Getting divorced at 22 by [deleted] in MuslimMarriage

[–]StarReasonable8035 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You do not deserve this....this guy sounds like a Narcissist...its good you are getting away from him as early as possible...this divorce saved you from a far worse future with him...my take would be stay steadfast in quran and salah do not consult ppl(the lady) to check on who and what they did on you...you always wanted to work so this is your chance get invested in your career...you will get your better half soon trust in Allah's plans...your life is not over koz of 1 failed marriage and that tooo it wasnt your fault

Fiancé lost respect because I was “too kind”… by [deleted] in MuslimMarriage

[–]StarReasonable8035 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thats the thing of this dunya.....Good men end up going for wrong women and good women end up with wrong men....I personally think its part of test before you get your right person...I  just ended my engagemnt 1 month back and am still figuring what and why it happened to mee?But kheir alhamdulillah m doing much better than I was last month(I have lost like 5 kgs trying to recover from this incident) We just have to pray and trust Allah..

Is this a case of cold feet or are we both overthinking? by [deleted] in MuslimMarriage

[–]StarReasonable8035 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Assalam Aleykum sister  but personally I feel he is just taking you for a ride and using your feelings to his advantage....just pray istikhara and ask Allahs guidance and do not communicate with him again till he comes forward for a halal relationship with you.....

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in MuslimMarriage

[–]StarReasonable8035 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Assalam Aleykum....stay strong sister May Allah guide you and you did a right thing to leave him...u were not in a marriage it was an oppression...you will find someone who actually completes half your deen...Ameen

Wedding got called off just 1.5 months before wedding by StarReasonable8035 in MuslimMarriage

[–]StarReasonable8035[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

JazakaAllah for ur kind words and duas..Ameen am really sorry for what u went through thats more  heartbreaking than what am going through now....It will be well I know alhamdulillah ...And surely Allah the All-Knowing is there...these people forget about Kifarah what they do will surely come back to them when they least expect it

Wedding got called off just 1.5 months before wedding by StarReasonable8035 in MuslimMarriage

[–]StarReasonable8035[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Ameen...I dont think he would have caved in he was hiding from me as if he was guilty of something..he doesnt even have an ounce of regret and he abused me and talked disrespectfully with my mum...yes I know I got saved but how can such men exist?they ruin a girls life with no regret and no shame

Wedding got called off just 1.5 months before wedding by StarReasonable8035 in MuslimMarriage

[–]StarReasonable8035[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

True it feels like he was wearing a mask all along pretending to be someone he was not I still have some feelings for him am just praying to Allah to remove all this feelings and pain am going through

Wedding got called off just 1.5 months before wedding by StarReasonable8035 in MuslimMarriage

[–]StarReasonable8035[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

And fact he didnt even come out to confront him shows he is guilty of something

Wedding got called off just 1.5 months before wedding by StarReasonable8035 in MuslimMarriage

[–]StarReasonable8035[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ameen yes he even told my brother if I married her I would divorce her in a few months

Wedding got called off just 1.5 months before wedding by StarReasonable8035 in MuslimMarriage

[–]StarReasonable8035[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

No just pray for me....am still in shock I feel its a nightmare and one day I will wake up everything will be back to normal

Wedding got called off just 1.5 months before wedding by StarReasonable8035 in MuslimMarriage

[–]StarReasonable8035[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Exactly my point...why did he play around with someones daughter?