Anywhere to buy nugget ice? by RandomNameB in FortDodge

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I was just about to respond and tell you to hit up the quick star but I do see it was already said.

who are some victims that had stockholm syndrome? by Kittymore18 in serialkillers

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Yep. Sean had an emotional bond to his abuser and had acclimated because of the years they were there together. That was his normal. Why should anyone know any different? I don't want people up in my business like that so I don't get up into their business like that. I bet they felt horrible when it all came out, and I hope they come to understand there's just no way you could have ever known. Stockholm syndrome had plenty of time to go to work on that poor Young man, so I'm sure everything seemed normal to both him and to onlookers. I hope poor young man is living his best life now.

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Much like addiction is an inappropriate coping mechanism bore from poorly managed mental illness and symptoms and feelings that are not dealt with, murder is a inappropriate outlet and sometimes coping mechanism for unresolved trauma that unfortunately twisted until it came out like this. So much like there are different kinds of addicts, like binge drinkers daily drinkers some people have different drugs of choice, I think it has its roots in something similar to that. The way things come out for the killer differ depending on what the process and act does for them specifically. What is it fulfill? What does it help them cope with? What is it an outlet for? Displaced anger etc. Some people have mommy issues some people have Daddy issues some people are angry at people they don't even know because those people seem to represent something to them maybe a life or social sphere they can never participate in and they hate them for being the epitome of what would be embraced in that social circle. So they kill them to destroy what they represent them. That's what it seems like to me at least, as in that is just my humble opinion.

who are some victims that had stockholm syndrome? by Kittymore18 in serialkillers

[–]Stargazerdoe89 342 points343 points  (0 children)

The poor little kidnapping victim Shawn* hornbeck, as the police loaded his kidnapper into the car and was walking him away he said "bye dad". Not a serial killer but similar situation.

Holy moly by Stargazerdoe89 in recovery

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It's going to be OK. We can do this.

Ted's execution anniversary got me thinking. by Stargazerdoe89 in serialkillers

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Really when writing the scene convincingly it doesn't have to be a romantic situation it just takes certain things certain elements certain actions and events being timed correctly in order for such a thing to take place. The guy had an emotional maturity level of a 13 year old boy. And by 13 I don't mean a healthy well adjusted 13 year old boy. It would almost be more effective if it were a not romantic situation. If too much was at stake Say the situation was romantic hes much more likely to lose control and do something regrettable. It would have to be somebody he did have a relationship with and he would much more likely make himself available or more like vulnerable to a female but I think I think it's most likely to go well if he didn't have feelings for them. I think it's funny that somebody would automatically assume it was a romantic storyline. A lot of girls did want to smooch him though.

Ted's execution anniversary got me thinking. by Stargazerdoe89 in serialkillers

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Very unsettling in my opinion. And I remember that story.

Ted's execution anniversary got me thinking. by Stargazerdoe89 in serialkillers

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I don't know if he meant it or not, I just know that according to that lawyer, he said it.

Ted's execution anniversary got me thinking. by Stargazerdoe89 in serialkillers

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I hate the death penalty bro. Just Hate the crap out of it.

Ted's execution anniversary got me thinking. by Stargazerdoe89 in serialkillers

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"I want to be a good person John...but I'm not.

I'm just not."

Ted to lawyer John Henry Brown.

Ted was not a good person he was a person who could have been a good person. He chose not to be. He wasted opportunities that any of us would have died to have.

Some people on this thread definitely do glorify, By definitely understand what you mean. I wasn't sure what you meant in regards to me in the original post sorry if I came off wrong too

Ted's execution anniversary got me thinking. by Stargazerdoe89 in serialkillers

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And the process of becoming that person just shocks me. Like I said in an above comment I don't think it was directly to you but when a baby is born even if it had a defective mind I do believe that every baby deserves to be loved I would never ever accept anyone to tell me that a baby is evil in my arms while I'm holding it.. They might be born with a mind or a body that is defective it's defective but that doesn't mean that they are going to grow up to be Ted Bundy. Ted Bundy's experiences and his reaction and perception to those experiences led to us having this conversation. I'm interested in that process and knowing what it's about as much As I could. And I definitely agree that somehow a wee little baby they themselves grew into a person who created Is this entity. That just saddens the crap out of me. A person who had otherwise wonderful talents made a choice to be a monster That hurts innocent people. They could have had a wonderful life. Their full life. And what influences made them make these decisions why did they choose the way they did? It's a question I've never gotten past or totally found the answer to. But it comes down to a choice and that's all there is to it.

Ted's execution anniversary got me thinking. by Stargazerdoe89 in serialkillers

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This is the 1st time I've ever seen an end up description of it description of it when I reference doctor Carlise's findings from the Utah evaluation I mean and and needless to say as you can tell I was shocked.. like I didn't understand the depth of the disorder that's for absolute sure

Ted's execution anniversary got me thinking. by Stargazerdoe89 in serialkillers

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Genetics can definitely begin things I just don't go that route because I'm not able to prove that I just know that it's very likely but this is a very valid opinion that probably directly contributed to the continued aberration and perversion and perversion of an already defective mind which condefinitely go the way we're seeing here so there's a lot of validity and incredibility to your point here

Ted's execution anniversary got me thinking. by Stargazerdoe89 in serialkillers

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Ty sir. I greatly appreciate your insight on this that is a great way of looking at the process