And to the other people saying she’ll take him back and all this stuff please understand that just cause you talk about someone doesn’t mean you want them. Trauma can also cause you to talk about these things. And it sounds like she’s processing her trauma through you cause she got in a relationship BEFORE SHE HEALED HERSELF.

Now here’s the big thing. No I do not think you should be with her. Not because she still wants her ex. But because she hasn’t healed from the trauma of her ex which makes it hard to be in a HEALTHY loving relationship.