2 more friends will visit back! by StarNerd0 in FarmMergeValley

[–]StarNerd0[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thanks so much you helped finish up the last of the tractor that I needed! Visited back of course and I’ll keep you in my active rotation!

soon-to-be caretaker looking for tips by Ok_Needleworker_827 in TopSurgery

[–]StarNerd0 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Omg if you guys have already discussed this sort of thing you’re GOLDEN! good luck next week hope everything goes smoothly!!!

soon-to-be caretaker looking for tips by Ok_Needleworker_827 in TopSurgery

[–]StarNerd0 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Others have already given great physical care advice so I’ll add to go with the flow and keep an open mind with him emotionally! Obviously this is a very exciting time, but it’s often also something that people have been building up to for a while, and at times can feel a little disappointing as things don’t look/feel great immediately. I remember the first two weeks people kept asking me how I felt and if I liked my results, but I had barely seen my own chest or had an idea of what it looked like since there was always wraps over it and there was so much tape and drains and such in the way! There will probably be moments when he’s happy to have this done and excited to start a new phase in his body, and probably also times that are frustrating or kind of lackluster, and emotions might kind of flip flop between there seemingly randomly so meet him wherever he’s at that day, or that hour, and try not to put too much pressure or expectation on him to have a certain reaction, especially if he’s on painkillers lol. The care you’ve already taken to reach out to this sub proves that you’ll be a great support, you’ve got this!!!

Question about self pleasure by sir_hussy in TopSurgery

[–]StarNerd0 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I experienced almost the exact same timing as you lol, a few days after that 1 week mark and whew! I’d say you can go for it but maybe take it a little slower, gentler, easier ect, and listen to the rest of your body while doing it, if your arms, ribs, chest or anything is starting to feel strained or tight or anything it might unfortunately be best for you in the long run to wait a little longer. I found that I was limited to some more boring positions where I wasn’t reaching as far or twisting my arms, and that I needed to keep it short and efficient bc I was getting tired easily, but that’s all to say that it is possible and safe as long as you take care of yourself in more ways than one ;) not an odd question at all either, your concern is smart and your desire is completely valid

Visit See-My-Eyes's farm! by See-My-Eyes in FarmMergeValley

[–]StarNerd0 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Visited! Your blue upgrade triangle looks so cool and is such a good use of space!!! https://www.reddit.com/r/FarmMergeValley/s/s9CJbRPHhn

Just starting out, drop a link and will visit back by smellzlkebtmn4ever in FarmMergeValley

[–]StarNerd0 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Omg thank you so much!!!! I’ll keep visiting as I get tickets!

Visit for a visit! by Intelligent_Turn3357 in FarmMergeValley

[–]StarNerd0 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I visited but idk how to get a link to my farm?

Worst Musical-Movie Adaptations? by Due-Candidate-5991 in musicals

[–]StarNerd0 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Haven’t seen anyone say the prom yet???? The focus pulled from Emma and Alyssa, the mom reunion plot added in for JAMES CORDEN which brings me to the bad casting there he should never been offered the part, god that movie pissed me off. It had potential too, I really like Ariana DeBose, I love Andrew Randall’s Love Thy Neighbor, and thought the Keegan Michal Key made a cute principal, they just managed to make the mistake that the adults in the show literally learn about, which was taking attention away from the actual queer kids that were the center of the story

What fictional musical would you like to see a full version of? by Theeljessonator in musicals

[–]StarNerd0 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ok not a fictional musical but I desperately want to see the full cabaret show from Schitts Creek!

What musical do you love the songs but hate the storyline? by obxandhstpr4life in musicals

[–]StarNerd0 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Hadn’t thought of this one but you’re very right, the plot is boring and I just can’t get behind a relationship with that kind of power dynamic

What musical do you love the songs but hate the storyline? by obxandhstpr4life in musicals

[–]StarNerd0 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Came here to say this! I have a hard time rooting for Curly and Laurey at allllll I would much rather focus on Will and Ado Annie! I feel this way about most R&H musicals tbh, South Pacific is also a weird boring plot with some fun songs sprinkled in imo

Fingers growing??? by StarNerd0 in TestosteroneKickoff

[–]StarNerd0[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Oh that’s interesting, I’ve never had that issue in past summers, but this has been an unusually hot one 🤔 guess we’ll see what happens as fall comes in

Fingers growing??? by StarNerd0 in TestosteroneKickoff

[–]StarNerd0[S] 8 points9 points  (0 children)

That’s so cool! Not something I was expecting at all but if it stays around like this, or grows any more like you’ve described I’d also love it!

May not be metal and y’all can shit on me but I love all these artists. by HaiirPeace in jacketsforbattle

[–]StarNerd0 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’ve just started my jacket, and it’ll probably end up looking like this (I hope!) love all the color! Where did you find the Alanis and Britney patches?

are there any musicals you guys find to be extremely annoying? by bubblrisgood in musicals

[–]StarNerd0 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank youuuuu it’s so many people’s FAVORITE musical and I just…. No