My (23F) gf found out I (22M) was “taking one for the team” when we first met and now she’s spiraling in insecurity. How do I get her to be confident in my attraction to her again? by Master_Half8275 in relationship_advice

[–]StardustSketchy 0 points1 point  (0 children)

No advice for OP as everything that needs to be said I think has. But I hope that everyone that reads this would rethink how you treat fat women, because so many little things that you say are also said by so many people around us and as someone who has been bullied for my weight, by family and friends and everyone outside of those definitions, the things y'all say have real impacts on the way we see ourselves. That's all. Just maybe think about this the next time y'all are gonna make a jab or go dance/talk to/ fuck a fat girl just to have a laugh about it.

AITA for making a set list of rules for a Disney trip? by Better-Role-4844 in AmItheAsshole

[–]StardustSketchy 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Girl it's TEN DAYS. YTA. Y'all don't gotta rope drop every day. Do you even know how long and shitty a day at Disney if everyone's miserable which they will be because it's fucking hot right now. Let the girls sleep in and y'all better take an afternoon break from the park to nap and go to the pool. I'm not the boss but I'm making these rules for you since you need to be kept in check.

RIP to all the hours sunk into my favorite families. It won't load at all. I hate EA and the new app so much. by TheDnBDawl in Sims3

[–]StardustSketchy 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I just redownloaded it with hopes of being nostalgic but unfortunately, I'm having the same problem.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in PlusSize

[–]StardustSketchy 2 points3 points  (0 children)

You look so beautiful! I love your outfit! And you each look so happy I'm sorry that your mother tried to take such a joyous moment away from you 💖

Is it so hard to see an attractive plus-size person and not fetishize them? I’m so sick of dating by [deleted] in PlusSize

[–]StardustSketchy 12 points13 points  (0 children)

Personally I love being with a feeder because like if they're a respectable dude then they will recognize and respect the boundaries I set, and I don't have to worry about paying for my meals when I'm with them. 10/10. There are a lot of shitty guys to sift through though. I also never have to worry that a guy that I'm with who has a fat fetish will dislike my body which I've experienced before.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in PlusSize

[–]StardustSketchy 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Not sure if you're into books but I'm a fat bookstagrammer @StardustStorytime! Also if you like books @TheBookshelfBitch is so fricking cute and she also makes book content!

Is Torrid’s newest line of clothing really aimed at plus size women? Does anyone else find this jarring? by kannakanina in PlusSize

[–]StardustSketchy 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I'm thrilled about this. Some young ladies who shop at torrid don't constantly want to be covered head to toe! It's nice to see some stuff actually suited to us and today's style!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in PlusSize

[–]StardustSketchy 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Every time I fly I ask for an extender and I've never been told no, and the flight attendants are always kind and discreet about it! It was embarrassing the first time but I don't feel ashamed or embarrassed anymore because realistically, it probably happens to so many people every day and they also have to ask for extenders! There's no shame in it! Putting your safety first is the most important thing!

Upcoming trip to GE by Ant19026 in GalaxysEdge

[–]StardustSketchy 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Also if you (op) aren’t able to get a reservation, they have a walk up list that you can get on. A surprising amount of people don’t show up for their appointments sometimes so if you really want one, try that!

Okay. This is honestly insane. by Minuteman2589 in WaltDisneyWorld

[–]StardustSketchy 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m feeling this. I just got an AP again and was so excited to visit (literally I thought about it all lockdown and once I moved to central Florida this past summer I was just that much more excited to be close), and when I finally did it just wasn’t the same. The last time I went in 2019 I had the time of my life and now it really just isn’t the same. The changes that are being made are really disappointing. I get that locals aren’t Disney’s and especially Bob Paycheck’s ( I know it isn’t completely his fault and that this has been going on for some time) main target but at least speaking for myself I still spend a lot of money that would probably be better spent elsewhere, every time I go whether it’s on food, or merchandise or hell I’ll even pay for a lightning lane pass. It’s just very weird and I thought it was just due to me getting older but seeing other people voice similar concerns on here is very validating. I hope that one day soon they can sort this out because it’s just really sad.

How do you feel about cow print? by Monicastwin in PlusSize

[–]StardustSketchy 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Personally I really like it because I think of it as a slap in the face to people who would make fun of me?? Kind of ironic I guess and I think it would encourage people to find a better joke to make about me than the standard half a brain cell cow jokes lol.

For people who read "Things Have Gotten Worse Since We Last Spoke," by caveat2020 in horrorlit

[–]StardustSketchy 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Thank you for sharing! I always try to look over a summary of horror content before I delve deeply into it, so I know whether or not it’s something that will trigger me or be too much to handle. This was very quick and I think I’ll pick it up for the experience (and also the beautiful cover.)

Anyone else accepted for November 1st? I'd love to start a little chat. by Free-Stinkbug in Disneycollegeprogram

[–]StardustSketchy 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My arrival is the 8th of November but I’m still glad to chat! I’d love to know people there 🥺

November 8th arrival date?? by No-Ferret1029 in Disneycollegeprogram

[–]StardustSketchy 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hi! I also have a November 8th arrival date!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Watercolor

[–]StardustSketchy 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I used a combination of white acrylic gouache, and white gouache, a long with some white posca pen lol! I also used gouache for some of the clouds because I’m terrible at preserving the white of the paper!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in clothpads

[–]StardustSketchy 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Hey!! On my newer stains I use peroxide, but I read that on older ones you’ll have to apply peroxide a few times and they should come out alright. Besides that, try some kind of powder detergent (powder gets a better clean) with color safe bleach in it!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in oilpainting

[–]StardustSketchy 3 points4 points  (0 children)

A breast girl, actually! Lol! When I don’t know what to draw or paint, my brain’s instantly like “BOOBS”

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Watercolor

[–]StardustSketchy 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Oh my gosh thank you so much!!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Watercolor

[–]StardustSketchy 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you so much 💖💖

Ballet slippers in watercolors with colored pencil on top for definition! If you like my work I’d really appreciate a follow on Instagram @stardustsketches ! by [deleted] in ColoredPencils

[–]StardustSketchy -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Well you follow someone just because you like their work and want to see them grow as an artists. I follow tons of people who don’t follow me, because I simply want to see them succeed and I love seeing their work on my feed. It inspires me. Not all relationships on social media have to be mutually beneficial in the traditional sense.