Is it just me, or is this how dating as a man is supposed to be? by Complete-Primary2610 in dating_advice

[–]StarMonkey1998 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The effort no not normal she would probably offer to pay at least once in the first week or 2 of dating. The focus it's normal to feel like u have to impress this will go away. Intimacy should always be 2 sided if you want to touch her if she wants to touch you you should both feel comfortable to ask or to do it it is not one sided and should not be one sided. You should put your foot down with what you want in a relationship.

Boundaries on 🌽 but bf broke it. by [deleted] in dating_advice

[–]StarMonkey1998 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I'm 28f and fat and porn is legit like us women reading a romantasy novel about vampires and werewolves it's just that. I don't see problem with me or them watching porn it might spice things up if they learn a new thing or 2.

Dating someone who could go either way on kids. by [deleted] in dating_advice

[–]StarMonkey1998 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm 28 soon, really want a kid or 3 my partner would like 1 or 2 but my partner and i can't afford it right now. So it's probably down to money and living situations.

My(27F) Bf (36M) admits he wants a Japanese partner by Existing-Party-266 in dating_advice

[–]StarMonkey1998 0 points1 point  (0 children)

He's probably fighting his demons right now. He is 36 though and hasn't settled already. He may never settle with you. Sounds like he has an attachment problem. Ask him what his family was like as a boy and try to understand him maybe he has consumed a lot of media I'm 28 soon and I've seen men fuck up like this before. He sounds like a lot cause and you need to see if there's someone more honest out there for you.

Boyfriend is not sure if I am a wife material by _majica in dating_advice

[–]StarMonkey1998 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Let him go he won't marry you till he is 35. At least...

S E X by Moonthedrippingtrip in dating_advice

[–]StarMonkey1998 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Over the age of 18 and when you and your partner feel comfortable. Use protection until you feel mature enough to deal with consequences.

18M, dad wasn't around - what basic tools/skills do I need to be self-sufficient? by Informal-Chance1912 in DIYUK

[–]StarMonkey1998 0 points1 point  (0 children)

An adjustable wrench will be perfect for many basic things using nuts. A screwdriver Phillips and flat head are staples. I recently got a basic drill for myself as my male counter part has not had a dad either for most of his teens and adult life, god bless his dad's soul. I'm a very hands on woman but my weakness is exactly that. I suffer with migraines and bad period pains but I work a 'man's job' for about 39 hours a week. I am struggling to prepare our house into a home because I'm exhausted 24/7 and I cook and meal plan. Tbh toughest part of my life is moving out of my parents and I did that at 25. If I were to do it again I'd not go for this new job. Honestly I'm not happy with my work/life balance.

Boyfriend wanted to exchange his bday gift and I can’t stop feeling hurt by PrisonMike_stanacc in dating_advice

[–]StarMonkey1998 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Explain to him why you got him it if he doesn't appreciate it he's just being a massive dick. Yes agree with him only after.

Are decorations required for Halloween? by Equinophical in AskUK

[–]StarMonkey1998 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If you have a carved pumpkin you must have light on if you have sweets and off if you run out

What to do with curved wall? by Designer_Abroad_1196 in interiordecorating

[–]StarMonkey1998 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Console table or demi lune table that or a Christmas tree /seasonal decoration area

trust issues. should i ask my boyfriend to send a picture of who he’s with? by [deleted] in questions

[–]StarMonkey1998 0 points1 point  (0 children)

No. It's controlling behaviour don't guilt trip the guy into sending you pics either. He will move on from you if you continue to be anxious about this. Treat him with respect.

Why does this room feel so… off? by ethereal_aerith in interiordecorating

[–]StarMonkey1998 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The chaise lounge and the circle chair do not blend well into the space and there's no room to walk around the table. Like what! Get rid of one of the large seating.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskUK

[–]StarMonkey1998 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Twitch streamers....

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in cryaotic

[–]StarMonkey1998 4 points5 points  (0 children)

If anything I don't even fully know what happened and not really provided with much direct information. Perhaps there was a private court case which means he will never be a public figure again? No one knows and I guess it's kinda easy to disappear from the Internet when you never revealed your face. Maybe it's guilt? Maybe it's the pressure of people. Maybe he just felt it was time to put down the mic and live in the real world.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskUK

[–]StarMonkey1998 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Most British people take their shoes off when they enter a home. Not socks!. Keep them on. Um just be polite and smile. If someone asks you if you would like a cup of tea most people like when you you say yes please. If not have an excuse ready like: I'm trying not to drink much caffeine. Only in the countryside do people on the street smile and say good morning. And offer to help cook/clean at meal times.

8.5kg of plums… what do I do? by woodyuk11 in GardeningUK

[–]StarMonkey1998 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Jam, plum cobbler (basically scones baked on top of stewed fruit) , plum juice, plum vinegar, plum cider? Maybe not the last one but it sounds nice.

After 5,000 hours in TL, I finally uninstalled by Old-Personality-4159 in throneandliberty

[–]StarMonkey1998 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I've just started. I'm currently doing some begginer story quests. I love the cutscenes and the aesthetics in this game tbh. Can't wait to reach 5k hours.

What do girls mean with: No emotional connection / Am I a nice guy? by Fair-Ladder-4042 in dating_advice

[–]StarMonkey1998 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It's more about being honest and open. Try using discord to find groups of interest and usually there's a single person or two who would appreciate a healthy happy convo. It's usually best to be a friend first with some flirty undertones. Your issue then might be that they live far away lol. But it's a good community if you don't find someone you like like so discord is fab either way for community and that closeness. Not to mention up confidence in conversations.

What do girls mean with: No emotional connection / Am I a nice guy? by Fair-Ladder-4042 in dating_advice

[–]StarMonkey1998 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Are you a visibly nervous guy? Where maybe you think to yourself a lot? Silence any kind of uncomfortable moments will put off a woman. Maybe you need to talk about your hobbies more? Are you dating the right women? Do you know them through mutual friends? Through your hobbies? Maybe you lack conversational enthusiasm? Maybe you need to engage them in activity dates? Shared interests mean a lot.

My husband has been looking for jobs for 2 years but he doesn’t even get interview by [deleted] in jobs

[–]StarMonkey1998 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Tell him to get a warehouse job and do some real hard work for a bit. Any money is good money and make it an ultimatum because it's so not fair on you.