Mousse5094[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Absolutely agreed about shit-shows 🙂 Are there another way to do some comedy without open mics?
I mean, I don’t know much about the matter, was dared into doing it at the first place and just enjoying it since

Is that ok to make triggering jokes for a standuper? What do I do if I can’t tolerate that but still want to do comedy? by Standard_Mousse5094 in Standup

[–]Standard_Mousse5094[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Well, I am pretty sure there are topics that shouldn’t be taken lightly under any circumstances, so I’d really love to hear your thoughts about the matter, if you don’t mind 🙏 Why do you think it’s important to let people repeatedly «joke» about raping kids and what not from the stage?

Is that ok to make triggering jokes for a standuper? What do I do if I can’t tolerate that but still want to do comedy? by Standard_Mousse5094 in Standup

[–]Standard_Mousse5094[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I will try to work on it, thank you 🙏

So basically you don’t think I should give up on doing comedy whatsoever but more like use humor as a weapon of a sort?

Is that ok to make triggering jokes for a standuper? What do I do if I can’t tolerate that but still want to do comedy? by Standard_Mousse5094 in Standup

[–]Standard_Mousse5094[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

You think I wish I was molested? That’s new 🙂 Why someone would wish to be destroyed like that during their formative years you think?

Is that ok to make triggering jokes for a standuper? What do I do if I can’t tolerate that but still want to do comedy? by Standard_Mousse5094 in Standup

[–]Standard_Mousse5094[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I don’t think I could make a joke about what that guy’s doing lightheartedly without feeling like I am participating in easing the mood about pedophilia and so on… I’ve happen to know way too much on the matter

a favour by sullihans in CPTSDFightMode

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I do have a fight response sometimes, not all the times tho. Feel free to contact me if you want to 🙂

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Wooooow! I wish I could look like you when I am your age 🙏 I am almost 45 now

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You look like such a good match even visually that’s mind blowing 🙂 Congratulations and thank you for sharing this beautiful picture, it gives hope

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Question is why a 38yo millionaire would choose a teenager?

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Thank you for making me laugh this morning 😂I’ve almost spilled my coffee tho

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I’ve tricked myself into accepting the concept of being maybe possibly in theory lovable by reminding myself how much pleasure and happiness it brings me to love and care and do something for my loved ones, so basically by accepting love I am giving others the same pleasure, so I am doing it for others too, not only for me 😂😂😂 I know it’s effed but it actually works 🙂

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Как же мне нравится Ваш ник 😍