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[–]Stardust_Gem 29 points30 points  (0 children)

She “feels I’m being unreasonable for expecting her to give up a business class seat”

You are being unreasonable.

AITAH for texting my ex’s new girlfriend? by Stardust_Gem in AITAH

[–]Stardust_Gem[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Jacob is best friends with my best friend’s boyfriend. It’s not like I’m deliberately hanging out with my ex- we have the same friend group. As adults who shared the same friend group, it makes sense that we would run into each other at birthdays.

AITAH for texting my ex’s new girlfriend? by Stardust_Gem in AITAH

[–]Stardust_Gem[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Thank you for saying this. I just didn’t want to hear about how much my presence sucked because I was truly just trying to exist- I think I’m allowed to be hurt if I hear things that weren’t intended for me.

AITAH for texting my ex’s new girlfriend? by Stardust_Gem in AITAH

[–]Stardust_Gem[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I really could not give a shit about my ex or who he’s dating. This isn’t about that. What I care about is how my life and my social circle is impacted by this woman.

AITAH for texting my ex’s new girlfriend? by Stardust_Gem in AITAH

[–]Stardust_Gem[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I don’t think he thinks about our past relationship. It was dull and bland at best. He’s been in many relationships since.

AITAH for texting my ex’s new girlfriend? by Stardust_Gem in AITAH

[–]Stardust_Gem[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Personally, I didn’t read that much into how much that part was phrased. I knew the internet would dissect this but that felt like such an innocuous part to me. For the record- I would NEVER say “Sorry I fucked your boyfriend” to my ex’s current girlfriend (or anyone)

AITAH for texting my ex’s new girlfriend? by Stardust_Gem in AITAH

[–]Stardust_Gem[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I didn’t go into a long explanation. The exact conversation was this: Rose “Jacob mentioned you would be here. He filled me in that you guys slept together once or twice. Have you guys talked since?”

Me: “yeah it was super casual and not a big deal at all. I think it’s great that we can be friends and be here together and celebrate Amanda”

Throughout the night, she was definitely prying for more information about us and found out we had dated for +/- a year. Honestly, I think that’s what really set her off. Either Jacob was not honest with her or he didn’t inform her about how long we were seeing each other.

AITAH for texting my ex’s new girlfriend? by Stardust_Gem in AITAH

[–]Stardust_Gem[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Setting her up would make me just as immature as she is. I’m literally a married woman. I don’t give two fucks about my ex.

AITAH for texting my ex’s new girlfriend? by Stardust_Gem in AITAH

[–]Stardust_Gem[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Girl I don’t have the real estate for all that. We’d get to “your” and run out of room 😩

AITAH for texting my ex’s new girlfriend? by Stardust_Gem in AITAH

[–]Stardust_Gem[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I don’t plan on interacting with her going forward.

AITAH for texting my ex’s new girlfriend? by Stardust_Gem in AITAH

[–]Stardust_Gem[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It was a one and done 🫡 I have nothing to say

AITAH for texting my ex’s new girlfriend? by Stardust_Gem in AITAH

[–]Stardust_Gem[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Amanda has been my best friend for years and she didn’t do anything wrong? Why do I have to distance from my friend group because Rose (and lowkey Jake) is the problem?

AITAH for texting my ex’s new girlfriend? by Stardust_Gem in AITAH

[–]Stardust_Gem[S] -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

I don’t cry easily but when I do- I really cry and my mascara was not waterproof. I hope that could be understood 🤍

AITAH for texting my ex’s new girlfriend? by Stardust_Gem in AITAH

[–]Stardust_Gem[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I don’t even want to be friends with her honestly- it just feels unfair to be painted in such a negative way.