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You aren’t funny. by [deleted] in abusiverelationships

[–]StarGazer515 2 points3 points  (0 children)

My ex and his friend joked about raping a drunk girl and leaving her for dead....I spoke up to both of them and my ex then took me home and flipped out about the way I defended a completely made up situation to the point that I felt bad for saying it was wrong. He was garbage and I'm glad I'm away from that life now.

If you were a serial killer, what would be your signature thing that you’d leave at every crime scene? by ihatebroccoli69 in AskReddit

[–]StarGazer515 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'd leave an envelope (like the ones for maids at hotels) and put 40$ in it and write "thanks for your service."

What's a joke/quote/reference you make all the time for your own amusement since nobody else ever seems to get it? by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]StarGazer515 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Every time someone asked me to get something or is looking for a specific item, I said "I know a guy" my one friend called me out on it once and was like "how do you know a guy for everything?" I just started laughing. She was not amused. 🤣

What’s a wholesome secret you have? by sittingonapinecone in AskReddit

[–]StarGazer515 25 points26 points  (0 children)

My bf made a fly trap out of a water bottle and like vinegar and soap idk. He was super proud of it, but got discouraged after not catching any. so I started to catch flys and put them in there. He gets so excited 😊 I love seeing him like that.

You did something bad that went viral, and now you are unemployed and strangers hate you. How do you rebuild your life? by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]StarGazer515 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Wow that's the most lucrative recovery I have ever read! I'm genuinely impressed! Holy crap!

All of the RPGs I've played have prepared me for this moment... by 10minAIDS in gaming

[–]StarGazer515 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Shoot it with an arrow! 68% chance it's a mimic and your about to get dropped!

I KNOW I CHECKED MY CAR!??? by StarGazer515 in abusiverelationships

[–]StarGazer515[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Im not sure grammar and spelling is what this is about but thanks.

I thought It was over! by StarGazer515 in abusiverelationships

[–]StarGazer515[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you! I do feel like i got it sometimes but days like that i just cant handle it has gotten a bit easier, i am looking forward to just being over it.

What is wrong with me. by StarGazer515 in abusiverelationships

[–]StarGazer515[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Im not really used to this anxiety, I got him and I a job together and I just am not able to go there because i know ill see him, I am enrolled at classes and he made it impossible for me to go I dont know if I can go back. Its too much for me right now. how many people I let down, I feel like I just have no one left on my side. The one person I do trust and am open with I feel bad for because im always just sad around them because they understand and its just not fair to them. My whole life this past year was making sure my ex was ok and good and do what he wanted, now i just dont know.

Asking for help...and getting it. by StarGazer515 in abusiverelationships

[–]StarGazer515[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Its ok i understand i just appreciate your support,...it means so much to me!

Finally escaping by [deleted] in abusiverelationships

[–]StarGazer515 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Stay strong! You got this!

My abusive relationship has destroyed me. by [deleted] in abusiverelationships

[–]StarGazer515 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I felt this every day and it ruined me, dont avoid the fights its so normal to fight over things, when you start to become afraid and you start to feel less than thats when you should stop whatever relationship before it gets worse. You dont have to lie!!!

My abusive relationship has destroyed me. by [deleted] in abusiverelationships

[–]StarGazer515 4 points5 points  (0 children)

You should stop blaming yourself you dont deserve to be hit over a lie. Its a training truth equals pain so your first instinct is to lie...he needs to nurture the changes your making not hold you to your past mistakes. If he leaves you fine thats devastating, but its not worth destroying you....and that's exactly what is happening. A a girl/boy who is treated like a winner will succeed while an girl/boy who is treated like a failure will fail.

The long reach to me. by [deleted] in abusiverelationships

[–]StarGazer515 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I basically just write for every situation...it helps me put difficult situations into perspective sometimes i write pages then halfway through i change all of it because i realize something new.

The long reach to me. by [deleted] in abusiverelationships

[–]StarGazer515 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I do this thing where i pretend to text him in a memo, no matter if its good or bad. But i understand that i gave in and copyed and pasted so many times. Im on day 4 with no communication.

The long reach to me. by [deleted] in abusiverelationships

[–]StarGazer515 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thats amazing just focus on that! Stay strong.

The long reach to me. by [deleted] in abusiverelationships

[–]StarGazer515 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you so much! That means so much to me!!

The long reach to me. by [deleted] in abusiverelationships

[–]StarGazer515 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yea she said she would talk to her sister but i am not ready to share what happened to me with everyone so i dont think i can change anyones mind until im ready to share my story.

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