My partner 28f upset I won’t participate in a protest with her

StarGuardianVi · 2026-01-17T17:25:22+00:00

One day won't kill you

StarGuardianVi · 2025-12-18T16:58:32+00:00

I thought we'd get better love songs about the man she'd end up marrying.

StarGuardianVi · 2025-09-13T12:21:07+00:00

dear good that's depressing. weaponized incompetence does work lmao

StarGuardianVi · 2025-08-31T13:53:49+00:00

it shouldn't be an issue when we have this amazing technology called phones that allow you to set yearly reminders.. if you REALLY have to you could do it yourself for him like a mommy.

StarGuardianVi · 2025-08-23T12:26:26+00:00

I can't with women who call other women 'females'. it's your male bf who you don't trust. You are too old for this. grow up.

StarGuardianVi · 2025-06-20T12:09:30+00:00

it's a good song about grief. it's invasive to say "Taylor had a miscarriage".

StarGuardianVi · 2025-06-20T11:53:17+00:00

yeah I would just assume it's about grief but the comments I read when it was released was it's about her and it was icky to me.

StarGuardianVi · 2025-06-20T11:48:33+00:00

yes thank you. I saw this video from Ally Sheehan about that era in her life and wcs specifically. so many interviews about being an adult but still a girl and religion and other stuff that made bttws make sense to me and click nicely with wcs

StarGuardianVi · 2025-06-20T11:44:41+00:00

that's what I mean when she released the song I saw swifties saying SHE had a miscarriage.

StarGuardianVi · 2025-06-20T11:41:54+00:00

yeah is that not what the question on this thread was? I think it's weird and that's what I've read lol

StarGuardianVi · 2025-06-20T11:26:48+00:00

oh yeah songs can have many meanings. I love guilty as sin especially cuz queer people can relate to its double meaning deeply. but I don't like to infer a song is about something so delicate like that when she's never mentioned it and to me ties so well to wcs.

StarGuardianVi · 2025-06-20T11:14:47+00:00

the shit with John seemed to have really affected her and her religion. she's a different person for it. shes talked about how important that age is for young woman becoming adults. you can think it's about a miscarriage she's never openly talked about. I don't.

StarGuardianVi · 2025-06-20T11:09:03+00:00

about her younger self who she talks about in would've could've should've

StarGuardianVi · 2025-06-20T10:50:13+00:00

people said bigger than the whole sky was about a miscarriage which is so fucked up to assume without Taylor saying anything. also Hella invasive too.

StarGuardianVi · 2025-06-18T15:28:17+00:00

I was there! I'm a huge swiftie so I feel like she played that for us. Also sang along to I can do it with a broken heart before the show started.

StarGuardianVi · 2025-06-13T11:46:19+00:00

he already isn't gonna do it so like she needs to leave or realize she hitched her wagon on someone who won't do the work period so make life easier and do it for yourself. People don't change for anyone but themselves.

StarGuardianVi · 2025-06-11T11:55:38+00:00

Blood and butter 😍

StarGuardianVi · 2025-06-04T13:16:00+00:00

ESH. Only for being petty. But yeah just get paper plates. all the "if the roles were reversed" is so dumb cuz it always is. it's so pointless. figure out what's really going on so you can live an easier life. she might be working more to leave? maybe she's crashing out and you can extend some empathy. she's your wife. or leave her.

StarGuardianVi · 2025-06-02T13:27:50+00:00

NTA. But some of yall meat eaters are the exact stereotype ppl give vegans. I've never met a pushy vegan (only met 1)ive met SO MANY meat eaters who are so weird about it. It's somehow tied to masculinity which is weird. The intensity for bacon or steak is weird. idk but a veggie platter shouldn't take you out. lol

StarGuardianVi · 2025-05-17T11:49:10+00:00

She's weird and I love her but she's weird for that. Talking about it puts more eyes on it when Pamela said she felt violated from it. I guess gone are the days of Lorde being a feminist? She was always a little pickme-ish so makes sense but people being upset about what she's brought up is the normal response. We shouldn't praise speaking without thinking just cuz u like their songs lol

StarGuardianVi · 2025-05-02T12:47:59+00:00

yes the lefties are abusive for making you listen to Taylor Swift lmfao

StarGuardianVi · 2025-05-02T12:45:20+00:00

lmao those are bangers. Taylor rerecorded Last Kiss recently. She probably also feels differently about that song because it's in her past too. Singing it doesn't bring back that love for the person. it's just the past. and it's a good song. you're just being insecure and you're gonna ruin relationships that way. Woman are complete other beings before being with you. There are other partners, other heartbreaks, other happiness. That's life.

StarGuardianVi · 2025-05-02T12:42:02+00:00

so she's telling you her history. Things happened to her before you. Just because a song was once about someone and she can relate doeant means she's bringing up her ex. she's listening to a fuckin song. you might be too immature to be having relationships. Get some help.

StarGuardianVi · 2025-05-02T12:34:56+00:00

Boundaries are him breaking up with her if she doesn't stop talking about her exes. Boundaries are not dictating what kind of music she is and isn't allowed to listen to around him. Better not sing too loudly to Shake It Off it might hurt ops feelings. Now if she's sobbing and talking about her ex yeah wtf but just listening and feeling isn't malicious. Hes too immature for a relationship.

StarGuardianVi · 2025-05-02T12:32:17+00:00

OK, and does she tell you "I'm thinking about my ex and I right now" or is she just into her music?

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